Green card and new home

[anushree44]

Hello,

My husband's green card application is being processed and it will take minimim 4 years from now ..


:Query :
Will there be any delay problems with GC such that we are sent back to India ?
Will the home buying decision create major financial problems for us in future?
When is the best time recommended to buy a house if not moving in sept 2013?


Regards,

[basab14]

Hello Anushree,

Your husband's chart:

As per his chart, he is running the Mercury-Mars period now. Mars, the significator of properties, is in the 4th house of properties/home, so the birth chart shows he will buy a property now. In the D-4 chart, which is checked for home/properties, Mars is again in the 4th house. Transit wise Jupiter is in the 4th house of properties now, and Saturn is aspecting the 4th lord, Venus, which further indicates it. So birth chart wise buying a house now is indicated, definitely.

His chart doesn't show a very strong indication for staying abroad, permanently. Malefic Mars in the 4th and 4th lord, Venus, with Rahu indicates it, but then, it's not such a strong indication; otherwise, I am not seeing any strong indication, which can mean his settling abroad. So I can't say definitely that he will stay abroad, permanently. In fact, as he will be running the period of 2nd lord, Jupiter, 4 years later, when he is supposed to get the green card, it can mean his coming back to India as period of 2nd lord of family brings one back to his family.

Coming to wealth indications, in his chart 2nd and 11th lord are in the 8th house, and 9th lord is in the 6th house, so there can be wealth related problems sometime later in his life. What is worrying is is the fact that he will start his Rahu sub-period next, which is in the 6th house with 6th lord, Moon, and 4th and 9th lord, Venus. It can mean a lot of stress and difficulties for him. So I will say that he should save try to save money now as there can be financial difficulties later on.

Your chart:

As per your chart, you are running Jupiter-Mars period now. Mars, the significator of home/properties, is with 4th lord (home and properties), Saturn, in your chart, which shows your buying a home now. In the D-4 chart of properties, Jupiter is with 4th lord Mars there, so both Jupiter and Mars, the major and sub period lords indicate buying a property. Jupiter is aspecting the 4th lord, Saturn in your chart in transit, which also indicates it.

Coming to staying abroad, permanently, I am not seeing any strong indication of that in your chart. Natural malefics in the 2 house of family means staying away from home, which is there in your chart, but that is the only indication I am seeing in the chart, which I am not sure will keep you abroad, permanently. 4 years later, when you are supposed to get the green card, you will be running the major period of 4th lord of home, Saturn, which is in the 2nd lord of family, with 2nd lord, Mars, which can mean you will come back to India.

Coming to wealth, there are strong wealth combinations in your chart, like 2nd lord Mars in the 2nd house with 5th lord, Saturn, and ascendant lord, Venus in the 5th house, with 11th lord, Sun, and natural significator of wealth, Jupiter. You will be getting the sub-period of Rahu next, whose dispositor, Mars is in the 2nd house of wealth, which shows there won't be financial problems, and your next major period of Saturn, is involved in a wealth combination with 2nd lord, Mars in the 2nd house of wealth, so it shows no finanical problems again. So maybe your husband may face some financial problems some time later, but your chart promising sound financial position, there won't be any serious financial problem as far as I am seeing it.

[anushree44]

Hello Yellow,

Really appreciate your time and effort on this detailed explanation.Thank you.

Hoping for the best.

Regards,

[basab14]

Hello Anushree,

I can understand you both want to settle abroad as you both have been trying hard for that. I hope that happens.

Coming to your husband, yes, the period of Rahu will be difficult for him. Rahu will give him enemies, debts, struggles, problems in the domestic front, problems in married life, leading to a lot of stress and unhappiness, so he has to be careful now that he is about to get into rough weather in the near future and be prepared for that mentally and financially. I am sorry if I am getting you worried, but then, you are a good astrologer yourself and can understand that I am not exaggerating when I am saying what I am saying.

I agree with you that you are also running through a bad time now and not being able to support him as you would have liked to. Saturn and Rahu transiting on your natal Moon and Ketu are showing the emotional turmoil you are going through now. It is a bad transit for you. You are running a good period though of Jupiter-Mars, so things won’t turn that bad. Mars as 2nd lord in the 2nd house can mean gains for you. You are saying you are not working presently, so maybe you will gain from properties (paternal/maternal properties you have in India) as your Mars is with your 4th lord, Saturn.

