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Kaveri
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Relationship with husband

Post by Kaveri » 19 Feb 2020

Hi,

Am a mother of 2 kids. Since last one year a lot if misunderstanding is happening between me and my husband. Till now we never had a romance in our relationship. I didnt expect much from him. But now whatever I say, he is against it. He is not allowing me to speak few words even. I am not able to prove my side. He is abusing me and my parents everytime. According to him, he is right always.

I cried a lot, requested him to be kind with me but no use. Sometimes I have suicidal thoughts. Am totally in a confused state. Not able to understand why he is behaving like this. Only during my sleep I have little peace. I tried making his favourite dishes, atleast by that he may talk with me. That too no use.pPronlem is I still love him a lot. I want him to be like before. Please someone look into this.

My details:
D.o.b: 18 March 1990
Time: 9.30 am
Place: Kovilpatti, Tamilnadu, India

My husband:
D.o.b: 7.June 1984
Time: 7.30 am
Place: Vathalgundu,Tamilnadu, India



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Re: Relationship with husband

Post by R V RAMANAN » 20 Feb 2020

Dear KAVERI,

Please bring home three pots of tulsi plants and water the plant in the evenings and light a diya for them.Also get up early morning before 5.20 and write a ghee lamp in your pooja room..
visit any perumal temple every friday..Things will come under control

ramanan

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Re: Relationship with husband

Post by Kaveri » 20 Feb 2020

Thank you Ramanan sir. Already I am having 3 tulsi plants. One diya is enough or 3 needed?

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Re: Relationship with husband

Post by R V RAMANAN » 20 Feb 2020

just one will do...

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Re: Relationship with husband

Post by lefteye » 22 Feb 2020

Kaveri wrote:
19 Feb 2020
Hi,

Am a mother of 2 kids. Since last one year a lot if misunderstanding is happening between me and my husband. Till now we never had a romance in our relationship. I didnt expect much from him. But now whatever I say, he is against it. He is not allowing me to speak few words even. I am not able to prove my side. He is abusing me and my parents everytime. According to him, he is right always.

I cried a lot, requested him to be kind with me but no use. Sometimes I have suicidal thoughts. Am totally in a confused state. Not able to understand why he is behaving like this. Only during my sleep I have little peace. I tried making his favourite dishes, atleast by that he may talk with me. That too no use.pPronlem is I still love him a lot. I want him to be like before. Please someone look into this.

My details:
D.o.b: 18 March 1990
Time: 9.30 am
Place: Kovilpatti, Tamilnadu, India

My husband:
D.o.b: 7.June 1984
Time: 7.30 am
Place: Vathalgundu,Tamilnadu, India
"I want him to be like before"
This is contradicting "Till now we never had a romance in our relationship."


Your chart shows Moon in 8th-MKS in debilitation.4th house has Ketu. D30 shows Saturn in lagna and Mercury with Sun in 8th. AL in D1 is at Cancer falling in opposition to A7 in Capricorn with exalted Mars Venus and Rahu. Capricorn is 10th house. Shravana houses these 3 planets and it is 22nd star from Bharani-Vainashika.Seventh bhava from AL indicates the enemies/enmity and here A7 is placed. So there will be dissatisfaction in dealings and it is a common trait. As this is luckily 10th house, people will see this as some sort of commanding personality.

This combination in total will make you unhappy deep down in all counters. As long as you have energy, you may not notice these deterioration but in the longer run-say after some 5 years from now,you will feel too bad about the circumstances you are facing.

In order to get a sustained, gradual relief observe Ekadasi fasting for you and Somavara virata for your husband. Keep amla nearby this Tulsi and tie them gently by a manjal charadu you may get from a temple.
Light a lamp near by the plant and spill a spoon of sugar and kachcha rice daily. Feed crows atleast oneday in a week thinking about your deceased ancestors.

Your husband has 3 planets in retro. Mars Jupiter Saturn. Now he is running Rahu -As Rahu is in 12th-there will be issues. But Jupiter aspecting lagna is a good factor. He will have a better time in Jupiter and Saturn as both are in retro conditions. He must have had a good time with retro Mars 1999-2006 period-you may check this aspect. Rajayoga means a worry-less,happy life. You don't know what happens but you will get things you needed.

He will start Jupiter from October 2024. It should be noted that Jupiter is a Maraka dasa. Somavara fasting should be started by you at the earliest and that will reduce/remove his dangers and help you to get good results of rajyoga.
भव शंकर देशिक मे शरणम्

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Re: Relationship with husband

Post by vedam33 » 22 Feb 2020

Can you share your marriage year and month plus children year and month for cross checking the tob

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Re: Relationship with husband

Post by Kaveri » 23 Feb 2020

Thank you left eye for your analysis.

Vedam33 ji, below are the details
Our wedding day: 18.March 2013
1st .son D.o.b: 28 Jan 2014
2nd.daughter D.o.b: 24 Sept 2019

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Re: Relationship with husband

Post by kunsikaram » 08 Apr 2020

Situation may seem to improve from June, bu careful from 2021 December to 2022 Feb. Especially 2022 Jan to feb.. you may give up your fighting during that period..

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