Good day GammaRay,
Can I know what Disease you suffer from. I get Tula {Libra} lagna / ascendent. Shani in the lagna in exaltation is a Raja Yoga. Mere debilitation of Shukra is not such a big problem.
Uninterested in marriage
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Thanks Gamma ray. Tragedy is that I am not on face book. let me figure out something. 
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Namaskar ABji,astroboy wrote:JAL, good day to you,
Strange are the ways of God, and strange are the ways of the planets. When I just started out learning astrology {still learning} i had this rule that doctors, engineers and MBA's from the top 5 schools are exempt from any Negative impact of the 9 planets.
Then I read one day that a reputed doctor who did his medicine from the best medical school in Karnataka skinned his fingers, plunged two wires into a 30 Amp socket and electrocuted himself to death. You can bet it was a long slow and painful death. Then I read that a engineer studying at IIT jumped to his death, and finally an MBA from IIM jumped into the river and ended his life. So Now, I treat them just as I treat the others.
Only time will tell how that 1 degree conjunction will work for him in the long run.
However, here is something positive. Jataka Parijata says in chapter 7 sloka 53, that
If the Moon in conjunction with Saturn be in the 11th, the 4th or the 10th bhava, the person born, if of a royal family, will become a king or a wealthy man equal in rank to a king.
That bit about ""Royal family"" is exaggerated
Yes, very truly said Sir. What surprised me is the fact I know him since past 6-7yrs and percieved him to be one who will really go long in achieving his goals. But when I saw his chart in Sep-Oct 2011, i was shocked to see the Dreaded Sa-Mo combo that too within 1 degree.
and to Top it, he has KSY along 1-7 axis . Case closed!! 
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All of a sudden, ""case closed"" sounds more humane than ""Gone case"".
Thank you JAL
Thank you JAL
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ABji ,
Here is another chart which I wanted to post since long. I would definetly like your detailed views on this.
For me this chart looks like a real Closed Case, but then my knowledge limits are too infant to confirm it.
DOB - 4 Feb 1986
TOB - 5:52am IST
POB - Vadodara.
Father has passed away in Dec 2010 (cant disclose the mode of passing away.
let me know if you need any brief past details of the native.
Do you see any saving grace in terms of Career, Marriage n Life in general in her chart?
Moon is definetly in the Worst Place possible between the worst planets?
Top it with KSY.
If you think I need to open a seaparate thread for this, let me know.
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JAL
Here is another chart which I wanted to post since long. I would definetly like your detailed views on this.
For me this chart looks like a real Closed Case, but then my knowledge limits are too infant to confirm it.
DOB - 4 Feb 1986
TOB - 5:52am IST
POB - Vadodara.
Father has passed away in Dec 2010 (cant disclose the mode of passing away.
let me know if you need any brief past details of the native.
Do you see any saving grace in terms of Career, Marriage n Life in general in her chart?
Moon is definetly in the Worst Place possible between the worst planets?
Top it with KSY.
If you think I need to open a seaparate thread for this, let me know.
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JAL where do you get such horoscopes ?Yes you got it right, It looks scary. The only positives I see is a DharmaKarmadipati yoga in the 2nd house ( Not a great place - But still..... )
Another positive is the viparita Raja yoga that occurs between the 8th and the 12th lords in the 12th. The beauty is that it aspects the 6th. This yoga looks good to me. More over the 6th aspcts the 8th. I am curious to know how his education went ? let us proceed from there.
Best regards,
P.S. See the close conjunction within 1.5 Deg of Shukra and Budha.
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astroboy wrote:
Yes you got it right, It looks scary. The only positives I see is a DharmaKarmadipati yoga in the 2nd house ( Not a great place - But still..... )
Another positive is the viparita Raja yoga that occurs between the 8th and the 12th lords in the 12th. The beauty is that it aspects the 6th. This yoga looks good to me. More over the 6th aspcts the 8th. I am curious to know how his education went ? let us proceed from there.
Best regards,
P.S. See the close conjunction within 1.5 Deg of Shukra and Budha.
Namaskar ABji,
Lots of friends ABji. I guess I was famous person in my past life
so maybe there are lot of past life people meeting me in this life too. 
Coming to the chart, Her Education was good as per what was described by her. She used to top or be amongst the top scorers in her college during Engineering. Has done Instrumentation Engineering and is quite sharp. But why asking about education specifically? Anything you deem unusual related to education?
