Divorce, remarriage and extramarital affairs

[rahulguru]

Shilpa ji
Thanx for reply

[ankit123]

Shilpa Ji,

A comprehensive and very educative post on the subject. And some really good effort in putting facts that help novice like me to understand astrology a little bit more.

Regards,
Ankit

[shilpa]

Hi Shilpa ji,

I have provided the case study for Extramarital affair under a different thread. Giving her below:

DOB: 01/06/1980
Time: 7:10 AM
Place Bangalore

please give me the link to the thread...so I may read the details
thx

[sunny29031]

Respected shilpa ji ...please analyse my chart if any chance of divorce in future .

29-3-1991
11-10 am
hyderabad
thanks

[ankit123]

Shilpa Ji,

I would like to bring up a case here thats interesting.

Details 13/03/1981, 2:05 am, Mumbai.

She had a love marriage after 5 yrs of affair in 2006 and had been separated within 2 yrs right after. She would be going in for a divorce shortly. She tried to save her marriage thrice but nothing worked out. Had an abortion last year. Currently pursuing her higher education. She works very hard but results are not aligned to the amount of work she puts in. She severely lacks the sense of judgement, I mean to say is she cant figure out what and whom to trust easily and almost all the times her trust is misplaced. She can be easily bullied around. Lately she developed tendencies more inclined to temp mental breakdowns and is almost always saved by her parents under circumstances.

That being said how can an astrologer predict above by looking at a chart. What should be the key points that should be taken to consideration to read a persons psychology in relation to companionship.

Would really appreciate your comments on the case.

Regards,
Ankit

[anuradha]

She severely lacks the sense of judgement, I mean to say is she cant figure out what and whom to trust easily and almost all the times her trust is misplaced.

Because Jupiter is severely afflicted by Mars and Saturn, and Jupiter lost in P.W. Also the 9L Sun is weak.

Lately she developed tendencies more inclined to temp mental breakdowns and is almost always saved by her parents under circumstances.

Because 4L is with Saturn and defeated by Saturn in P.W and Saturn[R] is also aspecting the Moon. Must have happened between 3rd July and 17th September 2008 or after 11th July 2011. Presently also she is very depressed.
7L Mercury is in exchange with Saturn , and Saturn is aspecting the 7H, so no conjugal happiness from marriage.

[shilpa]

hi shilpa

THANK YOU FOR YOUR REPLY IMMEDIATELY
My dob 28.10.1964
POB chennai
TOB 16.10
date of marriage november 8th 1987
Divorce process completed on december 22nd 2011

SRI

Dear Sri,

--Mars is innimical in Rasi and aspecting the 7th house.
--And Mars is innimical in Navamsa, conjunct with Asc and aspecting the 7th house.

--And rasi is on the 1-7 axis of Ra-Ket

so all the the divorce agents are at work on the houses of marriage in rasi and navamsa

--the divorce occured in the Mars MD and the deterioation of marriage may have occured in Mars-Ket period.

--2nd house denotes is strong lord moon in exchange with 3rd lord and friendly sun...and a budhaditya yoga in the 2nd house.

so the strength of the second house indicates, strong possibility of marriage....you may already be in a relationship.

someone from work/ social environment.

regards

[astroboy]

Details 13/03/1981, 2:05 am, Mumbai.
She had a love marriage after 5 yrs of affair in 2006 and had been separated within 2 yrs right after. She would be going in for a divorce shortly. She tried to save her marriage thrice but nothing worked out. Had an abortion last year. Currently pursuing her higher education. She works very hard but results are not aligned to the amount of work she puts in. She severely lacks the sense of judgement, I mean to say is she cant figure out what and whom to trust easily and almost all the times her trust is misplaced. She can be easily bullied around. Lately she developed tendencies more inclined to temp mental breakdowns and is almost always saved by her parents under circumstances.

Ankit 123.jpg

I have said before, all houses and planets between Rahu and Kuja get affected, more so a planet caught between the two. In this case, The Moon caught in between these two natural malefics, even though he is exalted is a matter to be concerned about. Kuja is combust, and is aspected by Shani. Kuja is thus highly aggitated increasing the Kuja dosha component in the horoscope.Rahu is debilitated in the Navamsha and is in the 8th house of the horoscope.what can we expect other than trouble an divorce ?

