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dudekewl
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Respected Gurus

Please advise if I should marry this girl or avoid marriage and the reasons for the same

My birth chart

Date of birth : 4/12/1979 (MM/DD/YY)
Time of birth : 13:05 (1:05 pm)
Place: Mumbai

Girl's chart
Date of Birth : 7/1/1985 (MM/DD/YY)
Time of birth : 19:12 (7:12 pm)
Place: Mumbai
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Hello
How accurate are tobs and dobs ?
Is the dobs 12 April 1979 and 01 July 1985 ?

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dudekewl
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Thanks for pointing the mistake. The corrected format for Date is given below. Time of birth is accurate.

Date of birth : 4/12/1979 (DD/MM/YY)
Time of birth : 13:05 (1:05 pm)
Place: Mumbai

Girl's chart
Date of Birth : 7/1/1985 (DD/MM/YY)
Time of birth : 19:12 (7:12 pm)
Place: Mumbai
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Is the girl in question in a public service oriented profession (medical, hospitality etc) or in a corporate environment (engineering, finance etc)?

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She is in Finance field and I was also earlier in finance . We worked together. I recently left job and joined my family business.
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Hello

The boy s chart has Aquarius Ascendant with Moon in Taurus.
The girl s chart has Cancer Ascendant with Moon in Gemini.

In my opinion, the charts were lacking in the following important criteria:

1. Ketu/Rahu axii were not compatible,
2. Ascendant Lords are not friends and elemental qualities do not mix;
3. Although Moon Sign Lords are friends, their elemental qualities do not mix.

I humbly consider this to be an incompatible match.
Kindly seek other opinions before making a final decision.

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Thanks a lot.
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I see the girls Moon is in Aries (Cancer Ascendant) not Gemini. Can you confirm the dates in the format 1-Jan-1985?

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The boy is a Sagittarius and girl is Capricorn.
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Dudekewl, this thread has gotten really confusing. You may want to post this again. Don't worry much about signs matching.

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Hi Rathore.

The date of birth of girl is 7 Jan 1985 and my date of birth is 4 Dec 1979. Hope it helps.
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Thank you Sir. Yes you have perfectly hit the bulls eye. Only problem is that since i get opinionated she tries to make me feel very jealous by talking to other guys and at times she fights with me and stops talking to me for long duration. I agree I should try and curb this tendency, I am trying my best to change my opinionated behavior.

Appreciate your help.
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Sir,

I have a followup question if you look at girls Navamsa the venus and rahu are conjunct in the 5th house with saturn and ketu aspecting from the 11th and in natal chart, venus and mars are conjunct. Would this mean a troubled married life? What kind of trouble can one expect? Please throw some light.
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