As I have no knowledge about pharmacy, can you please enlighten what this is about and what subjects one has to study?
thank you again deeps jideeps wrote:VNT ji,
Yes it is correct that Lord Saturn antardasha has to be tough for you at workplace and also some health issues bothering you. Mercury antardasha will be better and with 7th Lord, you are likely to remain in abroad. But i need to know since when you are abroad? How has been the beginning of Sun dasha so far?
I totally disagree here. Gun milap is very important. Minimum points may not be required but atleast graha maitri, gana, bhakut should be matching so as to avoid conflicts over misunderstandings. Meeting of Minds are very necessary to keep any relationship going on. It is said bhakut dosh is cancelled if graha maitri is there. So that leaves to graha and gana matching.I agree with you that guna milap doesn’t work in a lot of cases. About one partner being a manglik and another being not, I also don’t think it affects that much.
About Hitler, maybe Mars in the 7th house is not the only reason for keeping him unmarried, but I feel, Mars in the 7th house or 8th house is enough to bring problems in married life, of course not so if Mars is in own sign/exalted or having the influence of Jupiter.
Sri Rama had Mars in the 7th house, and we all know he was separated from his wife most of the part of their marriage, so it didn’t do him good, definitely. About P.V.R. Narasimha Rao having Mars in 8th house and having traditional marriage, I don’t think being manglik has anything to do with the kind of marriage one will have—it mainly gives problems in marriage.
Actually, 4th house of own country is tied with 9th house of luck. This shows good luck in India. But then 8th Lord going to 4th house has weakened the 4th house, so you must be compelled to try your luck outside India.thank you again deeps ji
i have been outside india from 2004. but still not well settled. after august 2009 upto december 2010 has been a good period. after that period has been ok. there are 2 options one is to continue in the same job in us or come back to india(of course i will try to get a position in india before i decide to came back).
I see your point of view about Gun milap.deeps wrote:I totally disagree here. Gun milap is very important. Minimum points may not be required but atleast graha maitri, gana, bhakut should be matching so as to avoid conflicts over misunderstandings. Meeting of Minds are very necessary to keep any relationship going on. It is said bhakut dosh is cancelled if graha maitri is there. So that leaves to graha and gana matching.I agree with you that guna milap doesn’t work in a lot of cases. About one partner being a manglik and another being not, I also don’t think it affects that much.
About Hitler, maybe Mars in the 7th house is not the only reason for keeping him unmarried, but I feel, Mars in the 7th house or 8th house is enough to bring problems in married life, of course not so if Mars is in own sign/exalted or having the influence of Jupiter.
Sri Rama had Mars in the 7th house, and we all know he was separated from his wife most of the part of their marriage, so it didn’t do him good, definitely. About P.V.R. Narasimha Rao having Mars in 8th house and having traditional marriage, I don’t think being manglik has anything to do with the kind of marriage one will have—it mainly gives problems in marriage.
About PVR, i have not seen his chart. Since He is himself an astrologer, so he must have married a manglik girl to cancel the dosh. Also check how 7th house and 7th Lords are placed.
I had presented the case of a couple earlier. They had a love marriage. Only if the charts matching was done properly, they would not suffered like this. But they were destined to marry as they have second marriage yoga in their chart.VioletTwilight » Fri Dec 28, 2012 2:58 am
I see your point of view about Gun milap.
It works in a completely arranged marriage when two strangers had to get along. But if two people meet and think they like each other, would graha maitri tell anything more than that?
There must be some favorable factor already to make two people like or 'connect' to each other, even as friends.
I think LOVA forum itself is an example with 'Moon-Ketu' club, or strong 10th house charts, or Libra and Cap Lagna/Rashis. Like attracts like, no?
deeps wrote:Thanks. Anyway, I am eagerly awaiting the arrival of Rahu in tula rashi on 15th January 2013.
Once the Greatest 2 Malefics join together for a party, I wonder what They will plan behind the closed door?
It will be a keenly watched transit. And no i am not talking about my chart.
deeps wrote:I totally disagree here. Gun milap is very important. Minimum points may not be required but atleast graha maitri, gana, bhakut should be matching so as to avoid conflicts over misunderstandings. Meeting of Minds are very necessary to keep any relationship going on. It is said bhakut dosh is cancelled if graha maitri is there. So that leaves to graha and gana matching.
About PVR, i have not seen his chart. Since He is himself an astrologer, so he must have married a manglik girl to cancel the dosh. Also check how 7th house and 7th Lords are placed.
