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I am pursuing research in Europe. I have faced hardships throughout my life. I have not achieved much yet except education.
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why everything is delayed for me? (I finished bachelors at the age of 25).
I would like to get married in 2014. will I get married?
I am going through a very rough time now. I am trying to end a complicated relationship that lasted for about two and half years.
My recent trip to India made me to realize that I have misunderstanding with my parents also....
I am very much lonely now, I am in a situation that I could say I do not have any friends. why I always face problems with personal relationship/friendship?

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d.o.b 26.07.1979
p.o.b Coimbatore, India
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Good day Rubinstien,

All I can do is offer you a explaination of why you are in this mental agony. But sadly i dont know what can be done about it. Shall I go ahead with my explaination or not ?

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Through hard work and spiritual practices, a person gets honor and dignity. The lazy one who puts in no efforts is like a fool who allows salt to be spilled on the wounds of his misfortunes. The idler depending only on fate, achieves nothing. - K.N.Rao ji
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Astroboy, thank you
Please explain the reason......
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by rubinstein » Wed Jan 25, 2012 12:40 am
I am going through a very rough time now. I am trying to end a complicated relationship that lasted for about two and half years.
My recent trip to India made me to realize that I have misunderstanding with my parents also....
I am very much lonely now, I am in a situation that I could say I do not have any friends. why I always face problems with personal relationship/friendship?
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Rubinstein, It all starts and ends with the Moon - The significator of the Mind. focus on the degrees and the position of the Moon. You have your answer. The moon gains contact with all the Malefics in the sky via Nakshatra placement, aspect and conjunction. Most of the problems exist just because of a matter of perception, or if its real, the problem exists because of the lack of your ability to interact with people effectively. It's not that you are to blame. Its just the play of your planetary placements. Please dont feel bad that I am saying this. I am just being honest.
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Astroboy, Thank you very much, I will try to interact with others effectively....
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It also seems like I am the one who has been trying hard to keep in touch with people, but no one tries to keep in touch.....
Then I sometimes think that why should I keep in touch with everyone?
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rubinstein wrote:It also seems like I am the one who has been trying hard to keep in touch with people, but no one tries to keep in touch.....
Then I sometimes think that why should I keep in touch with everyone?
Dear Rubinstein,

Of what I have seen with some of my friends having such afflictions to Moon, they almost always do not harbour any bad intentions when they interact / talk with other or take any actions for others or in response to other, BUT the Sad reality is THEY R MISUNDERSTOOD, their actions are percieved with Doubts, Even by their close Ones :( .

For me it pains to see them getting misunderstood time and again and see them helpless to change this perception.But the Best Thing to do once you know the REASON for this, is to Keep yourself honest,sincere with others and maintain your patience n tolerance as far as possible by your limits. As ABji pointed out, its not you who is the culprit, its what your planets want it, through you as the Medium.

Its Always Good to KEEP YOURSELF OCCUPIED and Distracted by other things in Life ( though they might be Materialistic in nature), it keeps your mind away from negative thinking and from blaming yourself.
Finally Time has the power to change a lot of things, that includes people's perception of you... :) :)

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--Most of the mistakes in thinking are inadequacies of perception rather than mistakes of logic
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Thank you Justlearner,
Your words are so true
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Excellent J.A.l. You have out done me with your choice of words. Even I could not have put it better than you have done. Hats off to you.
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Good job JAL !!
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Excellent JAL Bhai!! :D
The best you can do is to avoid the people who misunderstand you and try not to prove your point.
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i m pursuing for MD in india......recently sum1 told me dat my married life wont be stable due to rahu in 7th house.......my parents want me to get married.....what are my marriage prospects or remedies for it....??kindly help....

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rubinstein wrote:Thank you Justlearner,
Your words are so true
Rubinstein,
I hope and to some extent am sure u will find some effective remedies to reduce if not remove the effect of heavy afflictions to your mind (Moon) on LOVA. Do vist the Remedial Measures and Spiritual Practices section on LOVA and start right away,now that you know the Cause. :)

ABji, I am honoured :) Thanks :)
@WSB and AD - Thank you :)

I cudnt resist responding to this post simply bcoz I have been through such situations myself few years back and have seen my close friends @ the receiving end too and know the pain. :(

I hope the gurus on LOVA have some highly effective remedies for Rubenstein.

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justalearner wrote: I cudnt resist responding to this post simply bcoz I have been through such situations myself few years back and have seen my close friends @ the receiving end too and know the pain. :(
:D Same here buddy, and that's why I couldn't resist giving thumbs up to your post.
Same happen to me in recent times. I have been called corrupt by my best friend, though he came running next day to me only to find he lost his best buddy :(

Best remedy for afflicted/debilitated moon is to payback what they get instead of getting into emotional crisis or mild/strong psychological disorder. Such people have brooding intensity underneath which needs to be curbed, which in turn, creates further emotional upheaval. A black hole? Always better not-to-forgive-and-forget than to forgive-and-never-forget.

Good flip side is that one can use this intense energy in positive ways, its all about ones mind not people after all. Julian assange, charlie chaplin or Mark zukerberg - all used this affliction differently, its not that bad, you see :lol:
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Thank you very much jal, astroboy, abhishek and wsb.....
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