Her 7th house is afflicted because it is aspected by Kuja and Shani.Budha, the 7th lord is in Baala Avasta, has low shadbala

Mental health is due to the Moon falling in Mrityu bhaga and being in a fateful trimsamsa degree. End of story.

the Abortation is due to the 5th lord being combust and being aspected By Shani

[anuradha]

Kuja is thus highly aggitated increasing the Kuja dosha component in the horoscope

Lately she developed tendencies more inclined to temp mental breakdowns and is almost always saved by her parents under circumstances.

DJ, This chart do not have Kunja Dosha. As far as M.B is concern Jatakparijaat and Savrvarth Chintamani has taken 25 degree as M.B, Saravali has taken 9 degree, Phaldeepika has taken 12 dergree and Brihad Prajapatya has taken 12 degree as M.B. My Guruji has endorsed the last two views, after a considerable research . regards

Mental health is due to the Moon falling in Mrityu bhaga and being in a fateful trimsamsa degree. End of story.

[astroboy]

Good day Anu ji,

I am open to taking both Jataka Parijata and Phaladeepika as reference for M.B. of the Moon. Thankfully as far as the rest of the planets go, both the books use the same degrees, thus saving us the trouble.

Can you please explain why There is no Kuja dosha in the Chart ? Kuja is in the 4th, aspected by Shani and is combust. I think not only is there a kuja dosha, Its a strong Kuja dosha. The proof of the pudding is in the eating they say, The fact that she is going in for a divorce is proof enough is it not ?

Best regards,

[anuradha]

DJ, Mars is in the friends house aspected by the Jupiter[ Friend] so no Kunja Dosha. If You want the reference I can produce it at any time. Divorce is due to the exchange of two '' Napunsak[EUNUCH] planets Saturn and Mercury. Mercury is the 7L and Saturn aspecting the 7H. Due to this she may have married a person having a age difference of more than six years or he may be younger to her. Lack of conjugal pleasure was the reason of divorce.Husband may have other relationships . Mars and Saturn aspecting the 7H is enough for separation. regards

[sri]

Thank u shilpa

i would like to know when can the remarriage take place and i hope i will not be cheated by anyone in life bcos i will not be able to take the emotional turmoil in life anymore

sri

[rahulguru]

Shilpa ji and astroboy please do analyze my chart..

[shilpa]

Shilpa ji
Thanx for reply
my DOB 20-12-1988
time 2.38 PM
place - shimoga, karnataka

are you married, divorced or single yet?

[rahulguru]

I'm single still
wat worries is that Mars in 12th house, 7th lord in 8th house and Venus debilitated in navamsha

[shilpa]

I'm single still
wat worries is that Mars in 12th house, 7th lord in 8th house and Venus debilitated in navamsha

dear rahulguru,

--7th lord Venus is in the 8th and is innimical..and Venus is debilitated in Navamsa.

--Mars from the 12th is aspecting the 7th house...but it is a positve drishti...Mars is quite friendly in Pisces and with Jup only 3rd from it.

--the drishti of Moon also from the 1st house is quite friendly on the 7th.

--Navamsa is on the 1-7 axis of Ket-Rahu and 7th lord shani is innimical.
but there is weak but benefic Jup seated in the 7th diluting the negative placements some-what.

Mars is not divorce-karak for your chart IMO....Rah-Ket are the more stressful planets given the weakness of venus and 7th lords.

--you will be running Rah MD from 2010 until the year 2028 and must be especially careful during the Ra-Ket period to a high degree and Ra-Venus periods to a lesser extent.

--the chart is stressful for marriage ...but breakages can be avoided given the postive infleucnes of Moon, Jup and Mars......and with prior knowldege that effort will have to be made to make the marriage work.

regards

[rahulguru]

Thanx for the analysis Shilpa ji..

what kind of life partner can i expect??

[shilpa]

Respected shilpa ji ...please analyse my chart if any chance of divorce in future .

29-3-1991
11-10 am
hyderabad
thanks

My friend....it not good to shoot in the dark.
are you married.....if yes for how long?
Is your married life going well or with even small tensions ( that is quite normal)...then you should not be asking such questions.

