Is marriage denied or delayed?

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Is marriage denied or delayed?

Post by DharmaLover » 25 Dec 2021

Hello to all the learned members of this forum.

Posting details of my son and wanting some direction

DOB: Nov 8, 1992
POB: Pondicherry, India
TOB: 00:12:15 hrs

Native is 29 years old and is currently in a relationship. Will this convert into marriage? Several astrologers consulted have given different ages for marriage - some say 31 or 33 only during Surya Mahadasha.

Native currently undergoing Venus Mahadasha and Ketu Antardasha(From Oct 31, 2021 to Dec 31, 2022). There is also an upcoming transit of Ketu to 8th house in April 2022.

What should native watch out for during the Ketu antardasha and Ketu transit to 8th house?

Thanks in advance for your time and insight. It is much appreciated.



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Re: Is marriage denied or delayed?

Post by Dr Neeraj » 17 Mar 2022

Dear DharmaLover
With the given details I get Cancer asc 24:42 and Moon is in Pisces at 21:16
He is currently in the dasha of Ven-Jup-Mer NOT in the AD of Ketu, as mentioned by you.

His Ketu AD will start in Oct 2029.
Plz confirm whether his birth details are correct?
God bless you
Neeraj

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Re: Is marriage denied or delayed?

Post by Sishya » 20 Mar 2022

Hi,
DharmaLover wrote:
25 Dec 2021
DOB: Nov 8, 1992
POB: Pondicherry, India
TOB: 00:12:15 hrs
If it's indeed a midnight birth and the details provided are accurate, Udaya Lagna seems to be placed in Karkataka Rashi and Chandra Lagna or Moon/Chandra is placed in Meera Rashi. Udaya Lagna is conjunct Neecha or debilitated Mars/Kuja and Saturn/Shani-dev is strongly placed in his Swasthana in Makara Rashi - the placements and their mutual aspects (nor Saturn/Shani-dev's aspect on Moon/Chandra and Udaya Lagna) are not preferred.

Secondly, Moon/Chandra seems to be caught in the middle on nowhere without support on the flanks, creating a partially cancelled Kemadruma Yoga... making the native a bit of a loner with few friends and little or no social life. He has a mind of his own.

Further, Venus/Shukra being placed close to deep Gandanta degrees and in close proximity to Rahu, in the 5th house of creativity/pro-creativity. Currently the native is in the midst of Venus/Shukra Maha-Dasha and Antara of Jupiter/Guru, after finishing Rahu Antara in 2021. Afflicted Mercury/Budha seems to have a significant foot-print and influence, contributing to twisted thinking and misuse of intelligence.

In summary, I'm inclined to think the native might have had unconventional relationship (perhaps more than one)... and has a tendency to fall in love, which may not culminate in marriage. Request you to kindly ignore anything that is not to your taste or liking.

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Re: Is marriage denied or delayed?

Post by Sujit » 26 Mar 2022

Ascendant sign is Cancer.
Currently, in maha dasa of Venus and antara of Jupiter till 18th October 2023.
Marriage looks weak in the chart, so likely to face delay in getting married and married life will have less happiness.
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If you have the right knowledge, EXACT predictions can be made. Astrology is an incredible tool for guidance and one should take note of the energies of changing dasa lords.

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Re: Is marriage denied or delayed?

Post by DharmaLover » 26 Mar 2022

Namaste Dr Niraj, Sishya and Sujit,

He was born at 12:15 PM during the day, in the afternoon and not at night. I apologise for giving time in 24 hour format and confusing everybody.

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Re: Is marriage denied or delayed?

Post by Sujit » 27 Mar 2022

27 March 2022.

Update:
Time of birth is 12:15 pm

Ascendant sign is Capricorn.
Maha dasha of Venus till 23 Dec 2022
Antar dasha of Ketu till 23 December 2022.

Even with Capricorn ascendant chart is weak for marriage due to debilitation of marriage lords.
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Re: Is marriage denied or delayed?

