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Dear respected astrologers,
I am going through a rough period in my carrer and also delay in marriage, i am involved in a relationship with a person out of my culture , but my parents are not agreeing to the marriage, pls help me find out if i will make my marriage happen this year or not??? im leaving in europe and my parents wants be back home and not to get married with him instead, pls help me...

My Details :
DOB : 29 July 1981
TOB : 21:57
POB : kelang , Malaysia

Thank you

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Shamini Ajakumar
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Dear shaminz81,

You will be successful in getting love married, As conjunction of Sun(7L) & Mercury(5L) with Rahu shows affairs & marriage with foriegner also permanent settlement in abroad. Some problems with progeny may be observed. Time after feb-2014 would be better for marriage & career.

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Dear Shaminiz
To help you further, it is advisable for you to give the birth details of
prospective partner to check compatibility, so as to give you more
confidence in your decision making.
Pardon me, are you male or female ?

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Thank you for your replies ...i will post his details for the compatibility, im a female.
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Dear respected astrologers,
This is my partner's birth detail, he doesn't know his time of birth it was not recorded at his birth certificate.
But here is the date and the place of birth. Please check our compatibility if it is possible...
DOB : 18 december 1976
POB : Iasi, Romania

Thank you in advance.
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Dear Shamini
Thanks for some details of your partner from his birth certificate.
Try and find out from his parents the time of birth as this will be very
much more helpful and accurate.

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Dear respected astrologers,
He tried asking his mother regarding his time of birth , but was saying that she she doesnt reacll the time of birth ...as i presume that part out, can you predict compatibility just with the date of birth and place of birth pls?

My partners Details :
DOB : 18 december 1976
POB : Iasi , Romania

My details:
DOB : 29 July 1981
TOB : 21:57
POB : Kelang, Malaysia

Thanking you in advance.

Regards,
Shaminz
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Hello Shamini
Please furnish me with the following information :
About You:
1. What is the Lagna or Rising Sign of your chart ?(Iam getting Pisces with Virgo in 7H)
2. What is the time difference between London(GMT) and Kelang/Malaysia in July ?
3. When did you migrate and to which country ?

About Him:
4. What is the time difference between London/GMT and Romania in December ?
5. When did he migrate to where you are at present ?
6. Was he married before or is this his first ?
7. What are his skills or profession ?

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Dear Pem,
1. My lagna is Pisces
2.GMT kelang malaysia : +8hrs which is 7 hours ahead of London
3. i did not migrate i was born in malaysia even my grandparents were born in malaysia, i left to romania in 2003 to do Medicine, i met him when i was doing my internship in May 2009 ,now im back in Romania doing my specialisation.

About him:
4. Romania is 2 hours ahead of london , GMT is +2 in december
5.He is born in Iasi , romania , he is a romanian, im in romania now
6.He was married before and has a kid
7. He is working with the internet firm

Thanks in advance.

Regards,
Shaminz
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Dear Shaminiz
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I seem to be having problems posting messages.
Thanks for the answers.
I am aware that you were born in Malaysia and have migrated now to Romania.
Can you please tell me the purpose of your travel - was it for studies, work related,
travel visit or marriage purpose ?

2. Are you the only daughter in the family, or do you have any other brothers/
sisters; and any others who are already married ?

This helps me to analyse the chart better and answer your question in my next. Thanks

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Dear Pem,
The purpose of travel to Romania was for Medicine, in 2003 , i had a relationship with a malaysian for 4 years and we broke up in 2006 he was also studying with me at that time in Romania, i did my internship after my medical school , in May 2009 , thats when i met him , my current romanian boyfriend. Now im back in Romania doing my specialisation.

Im not the only child for my parents, i have one sister and a brother, both are younger than me, and no one in the family is married . I am the eldest one.

Please analyse the chart and let me know if i will get married with my romanian partner, as i have also objection from my parents . :(

Thanking you in advance.

Shaminz
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Dear Shaminiz

Thanks for the answers.
You have now framed your question re marriage differently in your last post.
".....IF I will get married..." I cannot answer you this question.

I understood that you have a relationship and that "your
parents are not in favour of the marriage....." So I take it that he has proposed to you.
I have all along been trying to see the compatiblity of the two horoscopes even without
his accurate time of birth. Also looking into the foreign partnership connection.

Can you please tell me again if he has proposed to you and that you want to check the compatibility ?
Also, do you think you love him 10 out of 10 and do you think that he really loves and cares for you ?

