Pem Ji - Please help.

[Pelle]

I have previously posted a query. The link is given below.

http://www.lightonvedicastrology.com/ph ... 18&t=18818

Could you kindly give me your analysis of this situation.

[Pem]

Hello Pelle
To help me analyse your case better, kindly answer a few questions :

1. When did you migrate to Finland ?
2. When did you marry the Finnish Lady ?
3. Have you any children ?
4. What have you done to upset your wife - be sincere ?
5. Do you have any vices - e.g. drinking, gambling etc ?
6. What religion were you born to and do you practice your faith truthfully ?
7. Are you still keeping in touch with your wife and paying attention to her
at special times and dates and showing her that you still care for her and love her,
and no other woman ? Do you send her flowers, special cards etc ?
8. Are you wearing any gemstones ?

Regards - Pem

[Pelle]

Hello Pem ji

1. When did you migrate to Finland ?
I have not imigrated to Finland. We live in Norway. I met my wife in 1988 in Norway while I was a student. We emigrated to Canada in 1994 and decided to move back to Norway in 2008

2. When did you marry the Finnish Lady ?
We got married in 1994

3. Have you any children ?
We have 2 boys born in 1997 and 2000

4. What have you done to upset your wife - be sincere ?
Moving back to Norway was a very stressful period. Any way we can discuss this in PM?

5. Do you have any vices - e.g. drinking, gambling etc ?
Social drinker and do not gamble at all.

6. What religion were you born to and do you practice your faith truthfully ?
I am liberal Hindu. I believe in god.

7. Are you still keeping in touch with your wife and paying attention to her
at special times and dates and showing her that you still care for her and love her,
and no other woman ? Do you send her flowers, special cards etc ?
I suppose I could have been better at this. I care a lot about my wife.

8. Are you wearing any gemstones ?
No gemstones or any other jewelry at all.

Hope this answers your questions

[Pem]

Dear Pelle

The 2 horoscopes make a nice couple.
She has a domineering Moon sign and she needs to be the boss;
as you have a tactful moon you can cope with this.
You went through a crazy period of Saturn/Rahu from March 2010 and
have now come out of it.
It took its toll when your wife came into Jupiter/Saturn from August 2011
and which will last till February 2014. Saturn is a functional malefic in her chart and
is causing a strong malefic aspect 1 degree away from the most effective point of the house
marriage. Give her time to get over this period and be at your best this can be reconciled.

Keep in mind that the children are now grown up and can look after themselves. You have been
given one chance, I hope, and that this will not happen again during challenging planetary periods.

In your chart, your most harmful Moon is afflicting, to a certain extent,
the significator of domestic peace and marital harmony - Venus.
It is necessary to pray and meditate to Lord Siva and Parvathy Devi and Mahalakshmi Devi.
Do also some charitable deeds and recite mantras given in my posts.
After 18 years endeavour not to take things for granted - keep the fire alight always.
If you you have done wrong, own up, say your sorry, and ask pardon. You are the father of
her children and she is a very sensible and just person.
Now you know how much you miss and love your wife.

Now its time for your action by seeking spiritual help.

I wish you happiness and await to hear your favourable testimony on this forum in due time.

Regards - Pem

[Pelle]

Dear Pem Ji,
Thank you very much for your prediction.
You had mentioned that from March 2010, I had the influence of Saturn / Rahu. Could you kindly verify this because I thought I had the moon/mercury period. If so would this change the prediction?

I will surely keep you informed on any progress.

[Pem]

Dear Pelle
Thanks for pointing out. Pardon me.
You are right. In your Moon Dasa, especially in the Venus Bukthi
you could have problems from Feb 2011. Moon is the most malefic
planet in your chart, owning the 8H in Cancer. Venus is in the
nakshatra of Rahu and this could have caused problems being close
to your Mars in the 11H. Mars is somewhat weak and Venus is quite
strong there.
You have now come out of worst period since end April 2013 and have
entered Mars Mahadasa which is a benefic for your chart, but Mars is
somewhat weak.
Do pray to Murugan/Subramaniam/Karthik and do
some mantras and, also, Mahalakshmi Devi; Mercury - Lord Vishnu - which
is lord of the 7H that is combust. Also strengthen your Lagna Lord - Jupiter,
pray to Lord Siva and Parvathy, which covers you for blessings from Sun & Moon.

Things should get better for you with spiritual action. For your wife, I have
already given the timing for her to finish that difficult period.

Trust this clarifies the Dasa period now.
Regards - Pem

[Pem]

Addition:
I forgot to mention that Saturn, in your wife's chart, is not only harming the 7H of
marriage but also aspecting the 2H of family equally, till this Saturn sub-period is over.

[Pem]

Dear Pelle
I have used 8 Dec 1963, @ 0315 Hrs;Oulu, Finland as her birth details .
I have to take back the comment that : the 2 of you make a nice couple astrologically.
You have a Cancer Moon and she has Leo Moon.
She seems to be a regal type of person with strong ego, dignity, and of fixed mind.
To her disadvantage, she is manglik in the 4H, the house of domestic peace and
marital harmony. You are not manglik (the difference) If at all, it is she who ends up being the victim.
Saturn, Mars, and Sun are functional malefic planets for this chart of hers.
She has not experienced Saturn MD in her life yet; but Saturn sub-ruler has dominated
over a weak Jupiter planet and its MD. Saturn is a long term planet and is a separator.
Furthermore, Saturn has been hovering over some time in Libra, the 2H of family, going back and forth,
and this has further put a lot of stress in this area of her life.
If everything works out well at the end of her Saturn subperiod its a miracle and there
is a 50/50 chance. I can give no guarantee. Now only prayers and meditation can
help mitigate the situation on your part.

I wish you blessings, comfort and peace - regards - Pem

[Pelle]

Dear Pem Ji,
Once again I thank you for your prediction.
Is there any indication of marital happiness or a second marriage in my future?

Will the current Mars dasha bring happiness to my life?

[Pem]

Dear Pelle

I have answered your main query.
Mars is a benefic for your chart, but is weak in the state of infancy.
In the MD of Mars when strong functional malefics enter sub rulership, like Venus in the
nak. of Rahu asp. Mars, it could give problems. So charge up your spiritual batteries and
be more devoted.
Regards - Pem