Mars in the 2nd house of family conjunct the 4th lord Saturn in your chart can mean conflicts for you in domestic life. Saturn is the 5th lord of mind also, and being with Mars, it can mean you will turn very aggressive and lose your temper and enter into conflicts with people a lot now. So try to keep a check on your temper and don’t get into conflicts with anyone is all I can advice you now.

Things will become much better for you when Saturn and Rahu leave your Moon in transit. Rahu period won’t be bad for you. It is the transits, which is so damaging right now for you. I am not sure how long you have planned to study, but if you look for a job in your Rahu period, I think you will get it as Rahu is aspected by 10th lord, Moon in your chart.

Coming to buying a home, it will happen in his Mars period, which is there till December 2013. Your Mars period also shows it. So this year you will buy a house, I feel, as you have planned.

[bob_astrologer]

Anushree,

I was looking at your chart. Yellow has done an amazing analysis of your chart. I happened to read astroboy's thread on KAL SARPA DOSHA. You have this yoga in your chart. Rahu anatardasha also starting now. Better be careful.

[anushree44]

Knowing a bit of astrology may not save me a great amount of pain,but it does give me a great amount of hope. I do not know too much,nor do I want to know,its tough retaining the lessons I learn each day.but knowing qualities of each planet can help us discover ourselves more. Its like a SWOT analysis.

[anushree44]

Hello Yellow,

My 2nd house gains that you are talking about may related to this new home here. Other wise there has been nothing so far. Maternal/ Paternal properties were last years gains.my mother constructed a new house and we also surprisingly got back our disputed paternal ancestral properties.

Regards,

[basab14]

Anushree,

Your Rahu is very well placed in your chart, so its period doing you good is no surprise. K.N. Rao has mentioned in many of his articles that there is no such yoga called KSY mentioned in any of the astrology classics, so I don’t think it’s something to worry about when it comes to your chart.

Your ascendant lord, Venus, placed in the 5th house of education, Sun, the 11th lord of achievements, also placed there, and Jupiter, the significator of learning placed there, too, shows your being good in studies. Your 5th lord, Saturn, is well placed in the 2nd house with 7th lord, Mars, forming a raja yoga. But then, Saturn is in an enemy sign, with enemy Mars, and Mercury another significator of education is debilitated in the 6th house, so some problems in respect to education should have happened sometime. But as you are saying it never happened, we have to assume that the stronger points in the chart in respect to education overrode the negative points in it.

Coming to your father’s death, I am sorry about that. 9th lord, Mercury, debilitated in the 6th house of your chart could mean that. Coming to your learning astrology and palmistry and about religion in the Jupiter period, well, it makes sense as Jupiter is the planet of astrology and religion and palmistry and placed in the 5th house of learning in your chart. I also got into astrology in my Venus-Jupiter period, with Jupiter aspecting my 5th house of education.

Your Ketu period was bad as it is with your Moon, the planet of emotions. It may have been very stressful for you in respect to your career as Moon is your 10th lord as well. Your Moon period could have been stressful again, making you worry about your career. Sade-sati with Moon period on can be very stressful. And now with Rahu and Saturn on your Moon, no wonder it is very stressful for you, as you have mentioned. It reminds me of my Sade-sathi, with my Rahu sub-period running, Rahu being with Moon at very close degrees. It was very stressful for me, and in the third leg of Sade-sathi, Rahu moved over my natal Moon on transit, and it was terrible again. So I know what you mean when you talk about difficulty in this Sade-sathi period for you. But the thing is, once Saturn and Rahu will leave your Moon, you will feel an immense relief. I think when Saturn is on one’s natal Moon that is the worst phase of the Sade-sathi, there being three phases in it.

Continued in next post...