Also whats the Ve-Me close conjunction indicate? Chastisity?
or you pointing to something else? 
As per what I have seen, her domestic life was not good,especially Father who did not treat her mother in a good way (to put it very mildly ).If her past affairs are anything to go by, unethical behaviour is a common trait. Also she herself has pulled out of all her past relationships OVERNIGHT (all of sudden) without any genuine reasons. (maybe thts due to Sa-Ma combo??
).and seems she doesnt have any regrets about what she did. 
. Also how strong is the KSY effect?--
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JAL, Good day,
Why I asked you about her education was to find out if the combustion of Budha has in anyway played on her intelligence. This again goes to prove that the combustion of Budha can be ignored as far as intellect goes {all other factors being equal}
Having said that, I am not sure what that combustion and the planetary war between the 6th and the 7th lords will do for marriage. I am tempted to predict doom, but Guru's aspect on the 7th might just save the day - If the horoscopes are well matched.
Comming to the Moon lagna, The close conjunction of the 7th and the 8th lord and the planetary war that arises from it is a cause for concern. If you add My previous statement and my analysis from the Chandra lagna, marriage will be a disaster. - unless the horoscopes are matched.
Sat - Kuja - Moon combo in the 12th house. Moon is the 8th lord who is debilitated - Kuja the 12th - in his own house. 8th is the house of ""cold sexuality"" and the 12th, - the house of ""bed pleasures"". Add the two - Get Shani in - you have a potential Latrodectus hesperus in our midst
Best regards,
Why I asked you about her education was to find out if the combustion of Budha has in anyway played on her intelligence. This again goes to prove that the combustion of Budha can be ignored as far as intellect goes {all other factors being equal}
Having said that, I am not sure what that combustion and the planetary war between the 6th and the 7th lords will do for marriage. I am tempted to predict doom, but Guru's aspect on the 7th might just save the day - If the horoscopes are well matched.
Comming to the Moon lagna, The close conjunction of the 7th and the 8th lord and the planetary war that arises from it is a cause for concern. If you add My previous statement and my analysis from the Chandra lagna, marriage will be a disaster. - unless the horoscopes are matched.
Sat - Kuja - Moon combo in the 12th house. Moon is the 8th lord who is debilitated - Kuja the 12th - in his own house. 8th is the house of ""cold sexuality"" and the 12th, - the house of ""bed pleasures"". Add the two - Get Shani in - you have a potential Latrodectus hesperus in our midst
Best regards,
Through hard work and spiritual practices, a person gets honor and dignity. The lazy one who puts in no efforts is like a fool who allows salt to be spilled on the wounds of his misfortunes. The idler depending only on fate, achieves nothing. - K.N.Rao ji
Good day Lori,
Lost in the negative, you have forgotten to focus on the good combinations present in your horoscope.
Look at the unblemished Sasa Yoga, Dharma Karmadipati yoga, Hamsa Yoga from the Moon lagna, Gaja Kesari Yoga, and the Viparita Sarala Raja yoga. Moreover, the 4th and the 5th lord is exalted in the Lagna and aspects the 7th and the 10th house. This is the best bloody combination to have in a horoscope.
You have ignored these excellent Yogas and focused on the negatives in the chart.
Yes, The Lagna lord is debilitated. But he is in a Kendra from the moon and thus gains a Neecha Bhanga. Guru, who is Shukra’s exaltation lord, is also in a Kendra from the Moon. Shukra is in a Vargothama position and so mitigates some ills of debilitation. It’s not as bad as you make it out to be.
Where has the screw up occurred?
Let us face some bitter facts. You saw Rahu Dasha from Aug 1985 - Aug 2003 (18 yrs) by which time the entire basic foundation was destroyed.
Why?
Rahu is in the Rashi of Shukra, who is in the 12th. but more importantly, he is in the Nakshatra of Ravi, his arch enemy, who is in the 12th. I can say confidently - though you might not agree with me, all the 17 years went down the drain. You were not able to get the foundation to your life right, and are now reaping the consequences of it in Guru Dasha. Can I blame you ? Not really. The dasha was such.
Can you give the same excuse in Guru Dasha. No. That would be criminal. Yes you started life with one bad dasha. It happens. Are you going to sit and cry over it? You have pissed 8 years of Guru dasha away. you still have the time to make amends. start now, and work hard for the next 6 years. I promise, you will reap rich dividends in Shani dasha. You will be 35 then. Just the ripe age to enjoy life.
