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Teenage boy behaviour

Post by Keerthi » 12 May 2021

Hello Respected members

The relationship of the boy with his mother and everyone around him is becoming a cause of concern and worry.
Is there anything wrong with his chart or should we ignore his behavior for the time being.

Dec 27 2007
9 20 AM
Chennai Tamil Nadu



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Re: Teenage boy behaviour

Post by KMD » 16 May 2021

Hi,

The boy is running Ketu dasha from Dec 2017 to Dec 2024. The general indications are that the boy may be feeling some distress, fear, fatigue during this time period. Maybe it would be better to find out if this is correct and if so, try to find out the reason.

At present Rahu antar-dasha is going on from Nov 2020 to Nov 2021. It again indicates that there may be some fatigue, quarrel, deceit. It would be better to find out if this is so and find out the cause.

There may be a possibility that the boy is finding it difficult to cope up with on-line classes maybe pressurized by parents. Is it so?

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Re: Teenage boy behaviour

Post by AstrologyLearner1000 » 16 May 2021

Can you confirm the following:

Extremely emotional towards mother due to absence of father/ distance from father?

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Re: Teenage boy behaviour

Post by Sishya » 16 May 2021

Hi,

It does look like absence or lack of father figure around the native is standing out. Apart from that, there are other afflictions or issues that are evident in the birth-chart... including the current Maha-Dasha of malefic Ketu, who is placed in the 8th house of Simha Rashi (and conjunct with Lagna Lord Saturn/Shani-dev, where both are uncomfortably placed) and posited in the Lunar Constellation of Magha Nakshatra, ruled by Ketu himself.

Things could get slightly better with the change in Maha-Dasha to that of Yogakaraka Venus/Shukra... a few years from now.

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Re: Teenage boy behaviour

Post by GodGrace » 17 May 2021

Dear Keerthi,

You should wait till november this year. Things will improve.

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Re: Teenage boy behaviour

Post by Keerthi » 17 May 2021

Father is very much alive and living with him..
There are no issues with the father but the boy seems distant and throwing tantrums a lot.
That is the issue.
We were also worried about Saturn ketu since few astrologers said it will cause harm as well.
Can someone clarify

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Re: Teenage boy behaviour

Post by Sishya » 18 May 2021

Hi,

It would help if you could kindly provide some insight into the role of native's father and involvement in the upbringing.

On the sidelines, please be informed the native is in the midst of his Ketu Maha-Dasha and Rahu Antara-Dasha (until November 2021). As indicated by the other member, things could improve after November 2021, with the start of Jupiter/Guru Antara (even though Jupiter/Guru in his Swasthana of 12th house of Vyaya/Losses, is not really a benefic for the chart). But then, Saturn/Shani-dev's transit next year and Ashtama-Shani was something I had considered previously.

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Re: Teenage boy behaviour

Post by Keerthi » 18 May 2021

His relationship with his father is not that great even though father ks living with him..there is a distance in the emotional bondage and hardly any emotional support from the father except the financial part
Will this improve in the next few years or will the coldness / no support remain ?

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Re: Teenage boy behaviour

Post by Sishya » 24 May 2021

Hi,

There you go... the detached relationship or lack of emotional bonding is quite evident in the boy's birth-chart. And, this very aspect was called out earlier as "absence or lack of father figure around the native is standing out".

You see Sun/Ravi the Naisargika or natural Karaka for father is uncomfortably placed, along with the (6th &) 9th lord Mercury/Budha and Jupiter/Guru in his Swasthana, in the 12th house of Vyaya/Losses (although Mercury/Budha and Jupiter/Guru are combust, their placement in the 12th house is creating multiple Viparita Raja Yogas for the boy). On the sidelines, Moon/Chandra being caught between malefics in a Papakartari Yoga and 4th lord Mars/Kuja being Retrograde/Vakra and unhappily placed in the 6th house of Mithuna Rashi and posited in the Lunar Constellation of Ardra Nakshatra, ruled by Rahu - not to mention the Parivarthana Yoga (at Nakshatra level) between the two, does not give a good vibe for the mother's situation either.

In my humble opinion, there might be a strong undercurrent that might perhaps be contributing to the boy's stated behavior.

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Re: Teenage boy behaviour

Post by tylorechandra » 25 May 2021

Dasa lord Ketu occupies the 7th bhava in the bhava chart along with enemy Moon while Rahu occupies the Lagna bhava alone. But the Lagna is in the nakshatra of Moon which is inimical to Rahu too.

Moon represents mother as also emotions. But Moon is not activated in the current dasa antara. However, Rahu is in the nakshatra of Mars which, as the 4th lord, also represents mother. Mars occupies the rogasthana in an enemy house in the rasi chart but moves to the 5th bhava of intelligence in the bhava chart. This Mars appears to be the cause of bad behaviour with mother and others. Prayers to Lord Subramanya with appropriate sankalpa will help.

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