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Regarding Son's Marriage

Post by lakshmiguru » 02 Aug 2020

Hi people,

My son's marriage is getting delayed for a long time. We have been looking for a girl for the past decade but nothing is materialising.Any chances of his marriage materialising in the next few months. He is a well educated guy with post graduation from abroad. Can he get a well educated girl from a good family? We are very worried about his future.

Date of Birth - 24/02/1984

Time - 09:54 AM

Place of Birth - Coimbatore.

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Lakshmi.



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Re: Regarding Son's Marriage

Post by Sishya » 02 Aug 2020

Hi,

I've had a chance to cast your son's birth-chart and observe planetary positions and their condition. Below are a few notes that are relevant for his situation and this thread:
1. Udaya Lagna is placed in Mesha Rasi and posited in the Lunar Constellation of Ashwini Nakshatra, ruled by Ketu.
2. Lagna Lord Mars/Kuja is placed in the 7th house of Kalathra-Sthana in the sign of Tula Rasi and posited in the Lunar Constellation of Vishaka Nakshatra, ruled by Jupiter/Guru - who is strongly placed in his Swasthana in the sign of Dhanur Rasi and posited in the Lunar Constellation of Moola/Mula Nakshatra, again ruled by Ketu. For the records, Mars/Kuja the Deva Senadipathi is not really comfortable in the Kalathra-Sthana or house of relationships and forms a strong Kuja Dosha or Mangalic Dosha.
3. Mano-Karaka Moon/Chandra is placed in his Neecha-Sthana or debilitation sign of Vrischika Rasi and posited in the Lunar Constellation of Jyestha Nakshatra, ruled by Mercury/Budha - a top class malefic for the chart ruling the 3rd and 6th houses. To make matters worse, he is conjunct Ketu and at an arms length in the Ketu-Rahu axis. For the records, Ketu has a strong reputation for inducing detachment and isolation.
4. Venus/Shukra, the Vivaha-Karaka or Kalathra-Karaka is placed in the 10th house of Karma-Sthana in a friendly sign of Makara Rasi and posited in the Lunar Constellation of Shravana (Vainasika for Udaya Lagna) Nakshatra, ruled by Moon/Chandra. There is Parivarthana Yoga between Venus/Shukra and Uccha or exalted Saturn/Shani-dev, the 10th lord (and 11th - a Badha-Karaka for the chart) who is placed in the Kalathra-Stana, indicating a possible strong connection between the two houses.
5. Current Maha-Dasha is that of Venus/Shukra and Antara-Dasha of Jupiter/Guru - thereafter that of Saturn/Shani-dev, starting December 2020 should be beneficial.

In summary, I'm inclined to think Ketu's direct or indirect influence and hence the delay is not deniable. It would perhaps make sense to consider seeking help/guidance from experienced and knowledgeable experts for suitable Vedic/Dharmic remedies.

In the interim (while waiting for expert guidance), it may not be a bad idea to consider offering special prayers to Lord Ganesha and Goddess MahaLakshmi on regular basis, with unwavering faith, devotion/belief and a strong sankalpa.

Sincerely...

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Re: Regarding Son's Marriage

Post by Sujit » 02 Aug 2020

Lakshmi,

He has 7°Aries rising with lagna lord in 7th house of marriage.
The good news there is promise of marriage. The delay and rejection in match making is due to debilitation and affliction of Moon.
The chances for marriage are not good during 2020. He could also face challenges, stress to his health and profession in remaining of 2020.
Send me feedback.

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Re: Regarding Son's Marriage

Post by lakshmiguru » 02 Aug 2020

Sishya,

Thanks for the reply. We will definitely offer prayers to Lord Ganesha and Goddess Mahalakshmi.

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Re: Regarding Son's Marriage

Post by lakshmiguru » 02 Aug 2020

Sujit,

Thanks for the reply.

You have mentioned there is promise of marriage and the delay is due to affliction of moon. Will this affliction of moon cause any problems in his marital life.

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Post by tylorechandra » 02 Aug 2020

The chart has a Grahana dosha in the form of Moon at very close quarters to Ketu and both in the nakshatra of Mercury. This dosha needs to be remedied for smoothing matters.

The combination of Moon and Ketu in the 8th house of Rasi chart is joined by Saturn and Moon also moving to the 8th bhava in the bhava chart. Moon and Ketu combine also occupy the 7th from Navamsa Lagna and the combine receive aspect from Mars in Navamsa.

The suggested remedy is that the native should take bath in a Holy river (Ganga, Kaveri etc) and circumbulate (do pradakshina) for 1008 times around a peepal tree (Aswatha or Arali Vriksha). This pradakshina can be spread over a few weeks since it can’t be done in one day.

Both the bath and the pradakshina have to be done with proper sankalpa and full faith for removal of the Grahana dosha and help in marriage.

Since the dasa lord (from 2008 onwards) Venus is also in the nakshatra of Moon and activates it, the parihara need be done early. The previous dasa was of Ketu who is the dosha karaka itself. At birth, the dasa was of Mercury which is the star lord of both Moon and Ketu. Thus the dosha is active since beginning.