[basab14]

Coming to marrying the person you love, irrespective of your husband’s birth chart indicating the struggles that you both are going through now, well, I think you took the right decision. When one is in love, one shouldn’t bother about whether the charts are matching or not. And then, what is destined does happen, as you rightly said—one can’t change it, so why bother about match-making and stuff like that when it will not help anyway? I remember my friend had come to me to for match making of two charts: of his sister, and the person she was going to marry with. I saw the charts, and with my little knowledge said that the charts didn’t match. I was told by my friend that the reputed astrologers of our city had said that the charts matched, and they should go ahead. I wondered then why was I asked to match the charts when I would not be listened to, anyway. I told him the charts didn’t match, but what was destined had to happen: she got married to the guy, and a week after marriage she called me and said she had left her husband and would give him a divorce! So how did the match-making of charts by the reputed astrologers help! Destiny blinded them to the fact that the charts didn’t match and made me realize it, knowing well, that my warning wouldn’t be listened to.

I will give you the example of another person. She is an online friend of mine. I had predicted problems in married life for her and asked her to match her chart properly with the chart of the person she would marry. She did get the charts matched, but now when we talk she says matching charts are meaningless as she is suffering all the time in her married life, in spite of going for match-making of charts. I told her, I had said before only, her married life would be troublesome, so she would have to face her destiny.

‘Buying a house’ can be the gain in your Mars period as you said. That is maybe what is being indicated. I am not sure why gains in respect to properties happened in your Moon period. Maybe there is some subtle link, which will be found if the chart is closely analyzed.

I think this Mars period is favourable for your clearing exams related to finance, which you are preparing for now as Mars is in the 2nd house of finance with the 5th lord of education, Saturn. But then, as you rightly said, Moon being disturbed in transit now, by Saturn and Rahu, it will be difficult for you to focus on your studies, and health issues is there for you now because Mars is the 2nd and 7th lord for you.

You are doing well, by keeping your temper in check. This is the advantage of knowing astrology—one knows what one should do when. It is difficult, I am sure, with Mars, the planet of temper and aggression, being so dominant in your chart, but then, Saturn will be mighty pleased with your effort to learn the lessons that you are supposed to learn in this Sade-sathi and may be lenient to you a bit.

Let Jupiter move to Gemini, your 9th house, it will give you some relief, as you have rightly said in one of your previous posts. Jupiter is your major period lord, and it is in the 8th house now, so when it moves to your 9th house, it will give you some relief, I am sure. Its aspect on your ascendant from there and on your 5th house will give you some relief in respect to your health, will make you feel positive, and will also help in your studies.

[anushree44]

Thank you for your opinion. You are a good astrologer but I am not asking you to give me reasons for everything I say
So far what has happened I very well know why, and don't need more reasons. Past is always a learning experience and future is what we look forward to.

And btw being an astrologer you should know that one should never go too deep in ones chart,even if its your own. I have some answers for my own chart but getting different opinions abt my future period is always welcome and appreciated. Both Positive and negative comments I have had all from different kinds of astrologers, for each person has a different reading style,some pretend to know too much, some are really learned, some throw a stone and it hits by fluke, some start throwing stones at me instead of guiding and some are well very intuitive and healing kinds.but now it doesn't make any effect on me.

That's the reason I also don't hesitate in posting my details and life experiences on a public forum like this. It's a learning and if people can learn from my mistakes,lessons and experiences its a good thing.
Well again thank you for your insight on this.Thanks for sharing experiences on your sade sati. I understand that you being a libra lagna you have sailed in a similar boat.

Coming back to the title, the GC will take time till 2016 or later may be,home decision I have left on my hubby.Whatever I have understood is that transits are bad but I think I will be fine eventually at the other side of this dark tunnel

[basab14]

I am sorry I wrote a detailed reply to your post, trying to explain everything you said astrologically. I was just trying to figure our the astrological reason for all that you shared, and just thought of sharing it here, hoping it will benefit the forum in some way. I will delete it, if you want me to. Thanks for sharing your thoughts on your chart... that helped me understand it much better.

[anushree44]

You don't have to be sorry. You are a very good astrologer and I appreciate your time and predictions.
I understand you were only trying to prove it astrologically correct!But what I wanted to say is we are heading away from the thread topic.

My only point was it's very easy to digress from the topic.so lets not go into validating every event in history when my birth time has already been rectified.there is no need for that.
My questions have been answered on the green card and new home queries.

