Request for horoscope compatibility analysis

[swamykool]

Dinesh ji,

I don't know. But let it be, such things happen. It will cool down on its own. Its the problem with fake Ids. Some people used fake IDs to provoke and abuse others in a most vile manner. Led to huge fights. Now everybody is suspecting everybody else and their uncle of being a fake ID. Mr. Manley and the moderators have done a good job of cleaning things up. But some traces remain. Have a look at the discussion board section at the very top and you will know.

Don't mind these things. Here's the link
http://www.lightonvedicastrology.com/ph ... 13&t=10216

[Aquarius Lagna]

[quote="Dinesh.Srivastava"][quote="Aquarius Lagna"]I am curious about [b]significators for 3rd marriage [/b]and I see the subject touched upon in this thread.
Like so many of you I DO value marriage and "old ways" with regard to working thru difficulties rather than running from them. Yet after 25 years and many affairs by my x husband I finally went the route of divorce after much prayer about it. In the years since our divorce he has been with many women (without marriage) and has cheated on each of them.

So I am looking for my last and best marriage. [b][color=#0000FF]From what I read here I would look to my 9th house[/color] [color=#FF0000][u]but then I see a few who have deleted their posts that disagreed so I am left wondering[/u][/color].[/b]

In my 7th house whole from lagna I have my Sun and Jupiter in Leo. My exalted Mercury is in my 8th house and my 9th house has Libra with Venus in my 5th house from lagna. I have an Aswini moon.

My Venus is in Gemini in Punarvasu.[/quote]

Dear , I[b] did not delete my posts because of astrological reason [/b]..... [b][color=#0000FF]I NEVER OPEN MY MOUTH UNTIL AND UNLESS I AM ABSOLUTELY SURE OF WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT[/color][/b] .[/quote]

My apologizes and I did not mean to offend. So what do you think shows a 3rd marriage? I am in my Rahu-Saturn-Mercury dasa now. For me, Rahu and Saturn are in the 10th house from my lagna and Mercury in the 8th house from my lagna. I do have an Aswini moon.

Hope everybody is enjoying a good weekend.

[Humannature]

Milred,

The wife has left the husband and flew back over 2 continents within 4 to 6 months. I think this validates the situation. I did not have an opportunity to match yours and your husband's chart. So reserve comments. But happy 12 yrs - the subtle points must agree. Congratulations.

PS - Look at the subtle points I've mentioned and the very important gandanta factor Srinivas ji has mentioned. Just remember every individual is unique, no two charts are ever the same.

swamykool

SK ji,
Recently Rajath posted a query about Raj yogas in his daughter's chart..
Looks like his wife gave birth to a girl in Sept and may be that is why she went to India..and not to abandon him..or because of differences.

But I do agree that each chart is different and every situation is unique..

[milredr]

U took the words from my mouth HN.....Life is such. Anyway good for them.

[rajath25]

Hi all,

My marriage is still under a lot of strain mostly from my wife's parents. In between all this, I had my first child- a girl- in September last year.

I had a look at my daughters chart and even in her chart I felt like that she was destined not to have her father in her life. Even the thought of it is so sickening. But the planetary alignment seems to indicate it.

My daughter's birth details.

Date: September 25, 2011
Time: 16:44:00
Time Zone: 5:30:00 (East of GMT)
Place: 76 E 38' 00", 12 N 18' 00"
Mysore, India

Kumbha lagna and 9 th lord in 8th...in many websites, I have referred to, indicated a broken family; specifically, unavailability of father;

Question to all esteeemed astrologers;

Is it one more sign that my marriage will not last? Honestly, I am ready for both.

If indeed it is divorce, when should I expect it to happen?

Please not, the idea here is not have my daughters' chart analysed; but instead confirm if even her chart indicates a broken family.

REgards
Rajath

[rajath25]

Respected astrologer of this forum,

Things have deteriorated very badly between me and my in-laws and my wife and my parents. It is going to get very nasty in the coming months.

My in-laws are making some very nasty comments and very false accusations. They have already gone ahead with exploring legal options even though I am still holding on to a sliver of hope of getting back. In between all this my father's health has gone from bad to worse.

1. Is it really the end of my marriage in the coming months?

2. Will I get custody of my daughter?

3. Since I need to take care of the legal issues, I am coming back to India. Is it the end of my foreign settlement dream? Will I ever come back to USA again?