Only if there are any extremely disturbing / unstable conditions in your married life....should you worry about knowing the divorce possibility.
If that is the case, please share more details
regards

[ankit123]

DJ, Mars is in the friends house aspected by the Jupiter[ Friend] so no Kunja Dosha. If You want the reference I can produce it at any time. Divorce is due to the exchange of two '' Napunsak[EUNUCH] planets Saturn and Mercury. Mercury is the 7L and Saturn aspecting the 7H. Due to this she may have married a person having a age difference of more than six years or he may be younger to her. Lack of conjugal pleasure was the reason of divorce.Husband may have other relationships . Mars and Saturn aspecting the 7H is enough for separation. regards

AstroBoy and Anuradha Ji,

Thanks for the analysis. Here are additional details. Her husband was her senior in engineering so age difference was 2 yrs. Husband treated her as an inferior person and wanted her to be a housewife. Would verbally abuse her often and physical fights were frequent too. Physical aspect of marriage was said to be satisfactory. Abortion was undertaken to enable her to pursue higher business education abroad.

Regards,
Ankit

[shilpa]

Shilpa Ji,

I would like to bring up a case here thats interesting.

Details 13/03/1981, 2:05 am, Mumbai.

She had a love marriage after 5 yrs of affair in 2006 and had been separated within 2 yrs right after. She would be going in for a divorce shortly. She tried to save her marriage thrice but nothing worked out. Had an abortion last year. Currently pursuing her higher education. She works very hard but results are not aligned to the amount of work she puts in. She severely lacks the sense of judgement, I mean to say is she cant figure out what and whom to trust easily and almost all the times her trust is misplaced. She can be easily bullied around. Lately she developed tendencies more inclined to temp mental breakdowns and is almost always saved by her parents under circumstances.

That being said how can an astrologer predict above by looking at a chart. What should be the key points that should be taken to consideration to read a persons psychology in relation to companionship.

Would really appreciate your comments on the case.

Regards,
Ankit

dear ankit,
thx for sharing this with us:

1)7th lord Me is innimically placed and marriage karak Venus is combust in rasi.

2)7th lord Jup is placed innimically in Navamsa and in the 12th house and afflicted by Ketu...whihc weakens the marital placement and also indicates low chances of Putra-sukha ( bliss of or throuhg progeny). Venus thouhg is reasonbly OK in navamsa.
Sun's strong drishti on the 7th implies a spouse who was proud / arrogant / dominating

above two indicate the weakness /problems in marriage...but not all such marriages would end in separation

let's look at the palcement and influence of divorce causing malefics.

--Mars in the 4th is in Jupiters Rasi and only mildly malefic throuhg natural+ temporal relations...but gets severely afflicted by the drishti of an innimical shani in Virgo.
Hence overall Mars' drishti is harsh for the chart.
mars is also the 5th lord of progeny......

--the shani anatara/ ra-ket's transit over the natal ket-Rau ( in the houes of family and marital bliss the 2-8 axis)is what initiated the separation and the legal closure will come in Ketu anatara.


--we call all see that this chart was always destined for problematic marriage....and that divorce causing planets in natal chart, intransits and in weak anataras were likely to push the marriage towards breaking points.

--again not all such severe placements will end in divorce........throuhg free-will and prayers some cases of simialr intensity may end up being problematic marriage that don't end up in separation

regards

[ankit123]

Hello Astroboy, Shilpa Ji, Anuradha,

Her is another case undergoing divorce.

Details: 19 April 1976, Patna, 13:50

Normal Arts education. Has an Adjusting nature. Homely kind of person. Very religious. Strong personality. Currently undergoing Divorce. Legal battle had been very unpleasant so far. Married in 2001( Arranged marriage). Problems began in 2005. Separation process started in late 2007. First 3 year of marriage are said to be blissful.
Immoral activity of husband and too much interference of in-laws being blamed for the breakage. Currently financially dependent on her parents.

Please throw some astro light on the subject here.

Regards,
Ankit

[anuradha]

AstroBoy and Anuradha Ji,

Thanks for the analysis. Here are additional details. Her husband was her senior in engineering so age difference was 2 yrs. Husband treated her as an inferior person and wanted her to be a housewife. Would verbally abuse her often and physical fights were frequent too. Physical aspect of marriage was said to be satisfactory. Abortion was undertaken to enable her to pursue higher business education abroad.

Regards,
Ankit

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Ankit, Thanks for the feedback. Certain things can never be verified . Problem in marriage had stated in Jupiter - Saturn- Saturn[ January 18, 2007] and they may be separated after mid of September 2008. regards

[shilpa]

Hello,

could you please give details on divorce and remarriage for male.
born 19th june 1979, time 7.48 am (salem).

Thanks,

is he already divorced ?

[astroboy]

Gauri 20 good day to you,

kindly tell me in which universe was this match recommended ?

[Humannature]

JHora shows 27/36 guna match
AB, is that wrong?