Guru is not as bad as you think he is. Guru is the 3rd and the 6th lord. Both houses are the houses of ""self-development"". If given the right motivation and direction, you still can steer your life back on track, provided you get off the ground, dust your pants, leave the past behind and get your life back. Guru can do wonderful things for you. You just have to make up your mind.
Believe me, if you set your mind to something, your horoscope will give you all the good results it has promised. All the good Yogas I have mentioned above will come alive. You just have to wake them up, Steer your free will in the right direction, and then see how good your horoscope is. Remember - Life is a dynamic interaction between ""Fate"" and ""free will"".
Remember Lori, you have age on your side, and most importantly you live in a country which is a land of Opportunities. I call it the land of Milk and Honey. You are blessed to be born there. Dont piss it all away. Get up, stand up, and like Shaggy would say ""Never give up"". Believe me, you have a great horoscope. Go back and do a search of my posts, I am not feeding you BS - I have always said that people born in 83 and 84 are extremely lucky. Your Shani is placed in the best possibe positionn in the entire zodiac.Get up, Dust your pants and encash it.
Your comments please,
Lost in the negative, you have forgotten to focus on the good combinations present in your horoscope.
Look at the unblemished Sasa Yoga, Dharma Karmadipati yoga, Hamsa Yoga from the Moon lagna, Gaja Kesari Yoga, and the Viparita Sarala Raja yoga. Moreover, the 4th and the 5th lord is exalted in the Lagna and aspects the 7th and the 10th house. This is the best bloody combination to have in a horoscope.
You have ignored these excellent Yogas and focused on the negatives in the chart.
Yes, The Lagna lord is debilitated. But he is in a Kendra from the moon and thus gains a Neecha Bhanga. Guru, who is Shukra’s exaltation lord, is also in a Kendra from the Moon. Shukra is in a Vargothama position and so mitigates some ills of debilitation. It’s not as bad as you make it out to be.
Where has the screw up occurred?
Let us face some bitter facts. You saw Rahu Dasha from Aug 1985 - Aug 2003 (18 yrs) by which time the entire basic foundation was destroyed.
Why?
Rahu is in the Rashi of Shukra, who is in the 12th. but more importantly, he is in the Nakshatra of Ravi, his arch enemy, who is in the 12th. I can say confidently - though you might not agree with me, all the 17 years went down the drain. You were not able to get the foundation to your life right, and are now reaping the consequences of it in Guru Dasha. Can I blame you ? Not really. The dasha was such.
Can you give the same excuse in Guru Dasha. No. That would be criminal. Yes you started life with one bad dasha. It happens. Are you going to sit and cry over it? You have pissed 8 years of Guru dasha away. you still have the time to make amends. start now, and work hard for the next 6 years. I promise, you will reap rich dividends in Shani dasha. You will be 35 then. Just the ripe age to enjoy life.
Guru is not as bad as you think he is. Guru is the 3rd and the 6th lord. Both houses are the houses of ""self-development"". If given the right motivation and direction, you still can steer your life back on track, provided you get off the ground, dust your pants, leave the past behind and get your life back. Guru can do wonderful things for you. You just have to make up your mind.
Believe me, if you set your mind to something, your horoscope will give you all the good results it has promised. All the good Yogas I have mentioned above will come alive. You just have to wake them up, Steer your free will in the right direction, and then see how good your horoscope is. Remember - Life is a dynamic interaction between ""Fate"" and ""free will"".
Remember Lori, you have age on your side, and most importantly you live in a country which is a land of Opportunities. I call it the land of Milk and Honey. You are blessed to be born there. Dont piss it all away. Get up, stand up, and like Shaggy would say ""Never give up"". Believe me, you have a great horoscope. Go back and do a search of my posts, I am not feeding you BS - I have always said that people born in 83 and 84 are extremely lucky. Your Shani is placed in the best possibe positionn in the entire zodiac.Get up, Dust your pants and encash it.
Your comments please,
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astroboy wrote:JAL, Good day,
Why I asked you about her education was to find out if the combustion of Budha has in anyway played on her intelligence. This again goes to prove that the combustion of Budha can be ignored as far as intellect goes {all other factors being equal}
Having said that, I am not sure what that combustion and the planetary war between the 6th and the 7th lords will do for marriage. I am tempted to predict doom, but Guru's aspect on the 7th might just save the day - If the horoscopes are well matched.
