astrological insight needed

[wipro]

Can someone post the astrological insight on bad relationship with strangers.The recent guwahati incident where a teenage girl badly treated in the public has left many to wonder why did such thing happen.

Is this due to bad karma and will be indicated in the chart..?
can anyone throw light on the astrological combinations for such things.
Being a girl I thought it can be useful if someone can prescribe remedies if there is such combination in anyone's chart.

As I felt this subject is related to relationship with strangers I posted in this forum.

[elipsis]

This is a very complex subject, there isn't one set of combinations for bad associations. The root of all troubles is the upbringing. For example: if 11th lord is in 6th then there is a chance of bad associations and that's not all if moon happens to be the 11th lord in the 6th, there is a possibility of the native not listening to parents and such people tend to listen to only "friends" and end up in trouble. Sometimes 6th and 8th in the 2nd or the 11th is a strong indicator for associations ending in trouble. This is due to past karma and nothing else, it's a bad way to repay your debts I tell you but you must understand money isn't the only debt we make. Now the extent of trouble is depends on the native, for women the damage may be irrversible so it's best for them to thread carefully.

[Humannature]

If it is repaying past life debt, then she just got a hugeeee load off of her karmic balance because NO ONE deserves to be harrassed, let alone gang molested like that.

If those people chose this way to get repaid karmically, then I am sure a gazillion tons of bad karma just got added to their accounts now. Or at least I hope it did.

Why would Universe want someone to repay their debts like this.. by publicly humiliating them!! I mean there are many other ways..they coluld get really really sick or die alone in pain when there is no one to look after them or be abandoned by everyone or not have food to eat etc. but why like this??!

[elipsis]

@humannature, the universe is insentient and does not react to trivial human errors. Praying to God, doing good work, seeking knowledge and being selfless will dilute bad karma as it will be spread over several rebirths so that you only experience a tiny part of it in each birth, one day your prayers will start to bear fruit - that's when we use the term 'born lucky'.

[Humannature]

Elipsis,

I was wondering why Universe(past karma) would make aperson go thrugh all that that because of the following:

This is due to past karma and nothing else, it's a bad way to repay your debts I tell you but you must understand money isn't the only debt we make.

[elipsis]

Elipsis,

I was wondering why Universe(past karma) would make aperson go thrugh all that that because of the following:

This is due to past karma and nothing else, it's a bad way to repay your debts I tell you but you must understand money isn't the only debt we make.

The universe doesn't make you go through anything, once you realize you are responsible for your own fate you will first stop pointing fingers at others. It's the hard truth but one has to accept that and move on. But what goes around comes around in some way, if you cheat people some may want revenge while others may want you to go to jail. Human soul does maintain such karmic connections even after death, that way it remembers where to go and what to do.

[wipro]

Hi Tripura,
where can I get to read the story that you mentioned?

[wipro]

I always think why does nature puts us in situation such that we end up doing some mistakes unintentionally (though we meant something else) which we never know at that time .Later when we realize its very painful/guilty, but we never get a chance to go back and correct our mistakes.
By then things would have moved on.Only we remain back feeling guilty throughout our lives.

Is this also bad karma that we need to feel pained/guilty for life time, when we know we meant something though some external force made us do something else.
we just remain as puppets to some external force all the time. Is guilt is also a way of removing our bad karmas?

[elipsis]

Nature doesn't put you into any situation. You must be thankful nature gives you unlimited chances to correct your mistakes. I will quote what Swami Vivekananda has said on this subject, perhaps that'll open your minds.