Please reply; Your replies can help me decide either way.

Regard
A very battered soul
Rajath

[Humannature]

Rajath ji,
Just to be fair and make sure you really gave it a try, did you try to work this out like the senior members asked you to in the previous posts and yet things went from bad to worse?

Thanks.

[rajath25]

I sure did Humannature; I have bent over backwards trying to appease her; now she is making very bad comments about my dad. All the elders in our family now feel she is not fit for our family.

Sir, I again ask you the following 3 questions:

1. Is it really the end of my marriage in the coming months?

2. Will I get custody of my daughter?

3. Since I need to take care of the legal issues, I am coming back to India. Is it the end of my foreign settlement dream? Will I ever come back to USA again?

Please reply; Your replies can help me decide either way.

Sincerely appreciate your reply.

[Humannature]

Is 25th, 2.35 AM according to English calendar, i.e was the date captured as 25th after midnight of 24th or was it late night @2.35 AM on 25th (Hindu calendar..sunrise-sunset)?

[rajath25]

It is according to the English calendar.

[Anirudh]

I think You birth chat combination of satrun and mars in kanya and the present transit has aggravated the deterioration I think... I am learner...

[rajath25]

Thanks for a very kwik reply;

I beg to differ with you on the fact that "the girl's complaint against your dad are true unfortunately!". Infact my dad is the one who has sacrificed a lot to save this marriage as we have never had a divorce in our family and he does not want a divorce to happen in our family.

I have sacrificed a lot Sir, but not one bit of compromise from the other side.

If I come back to India now, will I ever get a chance to come back to USA? Is it the end of my foreign settlement dream?

Regards
Rajath

[deeps]

Hi rajath,

Both are you in Lord Saturn's dhaiya in 4th house, so hopefully things should easing for you both from september or october. With the end of the dhaiya, things should become normal within few months and avoid divorce.

[rajath25]

Thank you Srirama Sir; Ve is in lagna not in the 2nd house; I hope you have my birth details correct.

My birth details are as follows:

May 25th 1982, Gangavathi(also spelt as Gangawati), Karnataka, India (15°26′N 76°32′E),India- 2.35 AM

Please do not get me wrong when I say the following- No matter what the whole world says or the chart indicates, I know my dad well and know his intentions even better. He is done so many things to stop my marriage from breaking; but it looks like inspite of his (my mom and all elders) best efforts it is heading down the drain.

Sir, if I come back to India now...will I ever come back to USA again? Is it the end of my foreign settlement dream?

Please answer this one pertinent question of mine.

Other astrologers please provide your thoughts; I suppose the end game wrt my marriage has begun and am mentally ready for all nasty things that are bound come my way. And off course we have the great Indian Penal code which treats husbands as second class citizens, regardless of whether the wife(and her parents) in question is a prime incarnation of pure evil.

Regards
Rajath

[Humannature]

May be this indicates that two bad charts just because they are good for each other does not nullify individual karmic pay backs!
Please reflect on your chart as well.
If you are worried she did not add money to your kiddy bank, may be she is also repenting about something. Many girls get lucky after marriage as well.
Did she get lucky after marrying you??

Sorry I cannot answer your question about foreign settlement and I really hope you get an answer for that query.
But correct predictions are not for everyone..
Inspite of thorough chart matching, this is happening...so you probably fall under the category that is not destined to receive correct predictions.

[rajath25]

@SriRama sir,

I sincerely thank you and appreciate the fact that all you are "doing is pointing out planetary combinations from jyotish perspective that have led to relationship challenges".

My point is, we have done everything possible from our side to make this work and only god knows what all my dad has done to save this marriage. I cannot take a word against him.

Also the main reason why I am coming to India is to see if I can save this marriage; but I cannot keep on giving it a try to make it work, from my side, life long!!!!

I still request all the esteemed astrologers of this forum to indicate whether I will come back to USA if I go to India now?

Regards
Rajath

[rajath25]

SriRama sir,

1. I am certainly satwik and she is certainly tamasic...please read about her habits and mine in this very thread and you will have your answer.

2. I totally acknowledge that there are many doshas in my chart as well...absolutely I dont have any hesitation in accepting it. You are very welcome to QUESTION my chart as well not just the girl's chart.

Sujit Sir, one of the most respected astrologers of this forum had this to say after having a look at the girl's chart.