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Dear Pem,
He has proposed to me, i love him very much , he is caring and loves me too. Pls check compatibilty.
Thank you very much.


regards,
shaminz
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Dear Shaminz

Thanks for reconfirming your question clearly to me.
Now is the Hour !
According to my intuitively guided analysis and based on some very
crucial and important factors of Vedic Astrology, I answer in the
affirmative as in my personal opinion your charts combined have a 70 (seventy)
per cent compatibility.
The salient features were some of the following factors :
1. Co incidence of time(dasah/bukthi) of encountering love with the Romanian partner;
2. Co-incidence with the oncoming Maha Dasa/Bukthi leading to possible marriage;
3. Your chart not revealing the chances of getting that unblemished, brand new typspouse;
4. Indication in the chart of marrying a foreigner/out of caste;
5. Finding your partner on your own through the medium of travel;
6. Good compatibility Moon signs which are essential in keeping the psychological and
well being for spousal relationship with regard to love, caring and feeling for another;
7. Finally, that you say that the two of you have the chemistry for each other.

Congratulations.
I shall come back in my next before I lose this post, with some more important informatio.

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....contd
Dear Shaminiz
The following information should also be noted:

After March 2011 - was approximate period of meeting this love.
Marriage time indications : After October 2013 - during the
Mahadasa of Mercury and subperiod of Mercury till February 2016.

Re: Objection from Parents :

Father is more deeply disappointed than Mother, it appears.
Your mother will always remain mother and will always keep the
family close together and will care for all her children and the father will
go along with her feelings. On hearing any news or seeing her first grandchild
will bring her and the family more closer.

The final decision is yours if you wish to get married to this person.

Some advice :
I strongly advise you to seek spiritual guidance for peace and harmony for
properity of your entire family. Daily prayers can do wonders when done in faith.
Do not forget your upbringing and your religious faith and do not wait to start praying
only when there is a rough patch or uphill climb along the journey. When the going is
good most people forget the Creator and think that life is going to be always rosy. So
arm yourself spiritually and take cover !

Your welcome to come back for Hindu astro remedial measures, or measures for any other
religious faith.

We on this forum will be interested how you get along in this regard.

I wish you the Almighty's special blessings in your future aspirations.

Regards - Pem
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Dear Pem,
Thank you so much for the reply, I appreciate it very much, I will take your advice regarding this matter as i need some support from astrological point of view regarding this matter, i am a beleiver in astrology and had a keen interest in it about 4 years ago , i needed this confirmation to go ahead with my decisions , this means a lot to me, thank you again , i am a beleiver in God , i pray to Lord Vishnu but my partner is not much of a religious person, but i still continue my faith . I hope for a positive answer to this matter.

Regards,
Shaminz
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Dear Shaminz

I appreciate your thanks and satisfaction.
As requested, shall send you posts from time to time re divine protection
to support you and those with you in life's path.

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Dear Shaminz

I kindly refer you to my profile in which there is post in this forrum on the topic :
Mantras for planets - hope this will be of use to you.
I am going to surface it to the top for your convenience.

Shall send you the planets in your chart needing attention.

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Functional Malefics of your chart :
Venus, Saturn, Sun, Rahu and Ketu.

Moon, Jupiter, & Mercury are benefics.

Mars is a functional benefic.


As you stated that you are studying vedic astrology, the above may vary
depending on the astrology system you are following.
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Dear Pem,
Thank you so much on the information. I had referred to the page that you have mention, i would also like to add in a certain issue that was bothering me or more to say my parents regarding the marriage to my foreign partner.
On the Day he propose to me to get married , My father had a car accident , my father did not get hurt , but the car was damaged badly...and after the repair within 3 days there was another accident, so that was why my parents was saying its a BAD OMEN !!! all together, and beleive in that God doesnt want tis to happen.

Please give your point of view regarding this .

Thanking you in advance.

Shaminz
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Kindly give the date he proposed, the dates of first and second accident.

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Dear Pem,
My father had the 1st accident on 8th of july 2013 and shortly after that 2nd accident on the 15 july 2013,
My parents strongly believe its a bad sign, i dont know what to say.
I have no so good relationship either with both my parents in the emotional way, for about 10 years now i have been abroad all my life, and meet them once yearly, they prefer my siblings then me.
I respect and care for my father, but i have to say that i dont agree mostly with him in many angles of life, to my family im just strange and out-casted girl, who wants her freedom and doesnt follow the family rules and traditions.
All my relatives both father and mother cousins got married except us, me and my sister we are the ones still left , my bother is still young ...but my father get all sorts of questionaires from both friends and relatives on why he still didnt bother to talk marriage or get the daughter married yet. He still doesnt care, and likes to dominate us and doenst give freedom of live.
I have doubts about my fathers astrology regarding his kids, can u pls check his astology if it says that he is the major problem on his kids getting to a married life, since he doesnt care about it despite people are asking around , about his acts.

Father's Birth Details :
DOB : 23 July 1953
TOB : 02.30 AM
POB : Kelang , Malaysia

Thanking you in advance.

Shaminz
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The date my romanian partner propose to me was on the 8th july 2013 .
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Dear Pem,
Pls tell me if the accidents and the day of proposal is a indication of a bad omen and the marriage shud not happen???

Shaminz
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