Post by Nora » 10 Apr 2022

Namaste, Sujit ji and Neeraj ji

Is divorce of the below two individuals likely this year or by next year? Divorce process has begun but is taking time. And if yes, can there be a second marriage for her or for him with someone else?

She
9 March 1987
3.15 PM
Chennai
She is in Saturn-Mars period

He
21 May, 1981
8.01 AM
Bangalore
He is in Moon - Mercury period, Moon-Ketu is starting soon.

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Re: Is marriage denied or delayed?

Post by Sujit » 10 Apr 2022

Nora, sorry....
Studying two charts is time consuming.
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Re: Is marriage denied or delayed?

Post by Nora » 10 Apr 2022

Ok could you tell by the first chart the girl's chart?

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Re: Is marriage denied or delayed?

Post by Nora » 10 Apr 2022

I gave the guy's chart (husband's) only as a reference.

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Re: Is marriage denied or delayed?

Post by Sishya » 11 Apr 2022

Hi,
DharmaLover wrote:
26 Mar 2022
He was born at 12:15 PM during the day, in the afternoon and not at night. I apologise for giving time in 24 hour format and confusing everybody.
If it's indeed a Noon-time birth and the details provided are accurate, Udaya Lagna is placed in Makara Rashi and Chandra Lagna or Moon/Chandra is placed in Meera Rashi. Udaya Lagna is closely conjunct Lagna Lord Saturn/Shani-dev strongly placed in his Swasthana. He is not really comfortable or happy being placed there and will be detrimental for related significance. 7th house of Kalathra-Sthana is occupied by Neecha or debilitated Mars/Kuja. The fiery planet is not really happy or comfortable being placed in there and will be detrimental for related significance. The placement of two egoistic planets and their mutual aspects (nor Saturn/Shani-dev's aspect on Moon/Chandra or Mars/Kuja's aspect on Lagna and 2nd house of family expansion) are not preferred.

Secondly, Moon/Chandra seems to be caught in the middle on nowhere without support on the flanks, creating a partially cancelled Kemadruma Yoga... making the native a bit of a loner with few friends and little or no social life. He has a mind of his own. Further, low-profile miscreants Mandi and Gulika are close by.

Further, Venus/Shukra being placed close to deep Gandanta degrees and in very close proximity to Rahu, in the 11th house of Desire Fulfillment. Currently the native is in the fag end of Venus/Shukra Maha-Dasha and Antara of Ketu. Afflicted Mercury/Budha seems to have a significant foot-print and influence (as does Moon/Chandra), contributing to twisted thinking and perhaps misuse of intelligence.

Lastly, Sun/Ravi (although high on Dig-Bala), Mars/Kuja, Rahu and Ketu have weak Sthana-Bala or Positional strength. To make matters worse, Moon/Chandra, Mercury/Budha, Rahu and Ketu have low Vimsopaka Bala. So, overall strength of the chart is relatively low.

In summary, the delay is obvious and it looks like there might be some more. I'm still inclined to think the native might have had or has scope for unconventional relationship - sustaining the same will be a challenge though. Request you to kindly ignore anything that is not to your taste or liking.

Sincerely...

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Re: Is marriage denied or delayed?

Post by Nora » 11 Apr 2022

Shishya could you please respond to my query? Thank you so much in advance for helping out.

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Re: Is marriage denied or delayed?

Post by Sishya » 14 Apr 2022

Hi,
Nora wrote:
11 Apr 2022
Shishya could you please respond to my query? Thank you so much in advance for helping out.

