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Disastrous first marriage.

Post by Mitteyph » 07 Jan 2016

Respected Astrologers,

I am new to this forum. I have started reading and involving myself more into astrology recently after my wife has filed for divorce I m contesting it as the demands are not reasonable. I have had a very difficult period of marriage.
I would request you all to please analyze my chart and help me learn about it.
I would like to know when I can get divorced. I would also like to know if I m going to be married again .
And also if there are some remedies I should follow.

My details are as.follows.

Birth date : 19 September 1988
Birth time : 16:55
Birth place : ulhasnagar, maharashtra, India.

I would be obliged if some of you learned people can help me through it.

Regards,
Mitteyph



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Re: Disastrous first marriage.

Post by Mitteyph » 07 Jan 2016

Also I would like to know about what happens if your lagna lord is debilitated in navamsa what happens.

In my birth chart.
Aquarius ascendent.
1st house : rahu in Aquarius
2nd house : mars (retrograde) in Pisces
4th house : Jupiter in Taurus.
6th house : Venus in cancer.
7th house: ketu in Leo
8th house : sun and mercury in Virgo. Mercury is 29 degree not combust and making viprit raja yoga.
11th house is : saturn and moon making vish yog.
Moon is 7 degree. And saturn is 3

In navamsa
Libra ascendant.

1st house: ketu in Libra.
2nd house : mars in Scorpio ( not sure if it is called vargottama).
3rd house: Venus in Sagittarius.
4th house: sun in Capricorn.
7th house: saturn Jupiter and rahu conjunction in aries. ( please kindly enlighten me on this part and explain. Saturn is debilitated)
9th house.: moon in Gemini
12th house: mercury in Virgo ( again I m not sure if it is vargottama) but it creates viprit raja yoga.

Rahu ketu values are taken as actual not mean.

Kindly enlighten me.

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Re: Disastrous first marriage.

Post by Dev » 07 Jan 2016

You are running sun dasa who is 7th lord, he is in 8th with 8th lord. Mars is in 2nd house. Jupiter aspects 8th house but mars and saturn also aspect 8th house. Venus is in 6th. ketu in 7th. So not very promising wrt marriage. Get other opinions.
Do you argue a lot?

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Post by Mitteyph » 07 Jan 2016

Well I do understand it is sort of messed up.
But isn't there anything that can be done about it?
Also I would like to know if I am going to get married again?

Well usually I m not very talkative I m one of the silent types and I tend to avoid arguments with others... But I do argue with my closed ones and my folks sometimes.

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Re: Disastrous first marriage.

Post by Dev » 07 Jan 2016

Your mercury is only vargottama exalted and quite strong.
Yes in navamsa, sat is debilitated but he is in kendra with jupiter which is the saving grace.
7th lord sun is aspected by sat in the navamsa too.
Hope you wont mind me asking, you may have quarrels, arguments, difference of opinion and fights with your father, is it so?
You can try parihara for sun doing adityahrudayam on sundays and thursdays.

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Re: Disastrous first marriage.

Post by Mitteyph » 07 Jan 2016

Yes, that is true we do have difference in opinions always.
We have never agreed to same thing and every time either of us have to compromise. It's more like we can't stay without neither we can stay with each other without differences. It is rough.

But this doesn't actually answer the question of will I be married again?

My mom used to see some astrologer when I was young and he told my mom to make me recite hanuman chalisa everyday... I have been doing it since past 10yrs and more.

I have also started learning about astrology. But I am a novice and a total amateur.

About what I have interpreted from my chart is that I may be good with finance but my relationship block is totally messed up.
Neither good socially cuz I don't have much friends and neither with the marriage part..

Please do guide me and educate me if I am wrong.

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Re: Disastrous first marriage.

Post by Dev » 08 Jan 2016

See you should seek advice from others as well.
I said based on the dasa and placement of sun in 8th and with 8th lord and the next dasa would be moon dasa.
He is 12th lord.
So I dont see very strong indication of marriage and even if married, it may be a weak one.
But I see intelligence, research oriented approach and so on,

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Re: Disastrous first marriage.

Post by Mitteyph » 08 Jan 2016

Nope.. Moon happens to be in 11th house not in 12th house in birth chart and in navamsa it happens to be in9th.

How can it be a 12th lord. Could you please explain..

And yes I would definitely welcome others opinions as well.

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Re: Disastrous first marriage.

Post by Pem » 08 Jan 2016

Hello Mitteyph
Your main query is : when can I get divorced; and about remarriage.
Kindly state:
date of this marriage; date when first cracks started to appear; and going apart.
and,
2. whether this was an arranged marriage or of your own;
3. the dob of wife as it also gives indications of final divorce.
With the above data, a member will assess better and advise.
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Re: Disastrous first marriage.

Post by Mitteyph » 08 Jan 2016

I have two main queries.
Actually linked up you can say.
1 when will I get out from this mess.?
2 if got out will I re marry.


The crack begin from 10:feb:2015 reached its peak by may 2015

Marriage was performed on 11 may 2013.
No issue.
Girl date 3-7-1990 23:40 nasik city India.

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Re: Disastrous first marriage.