"Wife's libra rising chart is WEAK for marriage with 7th Mars, 1st lord Venus in 12th house of separation. The debilitation of Jupiter shows weak initiative and adjustment problems. Sun is also afflicted by Ketu brings difficulties in home atmosphere."

I repeat that I took the advice of my elders (and that of members of this forum) to compromise and give it a shot. but nothing of that sort has been displayed by the girl or her side.

As such, I am going to India to give it one last shot; but i cannot keep on giving it a try from my side life long.

I still request all the esteemed astrologers of this forum to indicate whether I will come back to USA if I go to India now?

Regards
Rajath

[Humannature]

Sujit Sir, one of the most respected astrologers of this forum had this to say after having a look at the girl's chart.

"Wife's libra rising chart is WEAK for marriage with 7th Mars, 1st lord Venus in 12th house of separation. The debilitation of Jupiter shows weak initiative and adjustment problems. Sun is also afflicted by Ketu brings difficulties in home atmosphere."

Regards
Rajath

LL in 12th is loss of/to self at best.i.e person spends more on others than self..nothing to do with separation from spouse.

[rajath25]

"I would suggest that you both take sometime out sit down and arrive at a common ground with respect to everything not just food."

I can assure you that I have gone more than 50% to try and make it work.

I still request all the esteemed astrologers of this forum to indicate whether I will come back to USA if I go to India now?

Regards
Rajath

[basab14]

They haven't taken into account ma-(sa) affliction and badhakasthana and maranakaraka sthana of mars.

Sri Rama,

You have written about the maranakaraka sthana of Mars. What does it mean? Could you please explain it.

[basab14]

Sri Rama,

It's not just like that that I always told you that you have an extremely good concept of astrology, and I learn a lot from your posts. You explained it so wonderfully that believe me, I have memorized the MKS for all the planets by reading your post once. Thank you so, so much for telling me the MKS of the planets and also wonderfully giving a one-line reason for why it's so for each of them. The explanation very much helped me to memorize the MKS of the planets--a thank you for that as well.

I would like to know which school of astrology talks about this concept.

[Humannature]

Few days back, I wrote a post on Rahu in 9th - dharmic or adharmic

As SR said Rahu will not be comfortable and becomes weak in 9th...which is kind of good.
Specially if Rahu is malefic, his presence in 9th will make him weak and hence cause less havoc?

[anuradha]

by SriRama » 010812

Hey Yellow,

Maranakaraka sthana means weakened. Every planet has a maranakaraka sthana where he/she is quite uncomfortable.

Su in 12th, Mo in 8th, Ma in 7th, Gu in 3rd, Ve in 6th, Sa in 1st and Ra in 9th, Me in 4th. Ketu doesnt have MKS as he is moksha karaka.

What exactly is MKS?

Take Su for example, he is the king so how can he be comfortable in 12th which is the house of seclusion? Ra stands for sin/desires, how can he do well in 9th house of dharma?

Ve stands for luxuries and romance how can she be happy in 6th house of servants/service? Sa is the hard worker, how can be seated in 1st house that should belong to sun?

Guru is the priest who would be apt in 9th, he is quite uncomfortable in 3rd house of desires. Ma is the warrior, how can he asked to be in 7th house of bonding and relationships?

Me is the naughty child, hardly stays in one place, how can be asked to stay at home (4th)?

MKS is a place where the potential of a planet gets reduced because of the placement counted from lagna. Hope this helps

Thanks,
SriRama
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Any reference of MKS? regards

[basab14]

Oh, okay. So it is a Jamini concept, Sri Rama?

[ChandraLagna]

SriRama -

Very good explanation!

I must add though that MKS is a little stretched concept - hard to apply in practice.

For example, SUN in 12th is found in Politicians charts. Yes, one might argue that they have lost their soul Similarly, while MKS for Guru is indeed 3rd, will he not aspect 9th and thus be good for 9H matters after all? I have personally seen many charts where Guru in 3rd has proven quite good to the native.

Coming to Saturn, yes, he is servants and service, yet his maximum Digbala is in 7H ! Also, when Saturn is in Lagna [even deb], he is quite powerful and can cause the native into leadership positions - this is stated in classics and I have found this to be true..of course not literally kings as mentioned, but certainly quite leading in his field.

In no way, I am taking away the points you have made

My 0.02$