I will bring before you one more point with regard to this theory of reincarnation. It is the theory that advances the freedom of the human soul. It is the one theory that does not lay the blame of all our weakness upon somebody else, which is a common human fallacy. We do not look at our own faults; the eyes do not see themselves, they see the eyes of everybody else. We human beings are very slow to recognise our own weakness, our own faults, so long as we can lay the blame upon somebody else. Men in general lay all the blame of life on their fellow-men, or, failing that, on God, or they conjure up a ghost, and say it is fate. Where is fate, and who is fate? We reap what we sow. We are the makers of our own fate. None else has the blame, none has the praise. The wind is blowing; those vessels whose sails are unfurled catch it, and go forward on their way, but those which have their sails furled do not catch the wind. Is that the fault of the wind? Is it the fault of the merciful Father, whose wind of mercy is blowing without ceasing, day and night, whose mercy knows no decay, is it His fault that some of us are happy and some unhappy? We make our own destiny. His sun shines for the weak as well as for the strong. His wind blows for saint and sinner alike. He is the Lord of all, the Father of all, merciful, and impartial. Do you mean to say that He, the Lord of creation, looks upon the petty things of our life in the same light as we do? What a degenerate idea of God that would be! We are like little puppies, making life-and-death struggles here, and foolishly thinking that even God Himself will take it as seriously as we do. He knows what the puppies' play means. Our attempts to lay the blame on Him, making Him the punisher, and the rewarder, are only foolish. He neither punishes, nor rewards any. His infinite mercy is open to every one, at all times, in all places, under all conditions, unfailing, unswerving. Upon us depends how we use it. Upon us depends how we utilise it. Blame neither man, nor God, nor anyone in the world. When you find yourselves suffering, blame yourselves, and try to do better.

This is the only solution of the problem. Those that blame others — and, alas! the number of them is increasing every day — are generally miserable with helpless brains; they have brought themselves to that pass through their own mistakes and blame others, but this does not alter their position. It does not serve them in any way. This attempt to throw the blame upon others only weakens them the more. Therefore, blame none for your own faults, stand upon your own feet, and take the whole responsibility upon yourselves. Say, "This misery that I am suffering is of my own doing, and that very thing proves that it will have to be undone by me alone." That which I created, I can demolish; that which is created by some one else I shall never be able to destroy. Therefore, stand up, be bold, be strong. Take the whole responsibility on your own shoulders, and know that you are the creator of your own destiny. All the strength and succour you want is within yourselves. Therefore, make your own future. "Let the dead past bury its dead." The infinite future is before you, and you must always remember that each word, thought, and deed, lays up a store for you and that as the bad thoughts and bad works are ready to spring upon you like tigers, so also there is the inspiring hope that the good thoughts and good deeds are ready with the power of a hundred thousand angels to defend you always and for ever.

[wipro]

Thanks Elipsis for the reply.
The point I'm trying to make is sometimes we commit something which was beyond our control.We knew our action has caused the consequences.We own the responsibility.But then we never get a chance to correct it.we remain guilty.Only thing we can do is to see that we dont repeat it again.

Say the mercury retrograde /mars retrograde, chandrashtama these things really do affect people mentality.
whatever we do/say during these times will be interpreted in a wrong way or we might not be able to express clearly what we want to.

So when things go wrong during these times it is out of anybody's control.its fate.May be I think it happens to us because of our past karma.

[elipsis]

Dear Wipro,

Who is ever born perfect? Can you name somebody who does not make a mistake? Somebody with well placed Moon doesn't make errors? because they do, if you sit quietly and reflect on your life you will find that no force is holding you back, that you have innumerable chances to set the record straight. We may have to compromise a little, learn from the experience and adjust our thinking as per the changing circumstances. A long time ago our teacher used to give us assignments- to write an essay on what we learn from each day, for kids it means only school work- but what she meant was we have something to learn from every event in our hectic life and try to do them better when we get a chance- it's like learning to write, nobody gets it right the first time, but if our ego doesn't permit corrections then we are doomed. As for the circumstances beyond our control, let's not worry about that- control what you can with what you know.

Best

[tripura]

Wipro, the story is in the anusasana parva from the mahabharat, there seems to be quite a lot of stories there.its sacred-texts.com. there is a lot of detail there.its in the very first section of the anusasan parva of the mahabharat the story of Gautami and her son.
but amitabh has spoken abt the incident too, the elders and influential people of the society shld look into these matters only then there will be a change for the better.the girl was just a kid imagine the trauma.shame on all the female politicians who r quiet on the incident. amir khan should bring up the incidentt on satyameva jayate.
tripura

[wipro]

Thanks Tripura.I got the site.