Post by Dev » 08 Jan 2016

Sorry, moon is the 6th lord, and is 12th house from 7 and so will not help in marriage. So remarriage chance according to me look bleak.

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Post by DhoomDhoom » 10 Jan 2016

There is a very strong chance of divorce in your horoscope. Your chart doesn't support marriage.

However, I must say your wife has a much better chart with three swagrahi planets. In fact, SHE seems to have second marriage (2L in 2H) in her destiny. But she might face delay/denial/problems with her child, since Ketu is seated in her 5H and 5L Moon is debilitated.

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Re: Disastrous first marriage.

Post by Mitteyph » 11 Jan 2016

So does that mean I will never get married again?
Or are their any other remedies possible?
If yes then what should be done.

Kindly enlighten.

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Re: Disastrous first marriage.

Post by sgoswami40 » 11 Jan 2016

Divorce may happen within first half of 2016. Seems to be a very painful messy separation with lots of blame game and bad taste. I agree conceiving a child for her is almost denial unless very strong medical intervention and divine blessings set in.

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Re: Disastrous first marriage.

Post by Lex » 12 Jan 2016

Mitteyph wrote:Respected Astrologers,

I am new to this forum. I have started reading and involving myself more into astrology recently after my wife has filed for divorce I m contesting it as the demands are not reasonable. I have had a very difficult period of marriage.
I would request you all to please analyze my chart and help me learn about it.
I would like to know when I can get divorced. I would also like to know if I m going to be married again .
And also if there are some remedies I should follow.

My details are as.follows.

Birth date : 19 September 1988
Birth time : 16:55
Birth place : ulhasnagar, maharashtra, India.

I would be obliged if some of you learned people can help me through it.

Regards,
Mitteyph
Your time of birth mentioned is not tallying with my ruling planets. I analyze chart through K.P.System of astrology.

Please select a K.P.Prashna between number 1 and 249, post Sunrise but before Sunset, wherever you live in Earth, along with that Divine number and post only One query related to your marriage.

Upon receipt of Prashna, I will cast Prashna chart or Horary and than Prognose the chart.

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Re: Disastrous first marriage.

Post by Mitteyph » 12 Jan 2016

Sir @sgoswami40 will I ever get married again?

sir @Lex I select 135 my query would be will I get married again?

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Re: Disastrous first marriage.

Post by lordmihira » 12 Jan 2016

hi

can you please provide your marriage date , time and place also to study marriage time chart

thanks

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Re: Disastrous first marriage.

Post by Mitteyph » 12 Jan 2016

Sir lex,
Today I m posting it before sunset.

Sunrise timing; 7:14. Am.
Number is 135.


Query is will I get married again?

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Re: Disastrous first marriage.

Post by Mitteyph » 13 Jan 2016

Marriage date

11 may 2013
Marriage time 3:30 pm
Marriage place ulhasnagar

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Re: Disastrous first marriage.

Post by Lex » 13 Jan 2016

Mitteyph wrote:Sir lex,
Today I m posting it before sunset.

Sunrise timing; 7:14. Am.
Number is 135.


Query is will I get married again?
The query of yours is.. will you marry second time or multiple marriage ( please note Traditional and K.P.System of astrology acknowledges the marraiges before a Fire( Dharmic ritual) and Regsitered marriage( marriage before a Govt Gazeted officer, like King), live-in relationship etc under research in K.P.System

Today is Wednesday, Budha, when I was plotting your cusps and Grahas position at the latitude I was in, the rising lagna was in Gemini, Budha, in Ardra nk in sub of Shani, today Shani aspects Guru who is vakri, today Chandra transiting in Kumbha, Shani in Satabhista nk, Rahu and Guru asects Chandra, Guru is vakri omitted from Ruling planet, Budha is also vakri


Lets see your mind in Prashna Chart, while posing your query to me for your second marriage, does exist for you?

Chandra is 10th cuspal lord in your Prashna chart, in 4th bhava though in nirayana rasi in 5th in Satabhista nk and in sub of Budha, and Budha is vakri in Uttarashada nk
Rahu doesn't lord any sign in normal zodiac, Rahu is a Chaya graha ( Lordships of Planets been assigned by Lord Siva)
Rahu in 12th in Uttaraphalguni nk, Ravi in 3rd and lord of 11th, in lords of 9th and 12th in 3rd but Vakri, and Ravi in 3rd

Your query doesn't justify related to your 2nd marraige, your query is more towards running away from Present house environment to a distant place for somethin related to your desire or current wish or need ?

Lets see now your Prashna lagna sputa cusp what it says
Thula lagna in Swati nk in sub of Shukra and Shukra is deposited in Jyesta nk
Rahu we have discussed above
Here, Karaka Shukra is coming into play for marriage
1and 8th lord in 2nd in 3 lord of 9 and 12
...Here 2nd bhava is coming into play, addition of assets or family members


Lets check , is your 2nd marriage Promised or not blessed ?

7th cusp longitude deposition in sub of Shukra and Shukra in Jyesta nk
3rd sign is a dual sign and bhava wise occupied by Budha too
...Primafacie looks bright

But I need to see 2nd cusp too, for your multiple marriages
2nd cusp longitude deposition in sub of Rahu

I am sorry to say, your second marriage is not blessed

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