Stress regarding relationships

[Hayls156]

Respected astrologers,

My sister has been very depressed and anxious due to some failed relationship. Can you please see her chart and advise. Any remedies would also be appreciated.
DOB- 30 March 1996
Time- 01:50am
Place- Washington, DC

Many thanks

[Sishya]

Hi,

In my humble opinion, your sister's birth-chart indicates a classic case of Kemadruma Yoga - in the midst of a powerful Roga-Karaka's Maha-Dasha. Obviously, she has been experiencing some trying/testing/tough times. I'm glad she has somebody like yourself who is concerned and trying to help her. Please continue to do so... and don't take anything personally (I realize it is very easy for me to suggest and perhaps hard for you to tolerate).

Request you to kindly bear with me... for I get reminded of a very nice (in astrological terms - not necessarily from the Yoga or it's effect) thread of discussion in this very forum. It might not be a bad idea for you consider reading and understanding the content. On the contrary, I think it might be beneficial to understand your sister's mindset (as to why she is the way she is).
viewtopic.php?f=4&t=12969&p=100457

Please consider seeking help and guidance from knowledgeable and experienced experts for suitable Vedic/Dharmic remedies, to address inherent afflictions.

In the interim, it might not be a bad idea for you (ideally the native) to consider offering special prayers, along with Abhisheka to Mahadev Shiva (faith and belief permitting) regularly on Monday's, with unwavering faith, devotion/bhakti and a strong sankalpa. Other things that might help the native Shiva Dhyana by chanting "Om Namah Shivaya" a couple of times daily, along with Yoga, Meditation and other such activities to keep her mind calm and at peace.

Sincerely...

[Sishya]

Hi,

In my understanding, "Desha-Kaala-Patra" plays a very critical role in the fructification of any Yogas/Doshas and their effect/impact on an individual. So, it would perhaps make sense to focus on Why? What? and How? part, that has been explained very nicely by a highly revered and senior member, in the post below...
viewtopic.php?f=4&t=12969&p=100457#p100428
So, kindly focus more on the post without getting carried away.

Sincerely...

[Hayls156]

Hi
Thank for you providing this helpful information and the links. I have read through them and tried to research. It’s interesting because these really don’t describe her. She has many many friends, and most of them have been since childhood. She is depressed and anxious, but other than that the other traits ( living in a messy environment, poverty, etc.) don’t seem to apply right now.
I have read that this yoga can be cancelled if there are planets in the 9th house from the moon. Could this be the case here?

[Sishya]

Hi,

In my understanding, cancellation happens when there are physical planets/grahas in Kendras from the the Moon/Chandra. I'm not aware of the cancellation you've stated.

Further, I've highlighted the critical role played by "Desha-Kaala-Patra". So, everything in the thread may not be completely relevant to all - to me, it looks like the senior and highly knowledgeable member has done an exceptional job is helping us understand the concept by giving a good example (personally, I'm inclined to think there are other afflictions - as with your sister's case, that might be impacting). Kindly consider whatever may be relevant and ignore anything that does not depict the native or things that are not to your taste/liking.

Sincerely...

[Hayls156]

Thank you! Please know that my intention was not to offend. I am also trying to learn so I appreciate the resources that you have provided. She is still young so it is possible that we may have not seen the full effects yet.
You mention other afflictions. Could you please elaborate?

[subramanianp]

In the BHAVA chart Venus moves in to the 5th (ie: 10th from Moon ).
Probably KEMADRUMA is not working for this native. In addition a strong Jupiter in Lagna makes the native disciplined and capable .
However heavy affliction to the 4th house is not good and relationships may fail in future also.
She should be mentally prepared for that.
Jupiter in Lagna will support her to overcome any agony.

[Hayls156]

subramanianp wrote:
> [b][color=#0040FF]In the BHAVA chart Venus moves in to the 5th (ie: 10th
> from Moon ).[/color][/b]
> Probably KEMADRUMA is not working for this native. In addition a strong
> Jupiter in Lagna makes the native disciplined and capable .
> However heavy affliction to the 4th house is not good and relationships may
> fail in future also.
> She should be mentally prepared for that.
> [b][color=#0000FF]Jupiter in Lagna will support her to overcome any
> agony.[/color][/b]

Thank you. She had many emotional issues as a child and we had gand mool pooja done at that time. Could this be the cause the problems now? If yes, can we get the pooja done again or any alternative remedies?

[subramanianp]

@ Hayls156
Kindly confirm that she attained good education but got a job inferior to her qualification.
If the above statement is true in her case, then fixing a remedy will be more easy for me.

[Hayls156]

subramanianp wrote:
> @ Hayls156
> Kindly confirm that she attained good education but got a job inferior to
> her qualification.
> If the above statement is true in her case, then fixing a remedy will be
> more easy for me.

Hi thank you, yes this is the case. She has a masters degree but the job that she is currently working is below her qualifications. She has been looking for other jobs but has not had any luck.

[subramanianp]

It is advised to wear yellow sapphire 2 Crt on index finger of Left hand in a golden ring .
Bottom of the stone should be open and at the same time the stone need not touch the body.
In case any adverse incidents noticed then discontinue and remove the stone.
All the best.

[Hayls156]

subramanianp wrote:
> It is advised to wear yellow sapphire 2 Crt on index finger of Left hand in
> a golden ring .
> Bottom of the stone should be open and at the same time the stone need not
> touch the body.
> In case any adverse incidents noticed then discontinue and remove the
> stone.
> All the best.

Thank you so much!

[subramanianp]

Don't forget to put status update when situation improve.

[Hayls156]

Yes, I certainly will! We will go and purchase stone this week and I will provide an update within the next few weeks.

[subramanianp]

My pleasure.