Comming to the Moon lagna, The close conjunction of the 7th and the 8th lord and the planetary war that arises from it is a cause for concern. If you add My previous statement and my analysis from the Chandra lagna, marriage will be a disaster. - unless the horoscopes are matched.
Sat - Kuja - Moon combo in the 12th house. Moon is the 8th lord who is debilitated - Kuja the 12th - in his own house. 8th is the house of ""cold sexuality"" and the 12th, - the house of ""bed pleasures"". Add the two - Get Shani in - you have a potential Latrodectus hesperus in our midst
Best regards,
Namaskar ABji,
Latrodectus hesperus
, OMG. Yes, I definitely agree with that to a good extent,simply because it fits the behavior I have observed at workplace. But there I have some sympathy for her,purely because she has not been fortunate to experience good domestic life (though this doesnt mean she was not cared for, she has been pampered a lot, it is simply that the events in her house were something a kid should not see or experience in early childhood).Her family wants her to get married, but she is not willing to for next 1-2yrs (for reasons I am not aware of).
ABji, I cannot PM you
, not even send mail through LOVA, wanted to PM you.Any suggestions how?--
JAL
JAL, the family life went for a 6 because of the planetary war between the 2nd lord and the 8th lord. Also note the planetary war between the 7th and the 6th lord in the 2nd house. The 2nd house of ""Family""" is totally destroyed.
I will keep the PM open for you.
Best regards,
I will keep the PM open for you.
Best regards,
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astroboy wrote:JAL, the family life went for a 6 because of the planetary war between the 2nd lord and the 8th lord. Also note the planetary war between the 7th and the 6th lord in the 2nd house. The 2nd house of ""Family""" is totally destroyed.
I will keep the PM open for you.
Best regards,
Namaskara ABji,
Also is Aspect of Saturn on 2nd house one of the reasons (and maybe a strong reason) why family life was disturbed?
ABji JH doesnt show PW between Ve-Me, are you mentioning because the conjucntion in within 1.5deg?
Also, is the KSY strong here? I mean whether KSY is affecting her domestic life aspect or all aspects of life?
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JAL , yes Shani's aspect is also a reason why family life is a mess.
J Hora shows planetary war between the 9 planets, but it does only when they are within 1 degree of each other. In the case of Shukra and Budha the conjunction is more than 1 degree away. Some astrologers say that a planetary war starts and ends in a region of 3.20 Deg.
I have sent P.V.N.Rao ji a detailed 2 page mail asking for a clarification on his stand on Planetary war and what his logic was to include the Nodes and the luminaries in the Planetary war tab. After all, he has not extended the courtesy of including Rahu, Ketu and Chandra under the combustion Tab. It's been more than 3 days now, But I am yet to get a reply. But that is to be expected. He is not obliged to give me a reply . If I was in his place, I would have not bothered to reply too. But there is always hope.
Best regards,
J Hora shows planetary war between the 9 planets, but it does only when they are within 1 degree of each other. In the case of Shukra and Budha the conjunction is more than 1 degree away. Some astrologers say that a planetary war starts and ends in a region of 3.20 Deg.
I have sent P.V.N.Rao ji a detailed 2 page mail asking for a clarification on his stand on Planetary war and what his logic was to include the Nodes and the luminaries in the Planetary war tab. After all, he has not extended the courtesy of including Rahu, Ketu and Chandra under the combustion Tab. It's been more than 3 days now, But I am yet to get a reply. But that is to be expected. He is not obliged to give me a reply
. If I was in his place, I would have not bothered to reply too. But there is always hope.Best regards,
Through hard work and spiritual practices, a person gets honor and dignity. The lazy one who puts in no efforts is like a fool who allows salt to be spilled on the wounds of his misfortunes. The idler depending only on fate, achieves nothing. - K.N.Rao ji
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ABji 
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I am sure you will get a response. I am hoping Sir PVN Raoji is taking the time only to send you a detailed response with clear explanations to your 2 page query
And PW is certainly one of the most important concept so a precise unambiguous definition is a necessity.
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JAL
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,I am sure you will get a response. I am hoping Sir PVN Raoji is taking the time only to send you a detailed response with clear explanations to your 2 page query
And PW is certainly one of the most important concept so a precise unambiguous definition is a necessity.