Thanks for all the help.
Will keep your pointers in mind.

Regards,

[anushree44]

I am sorry I wrote a detailed reply to your post, trying to explain everything you said astrologically. I was just trying to figure our the astrological reason for all that you shared, and just thought of sharing it here, hoping it will benefit the forum in some way. I will delete it, if you want me to. Thanks for sharing your thoughts on your chart... that helped me understand it much better.

You don't have to delete anything.
I didn't mean to disrespect your advice or time spent on the detailed readings ..
There are many other people who need your time and I appreciate your generosity.
You don't have to figure out the astrological reasons for everything. Sometimes you will not find them even if I tell you my whole life biography day by day I m sure you yourself have not able a me to find the answers to your questions about your chart,even though no one else knows more about you than yourself.

Anyways it was nice interacting with you Basab after a long time.

Will surely keep you updated on the GC n home.

Thank you once again.

Regards,

[basab14]

I understand what you mean. I should have chosen my words more carefully, so that it didn’t sound negative. I am not good at doing that when it comes to giving readings: I just tell what I see. But I agree it is my shortcoming. I will remember your point and in future won’t give a reading when I don’t have something positive to say. Thanks for pointing it out to me. I appreciate it. And I agree I was digressing from the topic of the thread, which was about the questions you had asked. I shouldn’t have replied to your later posts as you had not asked for astrological reasons for them.

Yes, I agree with you that it's impossible to find out everything about one's life from one's chart. And I agree I have not been able to understand many things about my chart. So it's true that one shouldn't get into a deep analysis of charts as you have rightly said.

Coming to giving readings to others on the forum, the thing is, I don't do astrology much these days. I have kind of lost interest in it, but in spite of that I have in the last one month given readings to many people here on this forum, but that on the chat room here, so most people who don't go to the chat room are not aware of it. But I am planning to cut down on that now. Otherwise, I give reading to people whose charts I have seen before and because I have answered your posts a couple of times earlier and have interacted with you too, a few times, so I thought of replying to you this time. That's it. And after that when you wrote more, I thought of checking the chart in more detail, to see if astrology wise it was making sense and because I saw it in details, I thought of sharing my analysis on the forum thinking it would maybe help astrology learners in some way. That was all there to it.

It was nice interacting with you, too.

[bob_astrologer]

anushree44 » Fri May 10, 2013 8:40 am

Hello Yellow( a.k.a BASAB)

Rahu will give him enemies, debts, struggles, problems in the domestic front, problems in married life, leading to a lot of stress and unhappiness.

Before marriage these things were predicted, but saying “No” to marriage wasn’t in my hands and i got married because of love not because of a chart.if life had to be this way,if would have been even if i wasnt married.If I look back I don’t regret it as I got the share of what I was destined to and i love him to believe that I was put here to help him get through all this.I don’t know how much I will be successful with my attempts to do good. but I realize that he needs my support mentally and financially but I am handcuffed atleast till I get a job.All i can do is not erupt like a volcano since i have to take care of him.Whatever it is we both are destined to go through this together.

My 2nd house gains that you are talking about may related to this new home here. Other wise there has been nothing so far. Maternal/ Paternal properties were last years gains.my mother constructed a new house and we also surprisingly got back our disputed paternal ancestral properties without any conflict/litigation/demands from our side,these were taken over by our uncle.

My rahu in 7th and his Rahu in 6th with moon,makes it emotionally very difficult with spontaneously occurring events that we cant even predict. Stress is high for both of us while rahu pulls the strings of our minds. My 2nd house mars with 4th lord Saturn while his 4th house mars is a reason for the domestic conflicts sometimes very emotionally disturbing. I am keeping the aggression at bay by not reacting, because responding makes it worse. Keeping myself busy with studies is the best to redirect my mind, but concentration is lacking,and health issues are taking a toll with fatigue, joint problems and restlessness.
I have come a long way in the last one year,there is no one to comfort me,infact I have to be the parent for myself and my hubby. Knowing that things will go wrong I am on my toes.Its good to be careful but as you said its an emotional turmoil. Ketu is chewing my brains off!