Well I am sorry if you don't believe in all these things or they don't play an important role in marriage. The whole world of astrologers like KN Rao, Mehta ji, etc advocates the importance of manglik and charts matching. But i know why you are saying this as you have Mars in 12th house as 7th lord. I know it a very sensitive issue for you.Yellow » Fri Dec 28, 2012 10:45 am
Aseem,
I don't know in details about guna milap, but from you have said, it does seem to have an important role to play in marriage.
About a manglik marrying a manglik cancelling the dosha, I am not sure how effective that is. I don't feel it has such a strong effect. You have mentioned that 7th house and 7th lord has to be checked, too, for marriage, but I feel--I may come across as prejudiced--Mars in 7th house or 8th house are capable enough to bring problems in marriage, irrespective of how 7th house/lord and Venus are in a chart.
Violet,VioletTwilight wrote:I think LOVA forum itself is an example with 'Moon-Ketu' club, or strong 10th house charts, or Libra and Cap Lagna/Rashis. Like attracts like, no?
Everything is destiny and let me best illustrate you with this example of the couple and the working of destiny.One more thing I would like to say here: you have talked about gun milap and matching of charts in other ways, but if a chart shows bad marriage, wouldn't it give that, irrespective of the matchings done as after all destiny has to give its results. We can't, I think you believe this, too, change our destiny by our free will, and matching charts is just an effort to change the destiny of a marriage, I think you will agree with me here.
Similar thoughts attracts similar thoughts in good times.Yellow » Fri Dec 28, 2012 10:55 am
VioletTwilight wrote:
I think LOVA forum itself is an example with 'Moon-Ketu' club, or strong 10th house charts, or Libra and Cap Lagna/Rashis. Like attracts like, no?
Violet,
It's nice to know that you believe that like attract like, as I believe in that, too, though the popular belief is 'opposites attract'.
Aseem,deeps wrote:Well I am sorry if you don't believe in all these things or they don't play an important role in marriage. The whole world of astrologers like KN Rao, Mehta ji, etc advocates the importance of manglik and charts matching. But i know why you are saying this as you have Mars in 12th house as 7th lord. I know it a very sensitive issue for you.
Marriages getting break, or marriage made in heaven are all workings of destiny and this is proved through the planets placed in charts. Good to see that you are not bothered about it.Yellow » Fri Dec 28, 2012 11:10 am
I agree that all the great astrologers talk about manglik dosha and chart matching, but as I believe destiny is predestined, I don't really worry myself in regard to all that and try to instead grow my power of endurance to accept my fate, whatever it is. I feel how much we try to outsmart destiny by matching charts etc, destiny always proves itself smarter than us, so the only way to win over destiny to be indifferent about its effect on us.
Yes, I have Mars in 12th house as 7th lord, and I have Venus in 8th house aspected by Saturn, but it doesn't bother me one bit because I don't believe in crying about something, which I can't change.
Ofcourse you will have a good marriage life. See how manglik and Lord Saturn aspect on Venus has delayed your marriage. If you had married earlier, it would have ended in divorce. But now maturity will help both of you to lead a good happy marriage life.who knows maybe I will have a good marriage, in spite of it seeming otherwise, as per my chart, as sometimes what a chart apparently shows is not what happens. My gut feeling tells me that I will have a wonderful married life. Time will tell whether what I feel is correct or not.
deeps wrote:Ofcourse you will have a good marriage life. See how manglik and Lord Saturn aspect on Venus has delayed your marriage. If you had married earlier, it would have ended in divorce. But now maturity will help both of you to lead a good happy marriage life.
You will have happiness from in laws too as 4th house is occupied by Moon in own sign like Gandhi ji .
Well, Best of Luck and hope your predictions come true.Yellow » Fri Dec 28, 2012 11:34 am
Yes, I agree that Saturn's aspect on Venus and 7th lord in 12th house has delayed my marriage. Nice to know that you feel, too, that I will have a happy married life. I will wait for another 2 years before I marry, though my gut feeling tells me that I will get married in the Venus-Mercury period only, which will be there till May 2015.
Yeah, Moon in the 4th house from 7th house shows caring in laws, but then, they can be manipulative too as Rahu is also there. But as long as I have no issues with my wife, I won't bother about my in laws.
deeps wrote:That's nice to hear. Good to see your 9th Lord in 9th house has really done wonders for you. Anyway, one tends to lose interest in own chart with time.