She
9 March 1987
3.15 PM
Chennai
She is in Saturn-Mars period

He
21 May, 1981
8.01 AM
Bangalore
He is in Moon - Mercury period, Moon-Ketu is starting soon.
I've had a chance to cast both the birth-charts and spend some time to study, as also make an effort to understand them. Below are a few notes that are relevant for your query:
Her birth-chart:
1. Udaya Lagna is placed in Karkataka Rashi and posited in the Lunar Constellation of Pushya Nakshatra, ruled by Saturn/Shani-dev... the 7th & 8th lord is placed in the 5th house in Vrischika Rashi and posited in the Lunar Constellation of Jyestha Nakshatra, ruled by 3rd & 12th lord Mercury/Budha (not really a benefic for the chart).
2. Lagna Lord Moon/Chandra is placed in Mithuna Rashi, the 12th house of Vyaya/Losses and posited in the Lunar Constellation of Ardra Nakshatra, ruled by Rahu... who is placed in the 9th house of Bhagya-Sthana, where he is neither comfortable or happy and can be detrimental for related significance. To make matters worse, he seems to have drifted away with no support on either side of the flanks and very little support from Kendra... forming a partially cancelled Kemadruma Yoga, making her a bit lonely, with very few friends and little social life.
3. Venus/Shukra, the natural or Naisargika Kalathra-Krakra is also Badha-Karaka for the chart. He is placed in the 7th house of Kalathra-Sthana, warranting validation of "Karaka-Bhava-Nashaya". He is posited in the Lunar Constellation of Shravana Nakshatra, ruled by Moon/Chandra.
4. Currently in the midst of Saturn/Shani-dev's Maha-Dasha and started Antara of Mars/Kuja a few months back. Mind you, Saturn/Shani-dev is Atma-Karaka for the chart.
5. Given the planetary positions and Gochara/Transits (Ashtama-Shani), it looks like trouble might have been brewing for some time.


His birth-chart:
1. Udaya Lagna is placed in Mithuna Rashi and posited in the Lunar Constellation of Mrigashira Nakshatra, ruled by Mars/Kuja... who is powerfully, placed in his Swasthana in the 11th house of Mesha Rashi.
2. Lagna Lord Mercury/Budha is placed in the 12th house of Vyaya/Losses in Vrishaba Rashi and posited in the Lunar Constellation of Mrigashira Nakshatra, ruled by his enemy Mars/Kuja.
3. Moon/Chandra, the 2nd lord of Wealth/Family Expansion is placed in his Neecha-Sthana or sign of debilitation in Vrischika Rashi and posited in the Lunar Constellation of Jyestha Nakshatra, ruled by Mercury/Budha... very close to deep in Gandanta degrees. He also seems to have drifted away and finds himself in the middle of nowhere, without any support on either side of the flanks and little from Kendra, creating a partially cancelled Kemadruma Yoga... making him a bit of a lonesome person, with few friends and very little social life.
4. Jupiter/Guru, the 7th (& 10th) lord of Kalathra-Sthana is a Badha-Karaka. He is Vakra/Retrograde and in close conjunction with 8th (& 9th) lord Saturn/Shani-dev (who is also Vakra/Retrograde).
5. He is in the midst of Moon/Chandra Maha-Dasha (Neecha/Debilitated Atmakaraka) and about to start Ketu Antara... who is placed in the 8th house of Randra-Sthana and posited in the Lunar Constellation of Shravana Nakshatra, ruled by Moon/Chandra. Further, he placed close to Mrityu Bhaga and within the fatal Trimsamsa degrees. His aspect on Jupiter/Guru, Saturn/Shani-dev, Mercury/Budha, Venus/Shukra and Sun/Ravi is not really preferred. So, we are on shaky grounds and the next few months (till end of year November 2022) are a bit critical.

In summary, mental and physical compatibility seems to be lacking and there is indeed a tendency towards separation/divorce. Given the situation, it would perhaps make sense for both individuals to seek help/guidance from a good marriage counselor and exercise free-will to consider Vedic/Dharmic ways to salvage their marriage.

Sincerely...

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Re: Is marriage denied or delayed?

Post by Nora » 15 Apr 2022

Thank you Shishya, for the clear and concise explanation. I would appreciate if Sujit ji and Neeraj ji would give their view as well...

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