Divorce or patchup? Please help

[shrinamo]

I recently got married after looking for a Groom for almost 4 years. The guy seemed caring and loving. I was impressed my his achievements, humble nature and good family. After spending sometime knowing him, we got married last year. I went abroad with him and first few months were good. But I noticed he started getting anger fits and we fought a lot. I am a bit laid back while he is more disciplined. To be honest, in some cases I felt I was the instigator but not intentionally. He did do good things for me to settle me professionally and I appreciate that. My only point to him was to treat me politely and respectfully.

We are at a point where we haven't communicated for 4 months and I am staying separate. What is the future for me? He tries to contact me but I am currently not in a state to think. Should I separate or trying again to patch up? Also, is there a scope for second marriage if we separate?

Female, 01-Sep-1988, 09:48am, Mumbai

[joyd]

your BT is 09-36 am.so your lagna changes from libra to virgo.8th lord mars is in 7th and in retro.so small clashes and misunderstandings are always there.Your mars dasa will be over by march-16th of 2021.so if you can adjust your coming jupiter dasa will be a happier one marriage wise.you have abnormal venusius desires and your hubby may not able to fulfilling them up to your satisfaction.Patch up is a wiser decession than to separate.jupiter placement is strong.so separation ruled out.you are mentioned this [ To be honest, in some cases I felt I was the instigator but not intentionally].so be wise in your decisions.

joyd.

[vedicmaths]

hello joyd,

That is a slip joyd.. " mars dasa will be over by march-16th of 2021.so if you can adjust your coming jupiter dasa will be a happier one marriage wise.."

truly yours,
vedicmaths

[joyd]

Dear VM- I am poor in Astro- poetry[LOL].Regarding your raised point,saturn-mars in kendras[peeda sanjayak].Mars in retro and placed in 5th from his 3rd[adjustment in quarrels/fights/verbal misunderstandings] and in 12th to 8th.so its not a slip,if you probe them carefully.4th lord of seela and 7th lord of partner is well placed in house of dharma[9th] and also from his 4-7 houses.such jupiter aspecting 3rd-lagna-5th houses.so patch up is the best solution for this problem.Rahu in aqaurius is not a mar for her married life.why bcz he is in jupiter's asterism.Hope you commented on dasa slip.If that is not means you can raise your doubt furtherly..

joyd.

[vedicmaths]

Hello joyd,

You know very well that after mars dasa , jup dasa cannot run. You mentioned that " your coming jupiter dasa will be a happier ". The slip i mentioned clearly points ONLY to that since i have just quoted what you wrote.
I did not raise any other point. Hope this makes clear .

truly yours,
vedicmaths.