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JAL
-- Tell Me & I forget, Teach me & I remember, Involve me and I Learn
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Here is a interesting case of planetary war between the Lagna lord and the 6th lord Shukra with the 2nd and the 5th lord Budha. The lady took 10 years to conceive. She finally gave birth in the dasha of Budha and the AD of Rahu. What is interesting is that as per J hora, It is Budha who has won the war. Yet it took a 10 year struggle for the 5th lord's signification to fructify. I am well aware of the other afflictions present in the horoscope. But since my focus is on Graha Yudha, I will not talk about the other afflictions present in the chart.
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When I saw this post Uninterested in marriage I thought how writer of this post decided that She is not interested in the marriage there is no such indication in horoscope. This seems to me that this lady must have a personality of a good manager or administrator of the affairs. She has a very defensive posture in the life and it seems that she has been pushed in to life circumstances to be victimized this all happened due to some domestic and parental concerns.
She has a deep Acceptability problem, she has a very deep feeling that she will not be fully accepted by other/husband in relationship and as a result she is not accepting other/husband. One of her parent ( May be Mother is very Controlling). Definitely She is feeling Unlovable.
Period from June 2013 to Dec 2015 is very important for her She may get Married in this period and there is very strong possibility of experiencing strong spirituality or any other type of mystic/paranormal experience.
She has a deep Acceptability problem, she has a very deep feeling that she will not be fully accepted by other/husband in relationship and as a result she is not accepting other/husband. One of her parent ( May be Mother is very Controlling). Definitely She is feeling Unlovable.
Period from June 2013 to Dec 2015 is very important for her She may get Married in this period and there is very strong possibility of experiencing strong spirituality or any other type of mystic/paranormal experience.
Many a slip between the cup and the lip TV 1980or creates problem with them.
by tv1980 » Sat Jun 16, 2012 5:55 pm
The friend who I thought would never ever have children is now pregnant. I guess she wasn't as against children as I thought. Makes me rethink most of astrology.
Keep the faith. don't ever think that Jyotishya is wrong.
Getting laid and getting pregnant is no big deal. what happens after that is what counts. The main task is to have a child, then bring it up, and ensure that it stays alive. Time will tell if that happens or not.
P.S. - However you look at it, you must admit that having a Kid at the age of 30 - The planets have indeed done their job by delaying mother hood.
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Namesthey,
I feel like to your topic my birth details match.
I'm facing problems in all directions.
23rd Aug 1982, 8:55AM, machilipatnam, Andhra Pradesh.
I'm lonely. no one likes my company. everyone hates me and my words. How good i speak, they hate me. no friends. Unmarried. unsecured job. father expired because of my hatred. unable to keep my mother happy. feeling helpless & hatred of myself.
can you please analyse my chart and provide me remedies? i would also like to know my mukhya graha.
Please i request you people todo me this favor.
I feel like to your topic my birth details match.
I'm facing problems in all directions.
23rd Aug 1982, 8:55AM, machilipatnam, Andhra Pradesh.
I'm lonely. no one likes my company. everyone hates me and my words. How good i speak, they hate me. no friends. Unmarried. unsecured job. father expired because of my hatred. unable to keep my mother happy. feeling helpless & hatred of myself.
can you please analyse my chart and provide me remedies? i would also like to know my mukhya graha.
Please i request you people todo me this favor.
Hello to everyone, im posting in this nearly 7 year old thread. I am the person this post was started in the beginning, the sister who is not interested in marriage . I just want to give a heads-up to everyone here who had replied to this post in regards to me like @Astroboy ji, @Dinesh ji, @Sujit ji, @Anuradha ji and everyone else, I got married in June 2016 and it was a love marriage whereby I met my husband in August 2014. Yes, thr was lots of up and down with getting married. However I'm now about 2 and half years into marriage and I'm doing very well. I have a nice husband and in laws. Of course there were and are many differences between us but my life is good. As long as there is some give and take, and rational thinking I think life is full of possibilities.
Thank you so much to all of you.
. I just want to give a heads-up to everyone here who had replied to this post in regards to me like @Astroboy ji, @Dinesh ji, @Sujit ji, @Anuradha ji and everyone else, I got married in June 2016 and it was a love marriage whereby I met my husband in August 2014. Yes, thr was lots of up and down with getting married. However I'm now about 2 and half years into marriage and I'm doing very well. I have a nice husband and in laws. Of course there were and are many differences between us but my life is good. As long as there is some give and take, and rational thinking I think life is full of possibilities.Thank you so much to all of you.
