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champeya
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Learned Astrologers,

Please help this woman, if she ever gets married. If delay,when will she get married ? And insights on the nature and occupation of the spouse would be very helpful.

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Why was she cheated in all of her relationships? Be it romantic/friendship/family/professional relationshiatps. Though she is a down to earth & carefree person, she is facing, cousins backbiting, defamation etc. She never pokes her nose into other's business but somehow she is being defamed without any mistake of hers.

Is it because of Ragu exaltation in 7th house?

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Dear Champeya ji,

On a quick look I see malefics in three Kendras which creates struggles in different spheres of life (no benefic relief in Kendra houses either) and then having all 7 planets in three houses adds to it. These two yogas gives struggles and delays to get to what they want. It must be hard for others to comprehend her frame of mind.

Others may answer your other questions.

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Hello Champeya

The 8H of this Chart has a lot to say:
It is ruled by Moon, the most malefic planet of this chart. It covers matters
relating to disgrace, disappointments, blame, etc. The Moon is malefic, weak in
strength and is in association with Jupiter, the Lord of her Ascendant.
Furthermore, the dispositor, Venus, which rules this mooltrikona sign
is combust and very weak. This is apart from other negative planetary influences.
Rahu is having a very close 5th negative aspect on the Moon as well from 7H.
Hence these unpleasant experiences and complaints.

Spiritual remedial measures will help strengthen and alleviate such complaints,
if the person strongly believes in it.

Upto October 2014 the present planetary influence is not favourable.
The person can be advised to be aware of this and act accordingly.

Regards - Pem
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rathore wrote:Dear Champeya ji,

On a quick look I see malefics in three Kendras which creates struggles in different spheres of life (no benefic relief in Kendra houses either) and then having all 7 planets in three houses adds to it. These two yogas gives struggles and delays to get to what they want. It must be hard for others to comprehend her frame of mind.

Others may answer your other questions.

Rathore
Dear Rathore, Thank you for the kind reply. I'll definitely let her know of these. Yes sir, the people around her does not understand her properly.
For Ex: Her actual problem is she does not know what should she expect from a marriage, but the people around her perceive that she is headstrong because she is employed etc etc. She loves the way she is, her work & her home, she is not even bothered that she should get married. Once in a while she feels that she does not have a partner, but then its only momentary pain.The perceptions of people are different. They are jealous of her career achievements and cause trouble to her in a one way or the other..

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Pem wrote:Hello Champeya

The 8H of this Chart has a lot to say:
It is ruled by Moon, the most malefic planet of this chart. It covers matters
relating to disgrace, disappointments, blame, etc. The Moon is malefic, weak in
strength and is in association with Jupiter, the Lord of her Ascendant.
Furthermore, the dispositor, Venus, which rules this mooltrikona sign
is combust and very weak. This is apart from other negative planetary influences.
Rahu is having a very close 5th negative aspect on the Moon as well from 7H.
Hence these unpleasant experiences and complaints.

Spiritual remedial measures will help strengthen and alleviate such complaints,
if the person strongly believes in it.

Upto October 2014 the present planetary influence is not favourable.
The person can be advised to be aware of this and act accordingly.

Regards - Pem
Dear Pem, Thank you for the kind reply. She has many unpleasant experiences but her nature is; she is not deterred by all of these experiences, infact as I feel she is a very strong woman. In such a situation she always says, this is fate and one has to go through this. I have not seen her having grudge against those who are trying to cause troubles to her.

I'll definitely convey this to her. What are kind of spiritual remedies do you advice her? Pem would be glad if you can provide insights on the nature and occupation of the spouse.

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Dear Champeya

It seems that you are more caring about your friend than she is about her love life.
Venus - the planet of Love - when combust has no brilliance and lacks love and passion
that gives romance. You are right in what you state : that she is not bothered about
marriage.
She has a strong Mercury in her chart and this gives her a strong mind and this is her
makeup and she is happy like that. It should have blessed her on her career side/earnings etc.
What is missing are feelings from the heart caused by a weak Venus.
The question : Will she ever get married ?
Most of the connected houses relevant to self/sex/marriage/bed pleasures/domestic happiness/
marital happiness/marital tie are blemished and are causing setbacks in this part of her life.
It is middling between delay or denial and a ruling cannot be given and I leave it open.
So, your question of what type of partner is not really relevant; and, furthermore, nowadays there
are scores of professions and the scriptures have not detailed such information.

The planets needing attention are :
Ascendant - Jupiter; Venus; Sun and Venus.
Deities represented correspondingly are :
Dhakshinamoorthy; Lakshmi Devi, Lord Shiva and Goddess Parvathi

Further information on mantras to be used can be obtained from Google.

Regards - Pem
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Correction:
Planets needing attention are :
Jupiter, Venus, Sun and Moon.
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Pem wrote:Dear Champeya

It seems that you are more caring about your friend than she is about her love life.
Venus - the planet of Love - when combust has no brilliance and lacks love and passion
that gives romance. You are right in what you state : that she is not bothered about
marriage.
She has a strong Mercury in her chart and this gives her a strong mind and this is her
makeup and she is happy like that. It should have blessed her on her career side/earnings etc.
What is missing are feelings from the heart caused by a weak Venus.
The question : Will she ever get married ?
Most of the connected houses relevant to self/sex/marriage/bed pleasures/domestic happiness/
marital happiness/marital tie are blemished and are causing setbacks in this part of her life.
It is middling between delay or denial and a ruling cannot be given and I leave it open.
So, your question of what type of partner is not really relevant; and, furthermore, nowadays there
are scores of professions and the scriptures have not detailed such information.

The planets needing attention are :
Ascendant - Jupiter; Venus; Sun and Venus.
Deities represented correspondingly are :
Dhakshinamoorthy; Lakshmi Devi, Lord Shiva and Goddess Parvathi

Further information on mantras to be used can be obtained from Google.

Regards - Pem
Dear Pem, Kind of more caring, since I have seen how she has been from the childhood & not getting married yet, her parents worries about her.

I was always thinking that if married her married life may be good considering the Navamsa posn of Venus, exalted and in pushkaramsa. Yes, also about Mercury, career & earnings have been good till date. Mercury being strong & being 7th lord conjunct 9th lord sun, why are either mercury & sun helping her in this part? Am i missing anything here?

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Venus is combust by the Sun. But Mercury is not. so the difference.
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