Having very Bad marriage please help

[Tiratira]

Hi
Please help me
I am having a very bad marriage every single dream of mine has been ruined

Please let me know if i have any chance of separation divorce or any mishaps on my side atleast to separate from all relations every one betrayed me please help

Arti
Female
03-11-1989
09:15Pm
Agra Uttar Pradesh India

Manish
Male
14-10-1990
04:00 AM
Agra Uttar Pradesh India

Please Show me the way out of it
Really helpless

[Tiratira]

Please if any one can let me me know....

[Surya_1]

There is absolutly nothing to panic. The issues must have been since last 3yrs, things will setlle well especially after Aug this year. If possible change place, Do Ramayana Parayan and Sathyanarayana Vratha

[jemsmiles]

Arati Ji,
Your chart shows love marriage please confirm.
Both of the charts has yoga of divorce, there is small window period for divorce from June to September 2017 (very less chance, if you do remedies than you can get divorce in this period)

Else things will improve from September 2017 - April 2020 but after that you will get divorce.

Thanks and Regards,
Jemsmiles

[Tiratira]

Thanks for your reply
I had to get into a forced Marriage but things got worse after that its like hell for me i tried to stay low but really couldn't cope up with such evil people and mean society

I want to get out of it

What should i do

Please guide me if u can

[Tiratira]

I can not tell all my problems on public portal but this man has all bad habits house is hell family speaks filthy language my family has always been against me this marriage was to get rid of me

Please if there is divorce when can this happen i really want to get out

And i am really thankful for your replies

Showed me some hope

Please guide me

[Tiratira]

Surya ji
I recently got married within 1.5 months everything got so worst what to say
Problem with family is past 8-10 years got serious in last 3 years from beginning of sadde satti. And this marriage was the worst decision ever i lost my PHD my life my dreams became a slave. I am cheated
I wish I could speak out each and everything

[jemsmiles]

Thanks for your reply
I had to get into a forced Marriage but things got worse after that its like hell for me i tried to stay low but really couldn't cope up with such evil people and mean society

I want to get out of it

What should i do

Please guide me if u can

Arati Ji,
Please do following remedies.

1) ॐ शं शनैश्चराय नमः ||
Take rudraksha mala with 108 beads and chant this mantra at evening time after sunset, if possible do chanting at 8pm, light a diya with mustard seed oil (sarso ka tel), both should be done only in night time, never do it in day time.

2) do fasting on Monday, go to any shiva temple and do abhishek using water, milk and akhat (rice), you can break fast at night time, if possible cook kheer offer its bhog to lord shiva in evening time and you can eat it. (one time Khane vala fast)

3) read durga sahastranam daily in morning time.

4) avoid non veg and alcohol completely.

If this marriage is arranged one than I can see strong chance of second marriage as love marriage.
Don't lose hope because it will take time till April 2020 to get divorce even if you start remedies there are very little chances of getting divorce right now.

This remedy will help you in your studies related to PhD also.

Hope this helps.

Thanks and Regards,
Jemsmiles

[jemsmiles]

Please give following details so that I can analyze your chart further.

1)Do you drink occasionally?
2)Do you have habit of speaking too much?
3) Any broken affair in past? If you are not comfortable than don't answer this question.

Thanks and Regards,
Jemsmiles

[Tiratira]

Varun
14-08-1988
2:30 PM Afternoon
Malda/Maldah West Bengal India
Male

This was the boy whome I thought i could have married
His so many years wasted don't know what he will do now marry or not
My life wasted dreams gone
Many Jobs came but gone in vane govt jobs chances gone
Every thing wasted

[Tiratira]

Jemsmiles
Regarding the questions you asked
1- I don't drink under
2- I talk much with friends or when angry
3- Very long term relationship

but got separated because of my family's orthodox ill behaviour and my wrong decision my decision was to marry but my family chose the wrong person and after regretting they just because of society and status are pushing me to bear the pain and trouble

Now my lovers family has told me to move on and leave the boy as it's illegal also don't know about him what he will do
He is in shocking state after all this

Dont know how love marriage will be possible
I see no love no hope

But my life is ruined

Please guide me

Thanks and Regards

[Tiratira]

Plz reply

[jemsmiles]

Varun
14-08-1988
2:30 PM Afternoon
Malda/Maldah West Bengal India
Male

This was the boy whome I thought i could have married
His so many years wasted don't know what he will do now marry or not
My life wasted dreams gone
Many Jobs came but gone in vane govt jobs chances gone
Every thing wasted

After seeing both the chart (arati & varun), I think that both of you are not only in love but there are high chances that either you got married secretly (marriage happened before your current one) or you were physically connected with each other.