Yes,you are correct,I want Saturn and rahu to leave my poor moon,so my mind doesn’t feel hijacked anymore. About studies,I planned CFA exam this june 1st,but I am confidently failing. I don’t know if I should enroll again and reappear for the next attempt in dec. Because I had ambitiously planned and enrolled by this june exam myself last aug 2012. But things, circumstances, and my mind has changed so much that it has never been so impossible this way for me to concentrate.I have lost it and accepted failure already.

This year and last year visa seats were over in a jiffy,my hubby advised me to enroll into college for MS like all the wives do here,but my decision was to stick to cheaper CFA home study plans than the expensive college admission that would hit our pockets especially the home plans. I already have a MS in finance,so I want to pursue this advanced study program that I was dying to do all this time. But now for a otherwise hardworking competitive and ambitious me, I cant believe what I am doing. i am just going to watch myself fail this June since I haven’t studied. I so wanted this exam but my mind and circumstances are just not with me. I cant retain what I study,I cant focus and concentrate,I am not giving excuses but I have never found myself so helpless before.So I quit and waiting for this period to pass so I have control of my mind and can achieve things I want. I feel brain-dead now. I will wait till june before i enroll for another course in risk management that i wish to complete by march 2014 so that I can apply for h1b visa with it on my CV.but this is not a time for decisions,so i will wait.

This home is the new happiness that im looking for,I hope atleast things work out well atleast in this regard.We both have miserable things happening,atleast this would bring us some thing to be happy about.

Regards,

[anushree44]

I understand what you mean. I should have chosen my words more carefully, so that it didn’t sound negative. I am not good at doing that when it comes to giving readings: I just tell what I see. But I agree it is my shortcoming. I will remember your point and in future won’t give a reading when I don’t have something positive to say.

Thanks for pointing it out to me. I appreciate it. And I agree I was digressing from the topic of the thread, which was about the questions you had asked. I shouldn’t have replied to your later posts as you had not asked for astrological reasons for them.

Yes, I agree with you that it's impossible to find out everything about one's life from one's chart. And I agree I have not been able to understand many things about my chart. So it's true that one shouldn't get into a deep analysis of charts as you have rightly said.

It was nice interacting with you, too.

I reiterate that your analysis was correct and you gave me hope. Infact I also said above that I will keep in mind your pointers. I understand some people ask for predictions and then can't digest it.

Thanks for the highlighting the strengths and weaknesses of this period.
I hope u got my message and that this was not directed at you in particular.it was a general comment.
Like when we talk abt my Sade sati I also have the right to talk abt Sade sati in general of other people. Similarly I thought I should share this with you.But I apologise if my message was conveyed in the wrong manner and something that I didn't intend to.

You are a very good astrologer and you Have been here for years and seen so many cases..
I do not doubt your astrological skills infact as I said you are very helpful and generous giving free readings to people.so I only made a point about you not spending so much time on my chart in depth with detailed explanations and helping the others instead.

Basab, before some other people comment on this and make a big issue out of all this.. And you know how the thread just goes on and on.Lets simply close this thread and not dramatize this.

Thanks once again.
Good luck
Regards,

[anushree44]

anushree44 » Fri May 10, 2013 8:40 am
Hello Yellow( a.k.a BASAB)
Rahu will give him enemies, debts, struggles, problems in the domestic front, problems in married life, leading to a lot of stress and unhappiness.
Before marriage these things were predicted, but saying “No” to marriage wasn’t in my hands and i got married because of love not because of a chart.if life had to be this way,if would have been even if i wasnt married.If I look back I don’t regret it as I got the share of what I was destined to and i love him to believe that I was put here to help him get through all this.I don’t know how much I will be successful with my attempts to do good. but I realize that he needs my support mentally and financially but I am handcuffed atleast till I get a job.All i can do is not erupt like a volcano since i have to take care of him.Whatever it is we both are destined to go through this together.
Regards,

Thanks for highlighting that.
Transits affect us mentally,and I have no shame in saying that.
Thats why most of us are here on LOVA including some astrologers.
if you are making fun of me,god will take care of you also.

I appreciated Basab for his generosity,knowledge and feedback.
But I have nothing to say to you.