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Post by Sishya » 02 Aug 2020

Namaste TKC,

Thank you very much for chiming in and sharing your observation and suggesting the remedy. Personally, it is always a pleasure (at least for me) to follow your posts and learn along the way... including connecting the clues/dots and equally important, the nice articulation part.

Sincerely...

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Post by lakshmiguru » 03 Aug 2020

Thanks to Sishya, Sujit and Tylorechandra for your reply.

@Sujit, In your reply you have mentioned there is promise of marriage and the delay is due to affliction of moon in my son's chart. Will this affliction cause any problem's in his marital life.

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Post by lakshmiguru » 03 Aug 2020

Tylorechandra sir,

In the last 10 years we visited many temples, went to Kalahasti temple and did Rahu, Ketu Pooja. When any alliance comes 95% of the time, horoscope doesn’t match and if horoscope match we never get to hear anything from the girls side after initial discussion. My son is well educated, well travelled and we belong to a affluent background. It is quite depressing to go through all this.

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Re: Regarding Son's Marriage

Post by ProfessorPyareLal » 04 Aug 2020

Hello,

Chances of marriage around the period of December 2021 - July 2023.

The age band may be similar.
Love marriage or some liking/familiarity prior marriage is possible.
Bride from another community/etc. is possible.

The bride maybe from nearby/same region or through family or maternal sources or she may be some academic friend or from friends or from networking or from some sort of ancestral/legacy/medical/historical/storage/archeological/geological/unconventional related source or from a famous/popular/prestigious background.

Her name may start with J/K/S/T/R.

Thorough matchmaking is extremely necessary to be done for successful marriage.

She may be a slow walker, kind, loving, may have high social status, religious, truthful, may have friends, homebound.
She will be popular in her profession.
She may have weak health, hot tempered, selfisolating, restless, critical, softhearted, good in profession, scholar, humanitarian, problem solver, simplistic, positive outlook, disciplined, scientific, philosophical, independent, traveler, good in communications.

She may be in less physically intensive professions related to either teaching/preaching/counselling, law, finance, travel, pharma/medical, alcohol, independent business/selfemployment, ascetic/religious/spiritual/yoga.

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Re: Regarding Son's Marriage

Post by vedam33 » 04 Aug 2020

Can you pl.give certain events about him like qualifications, is he working now,parents health etc if no objection .with my analysis the chart not showing so much delay

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Post by lakshmiguru » 04 Aug 2020

Hi Vedam33,

His educational qualifications are B.Tech and Masters in IT, he was working as an SAP consultant for some years.Now he has started his own business. Parents health is good.

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Post by vedam33 » 04 Aug 2020

Thanks for feed back ,proposals should have been received during the period 2016 dec to 2019 sep ,what happened during that period

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Re: Regarding Son's Marriage

Post by vedam33 » 05 Aug 2020

Chances of getting married at around 38 years ,and it might be love marraige

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Post by Shivshankar » 06 Aug 2020

His birth natural or caesarian? Any history of marriage or affairs? Business condition - how it is? If Tob correct showing more than one affairs or marriage. Adamant nature?

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Post by vedicRaj » 07 Aug 2020

Birth time seems accurate that he was born before 9:55 am. However, 9:53 changes the D9 lagna.

Assuming 9:54 is accurate for now. In D1, Saturn and Mars are in the 7h of marriage. This alone would indicate that delayed marriage is in fact good for the native. Lagna lord Mars in the 7h could make native take marriage/relationships very seriously. Mars aspects Venus, as well, so could be lustful and overprotective when it comes to relationships. Venus and Saturn are also exchanging signs, making a tight sambanda. Could even fall in love with a coworker!

He is running Venus mahadasha currently. Being Venus itself can bring marriage, but doubly so because his Venus also rules the 7h of marriage. He entered Venus-Sat period in Dec 2020 to Feb 2024. A VERY likely period for marriage, especially because Venus and Saturn are conjunct in D9.

His D9 is very interesting as well. Jupiter and Moon exchange signs, and an exalted Jupiter that too! I think Moon sub period is a good timing for marriage. Ven-Sat-Moon is late 2022.

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Post by lakshmiguru » 10 Aug 2020

Hi Shivshankar,

Birth is natural. No history of love affairs.

Business condition is good. Not adamant.

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> His birth natural or caesarian? Any history of marriage or affairs?
> Business condition - how it is? If Tob correct showing more than one
> affairs or marriage. Adamant nature?

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Re: Regarding Son's Marriage

Post by lakshmiguru » 26 Dec 2021

Hello astrologers,

Greetings from my side!!

This year we received few profiles for my son but unfortunately none of the horoscopes matched. Many astrologers in the past have said to us don't marry unless horoscope matches.

Can marriage be done without horoscope matching considering the fact that this chart is manglik. The reason why I am asking is my son will be 38 years old in 2 months. I am in a dilemma. Can we proceed with marriage without horoscope matching?

Regards.

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