I predicted all this not only by seeing charts but also checked Navamsa, don't take me otherwise because this predictions are based on astrological calculation only also depends on accuracy of birth details.

If this is not correct than ignore it but I will have to check this for predicting further about your future and I will give some other remedies based on your answer.

Thanks and Regards,
Jemsmiles

[Tiratira]

Please let me know my chart and my future is there any scope of getting out of this current marriage or is this the relation i have to carry life time.

That boy is gone dont see any hope of getting back to him.

But cant live with this man totally opposite and big liar and has all bad habits....

[Tiratira]

Details are accurate
Please let me know if there is any hope left

[jemsmiles]

Please let me know my chart and my future is there any scope of getting out of this current marriage or is this the relation i have to carry life time.

That boy is gone dont see any hope of getting back to him.

But cant live with this man totally opposite and big liar and has all bad habits....

As varun has kuja dosha in chart, also Venus placed in 7th house (karka placed in 7th house) getting aspected by Mars,rahu and Saturn spoiled first marriage totally and completely.
Under family pressure he will move forward in life.

Also rahu Saturn yuti in Navamsa first house (debilitated saturn) and Ketu in 7 th house, Venus lord of 7th house placed in makara, rashi of Saturn.

Because of all these combinations first marriage didn't survive.

As per girls chart, relationships between Jupiter and Venus gave love marriage (5th and 7th house) but Saturn, Venus and moon combinations in 7th house(Saturn being lord of 8th placed in 7th house) has broken first marriage.

Rahu in 8th house gave sudden and accidental damage to the marriage.

Contd..........

[jemsmiles]

Moon and Venus both placed in moola nakshatra of ketu, gives lots of ups and downs in married life.
Ketu placed in 2nd house, and debilitated sun, because of your harsh words, you are earning bad value.
You need to wait till Saturn transits in 8th house (Saturn transits in makara on 24 January 2020), your Moon-Saturn dasha starts on 16 April 2020,after that you can go ahead with divorce.

I would suggest wait till April 2020,don't take any decision in hurry just do remedies and don't think too much about life.

Being lady, I can understand the pain you are going through but don't take too much stress and hold yourself.

Please have list of remedies and do it with utmost faith.

Thanks and Regards,
Jemsmiles

[jemsmiles]

1) ॐ शं शनैश्चराय नमः ||
Take rudraksha mala with 108 beads and chant this mantra at evening time after sunset, if possible do chanting at 8pm, light a diya with mustard seed oil (sarso ka tel), both should be done only in night time, never do it in day time. Start this remedy from Saturday and do it on daily basis.

2) do fasting on Monday, go to any shiva temple and do abhishek using water, milk and akhat (rice), you can break fast at night time, if possible cook kheer offer its bhog to lord shiva in evening time and you can eat it. (one time Khane vala fast)

3) read durga sahastranam daily in morning time.

4) avoid non veg and alcohol completely.

5) ॐ ह्रां ह्रीं ह्रौं सः सूर्याय नमः ॥

"Om Hraam Hreem Hraum Sah Suryay Namah:"

Using same rudraksha mala chant this mantra in morning time( before 12pm), start this remedy on Sunday and do it on daily basis.

6)On every Thursday do kanya Pujan, do Tika of kanya using turmeric powder, give her yellow things (banana, besan laddu, besan halva, yellow flowers), if you can't do much than do Pujan of single girl with Tika and banana (girl should have age of 1-9 years), if you can do Pujan of 3 girls than it will be good.

If you can't give much than just give single banana that will also work.

7) Offer half water and half milk mixture to peepal tree on daily basis. Start this on Saturday.

8 ) chant any ganesha mantra using same rudraksha mala on daily basis, chant same mantra on everyday, don't change mantra, start this remedy from Wednesday.

9)Dont speak too much and avoid arguments with elder people, give respect to your in laws, if they say some which you don't like than also try to be calm don't lose your temper. Do pranayam daily.

Hope this helps.