Regards,

[basab14]

Anushree,

You are taking me wrongly. I took your advices in the right spirit. It’s just your goodness, which is making you worry that I felt hurt by your words—when it is not at all like that. And you don’t need to tell me sorry at all because you didn’t say anything wrong. Believe me, I am not upset one bit by anything you have said.

Coming to astrology, I don’t know much in it either. I have read a bit, that’s it, so don’t praise me so much about my astrology skills.

I am not replying in details as I agree with you it is pointless to drag this thread unnecessarily, but then, once more I would like to say, I didn’t feel bad at all with anything you said so please don’t worry at all in that regard.

[bob_astrologer]

anushree44 » Sat May 11, 2013 7:54 am

Thanks for highlighting that.
Transits affect us mentally,and I have no shame in saying that.
Thats why most of us are here on LOVA including some astrologers.
if you are making fun of me,god will take care of you also.

I appreciated Basab for his generosity,knowledge and feedback.
But I have nothing to say to you.

Get real gal, transits affects only 5% in life. You are running malefic Jupiter period and then malefic Saturn mahadasha will come in life. Saturn is bad in scorprio and is not welcomed in that house either.

[anushree44]

Where did u derive the 5% from ? Any reference?

I think planets in different rashis at birth affect our overall life and during transits these planets get activated in those areas where the planet is placed.

I choose to differ in respect to your statement that transits affect only 5%. It's a debatable number and I am not good at percentages

I agree Jupiter is my 6th lord but Jupiter doesn't do much harm its a benefic plant generally.the characteristic of a badly placed Jupiter can't be compared with a malefic mars or some other planet.

I agree saturn in in Scorpio my 2nd house of his dire enemy mars but Saturn is yogakarak for me,and even being with his enemy he will do some good deal to my 2nd house of gains and finances.

And Thank you for your opinion.

Regards,

[bob_astrologer]

anushree44 » Mon May 13, 2013 7:28 am

Where did u derive the 5% from ? Any reference?

I think planets in different rashis at birth affect our overall life and during transits these planets get activated in those areas where the planet is placed.

I choose to differ in respect to your statement that transits affect only 5%. It's a debatable number and I am not good at percentages

I agree Jupiter is my 6th lord but Jupiter doesn't do much harm its a benefic plant generally.the characteristic of a badly placed Jupiter can't be compared with a malefic mars or some other planet.

I agree saturn in in Scorpio my 2nd house of his dire enemy mars but Saturn is yogakarak for me,and even being with his enemy he will do some good deal to my 2nd house of gains and finances.

And Thank you for your opinion.

Regards,

Oh I missed "1" in front of 5%. Usually, KN Rao had said that transits affects 10 to 15% in transits.
Both Kn Rao and Amitabh Bachchan are running sade sati and yet they are having good times. They are both running good House Lords periods of Venus. So where is the effect of Sade-Sati in their lives? Dhoni is running sade-sati, so why he is happy all the times?

Jupiter is a Planet and Not "Plant" as you wrote in your last post. Atleast set aside some ego in front of Planets.

Jupiter is your functional malefic planet for you and the reason for your mess in your life. Otherwise, you won't be crying in your posts.

You will know about saturn period when Mahadasha starts. Good Luck!

[anushree44]

anushree44 » Mon May 13, 2013 7:28 am

Oh I missed "1" in front of 5%. Usually, KN Rao had said that transits affects 10 to 15% in transits.
Both Kn Rao and Amitabh Bachchan are running sade sati and yet they are having good times. They are both running good House Lords periods of Venus. So where is the effect of Sade-Sati in their lives? Dhoni is running sade-sati, so why he is happy all the times?

Jupiter is a Planet and Not "Plant" as you wrote in your last post. Atleast set aside some ego in front of Planets.

Jupiter is your functional malefic planet for you and the reason for your mess in your life. Otherwise, you won't be crying in your posts.

You will know about saturn period when Mahadasha starts. Good Luck!

Thanks but no thanks for your KN Rao gyan Aseem AKA Bob_astrologer.
If you were a true astologer you would have not made fun of others with fake ids.
sounds like only a mars conjunct ketu will make a person say what is underlined above.

Moderators please take care of Bob, he continues to be abusive and offending.