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Need guidance on friendships

Post by jonbonesjones » 30 Jun 2024

Throughout my life I have had very very friends. Even when I have attempted to put myself out there, and initiate friendships, I have found it to be very difficult. It has been very difficult for me, to make and maintain new friendships / meet new people despite best efforts. I have little to no social life. Could you please provide some guidance on it? Is it better I just focus on myself, and keep doing activities alone instead of trying to have a social life? Is there any scope of improvement at some point?

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DOB: April 24th, 1997
Time: 7:21 pm
Place of Birth: Madurai, Chennai, India

If you have any guidance, please let me know!



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Re: Need guidance on friendships

Post by Sujit » 06 Jul 2024

I have replied to you earlier in another thread. The sun is afflicted, and mercury is combust is the reason for having less friends. This also affects health and marital status. The chart also has weak moon and Jupiter due to debilitation. so you will have to put in more efforts to see results.
do some charity for poor people and road side beggars.
http://astrologer.Sujit.tripod.com
If you have the right knowledge, EXACT predictions can be made. Astrology is an incredible tool for guidance and one should take note of the energies of changing dasa lords.

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Re: Need guidance on friendships

Post by Sishya » 06 Jul 2024

Hi,
jonbonesjones wrote:
30 Jun 2024
Throughout my life I have had very very friends. Even when I have attempted to put myself out there, and initiate friendships, I have found it to be very difficult. It has been very difficult for me, to make and maintain new friendships / meet new people despite best efforts. I have little to no social life. Could you please provide some guidance on it? Is it better I just focus on myself, and keep doing activities alone instead of trying to have a social life? Is there any scope of improvement at some point?

Details:
DOB: April 24th, 1997
Time: 7:21 pm
Place of Birth: Madurai, Chennai, India
Beyond whatever has been shared earlier with regards to wavery/wandering mind (due to lack of support on either side of flanks for Moon/Chandra - check the following link viewtopic.php?f=22&t=45110&p=300282#p300421), I'd like to draw your attention to the influence of Ketu in your birth-chart. For the records, Ketu has been active since your birth... Moon/Chandra is posited in the Lunar Constellation of Vishaka Nakshatra, ruled by Jupiter/Guru-dev. So, you started your life at the fag end of Jupiter/Guru-dev's Maha-Dasha, activating Ketu posited in the Lunar Constellation of Purva-Bhadrapada Nakshatra, also ruled by Jupiter/Guru-dev.

Thereafter, conjunction of Ketu alongside Saturn/Shani-dev in Pisces/Meena Rashi ensure Ketu continued to be active.... and now, current Maha-Dasha lord Mercury/Budha is posited in the Lunar Constellation of Ashwini Nakshatra.

Given the situation, kindly consider propitiating Ketu by offering special prayers on a daily basis to Lord Ganesh, with unwavering faith, bhakti/devotion and a strong Sankalpa.

Sincerely...

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Re: Need guidance on friendships

Post by achintyapan » 23 Aug 2024

Sir I cannot make a new thread so I describe here, please consider me
I don't know why I am in some heavy past life karma or bad position in gaining wealth and earning money , I got job and resigned it because of higher studies but I can't do studies also because of my mother health condition now again I am searching for job and cannot get success, also in my life I face more hardwork than others till now , and now suddenly I am turning to spirituality, the more I hear and see sorrow and distress in family life, the more I am inclining to spirituality, thinking that the material life has no real value in my life because what's the use of earning money if there is no happiness, but I know that as a male person I have some financial responsibility for my family,so please answer this question that
1.If I am now facing so much struggle and obstacles in financial gain then in later life what will happen , am I ever unsuccessful in this matter and doesn't land any job?
2.will there be happiness and comfort in family life?
3.in which spiritual path can I progress, bhakti, gyan or kriya yoga and how spiritual help me to gain peace, and who is my ishta devta?
Here is my birth details -

26th Oct, 2000
10:46pm
Begampur, West Bengal, India

Please guide me and how can I get out of this situation

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Re: Need guidance on friendships

Post by achintyapan » 24 Aug 2024

Sir I cannot make a new thread so I describe here, please consider me
I don't know why I am in some heavy past life karma or bad position in gaining wealth and earning money , I got job and resigned it because of higher studies but I can't do studies also because of my mother health condition now again I am searching for job and cannot get success, also in my life I face more hardwork than others till now , and now suddenly I am turning to spirituality, the more I hear and see sorrow and distress in family life, the more I am inclining to spirituality, thinking that the material life has no real value in my life because what's the use of earning money if there is no happiness, but I know that as a male person I have some financial responsibility for my family,so please answer this question that
1.If I am now facing so much struggle and obstacles in financial gain then in later life what will happen , am I ever unsuccessful in this matter and doesn't land any job?
2.will there be happiness and comfort in family life?
3.in which spiritual path can I progress, bhakti, gyan or kriya yoga and how spiritual help me to gain peace, and who is my ishta devta?
Here is my birth details -

26th Oct, 2000
10:46pm
Begampur, West Bengal, India

Please guide me and how can I get out of this situation

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Re: Need guidance on friendships

Post by Sishya » 08 Sep 2024

Hi,
achintyapan wrote:
23 Aug 2024
Here is my birth details -
26th Oct, 2000
10:46pm
Begampur, West Bengal, India
Given birth-details place Ascendent or Udaya Lagna in the Zodiac sign of Cancer or Karkataka Rashi. Lagna Lord Moon/Chandra is placed in the 4th house of Homely Comforts, in the Zodiac sign of Libra or Tula Rashi.

Current Maha-Dasha is that of Jupiter/Guru-dev and Antara is that of Saturn/Shani-dev (both are Vakra or Retrograde and placed in the Badak-Sthana... technically a Raja Yoga period from April 2023 to November 2025.

It is quite understandable for you to have had a roller-coaster ride during Rahu Maha-Dasha and might have turned spiritual/religious or dharmic since start of Jupiter/Guru-dev's Maha-Dasha (from March 2021). Sun/Ravi being placed in his Neecha-Sthana or sign of debilitation and weak 10th lord is not helping your cause. Kindly consider strengthening them by Vedic/Dharmic ways.

Sincerely...

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