Thanks and Regards,
Jemsmiles

Thanks and Regards

[Tiratira]

So now no chance for love because being in this relationship i can not think of loving someone else
I had love relationship with Varun we did not marry
And to get out of this relationship now my 1st marriage I will have to wait till 2020
After that also how many years it will take not sure

So is there any chance of second marriage
Because thia is my 1 st marriage earlier it was relationship but could not marry that person

Ant till 2020 my whole life would be changed

3 years is a whole lot of time don't know is this a positive news or negative

This man will finish my life till then

Whats the prediction after 2020 should i really hope for a new life partner or this is the only man in my life

Please let me know

Thanks for your help and guidance

[Tiratira]

Please let me know when done Varun chart shows chance of marriage because he is Manglik saturn aspect on venus 7th house Navmasha also not good UP Lagna also not so promising
Will he face the same problems as i am regarding marriage because some astrologer told him that his marriage chance was in 2014 but there is delay and problems in marriage is it true

And also his jupiter in 6th will cause him financial problems as well increse enemies is it true

His moon with ketu is is grehen dosh

Astrologer said only mars and mercury are two good planets in his chart

Sun too will cause blood and body related problems

All this disturbs me

Wd did not get happiness from world and now will these things also cone into effect

Atleast if I am not happy he should be
He never did wrong to me i am worried for him
And my life what to say

Please suggest

[jemsmiles]

Tiratira Ji,
Very long term relationship is also seen as marriage so I need few details to predict further.

Relationship start Date (with Varun), date of your marriage with Manish if possible also mention time when mangalsutra tied.

As we check different houses for 1st,2nd and 3rd marriage, I need to identify the type of relationship.
Related to query of Varun 's marriage please write a different thread for it because things will be mess up here, let's keep this thread clean only things related to you so other members can also check and suggest.

Thanks and Regards,
Jemsmiles

[subramanianp]

Dear Tiratira
5th lord Venusin the 7th and the 8th lord Saturn in the 7th in the female chart are the main possible issue here. There are no nutralising factors in the boys chart.
Sorry to say that this relation may not survive.
Moon dasa is running in the female chart now.
2017 November: Rahu anther dasa will start .From there with in 10months the separation is likely to happen.

[jemsmiles]

I agree with subramaianap Ji that moon/rahu dasha can bring divorce.
In Manish's chart Sun-Rahu dasha from March 2018 - Jan 2019, rahu placed in 6th house, rahu placed in nakshatra of sun.

As Rahu placed in 6th house can give court case.

In Arti's chart, Rahu placed in 8th house in nakshatra of 6th lord Mars, also aspected by 6th Lord Mars.
Moon - Rahu dasha from June 2017 - Dec 2018, this time may give divorce but with court case.

Lots of false allegations are seen also it will ruin reputation in society so I advice to wait and I also think that when Saturn transits in 8th house, he will be stable and divorce procedure will be easy.

Thanks and Regards,
Jemsmiles

[Tiratira]

Relationship with Varun start date 30-3-2010

Marriage date 18-04-2017
Mangal sutra tying time between 3-4 Am 19th morning

Every one is saying after sept October 2017 things will improve
But what about bad habits and cheap, nerrow minded in laws and husband.
I loved my studies above all any how God gave me Chance to enter PHD but now no one values it .qualified for job got some chance but due to bad luck any how they were gone lost on last step

Ladki ko kaise bhi nikalo society kya bolegi
Society has destroyed me.

Life was always a struggle with family i was against nerrow mindedness against women but at last i am in the trap no one is looking at my mental and physical tension everyone wants that adjust all total become like ladies in 1980

My home was in city
Now i am in a proper village
Not even electricity not even a single street light
Language its okay for them I respect it but i am from city not use to it
No breakfast toilets are filthy full of biri smell
What to say over public portal life is hell
Not even cooler in the house
Got Ac in dowry whole family comes in one room under AC 6-8 people

Many women are adjusting in married life dut to society and family pressure
Will i end in the same way.

Varun use to give me freedom i was free to study go for exams interview competitions eat sleep
But this life now i am a slave

Is this my the end...?

Want to live alone

[Tiratira]

Relationship with Varun start date 30-3-2010

Marriage date 18-04-2017
Mangal sutra tying time between 3-4 Am 19th morning

Every one is saying after sept October 2017 things will improve
But what about bad habits and cheap, nerrow minded in laws and husband.
I loved my studies above all any how God gave me Chance to enter PHD but now no one values it .qualified for job got some chance but due to bad luck any how they were gone lost on last step

Ladki ko kaise bhi nikalo society kya bolegi
Society has destroyed me.

Life was always a struggle with family i was against nerrow mindedness against women but at last i am in the trap no one is looking at my mental and physical tension everyone wants that adjust all total become like ladies in 1980

My home was in city
Now i am in a proper village
Not even electricity not even a single street light
Language its okay for them I respect it but i am from city not use to it
No breakfast toilets are filthy full of biri smell
What to say over public portal life is hell
Not even cooler in the house
Got Ac in dowry whole family comes in one room under AC 6-8 people
Many women are adjusting in married life dut to society and family pressure
Will i end in the same way.
Varun use to give me freedom i was free to study go for exams interview competitions eat sleep
But this life now i am a slave

Is this my the end...?