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Relationship Trauma

Post by helprequired » 11 Sep 2015

Dear experts on the forum. Hello to All

O would like to put forth a query on my relationship. I have had couple in the past and this have failed. I am currently in a relationship with girl since April 2015. I am little insecure about it and thus have come here with high hopes to get my doubts cleared.
Is there any break in my current that could be seen. ?
Will I get married to my current partner ?



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Re: Relationship Trauma

Post by revribhav » 12 Sep 2015

If you keep yourself guarded you may lose good friends in personal life.
You are suggested to keep a stable nature and follow commitments.

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Post by helprequired » 12 Sep 2015

Dear Sir

Thanks for your reply.
I am commited to her from the core of my heart. I am just a little insecure because I am leave for couple of years and as such I am little insecure.

That's is why my question. Will this match culminate into marriage

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Re: Relationship Trauma

Post by helprequired » 24 Sep 2015

Please reply scholars

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Post by tandav » 24 Sep 2015

I just typed 3 long paragraphs, not about your chart but about Saturn.
Then I accidently clicked backspace, went to the previous page, and lost the paragraphs.


I'm not a clumsy fool, this was a sign.
This happened another time as well.
I wrote about Saturn and accidently lost paragraphs.

Shani Dev is watching me :D

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Re: Relationship Trauma

Post by helprequired » 27 Sep 2015

My bad Tandav ji

But I am stil waiting for a reply on my query. Experts please help me on this

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Post by demortion » 28 Sep 2015

Jai Sanidev Maharaj
It's Because of Sun-Saturn-Rahu Yuti (Conjunction) in 11th house includes Many Doshas (Grahan Yoga, Sangharsh Dosha, Combusted 11th lord Saturn ).

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Re: Relationship Trauma

Post by helprequired » 29 Sep 2015

Unfortunately my question still remains un answered. Someone please answer my question

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Post by ravinderccmb » 29 Sep 2015

the chart shows there wont be any breakups. Now presently period is favourable for marriage.

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Post by sgoswami40 » 29 Sep 2015

If the marriage could be formally fixed or at least accepted by both parties before 10th Oct, 2015, it may be possible with this girl.

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Post by helprequired » 30 Sep 2015

Dear Ravinder ji and Sgoswami ji
The girl is also ready to marry and does not have any problem with it.
When can we expect the marriage?
I am currently in Europe for master related studies.

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Post by sgoswami40 » 01 Oct 2015

You may re-think about marriage. Based on the time provided, only 15 gunas match out of 36. Compatibility issues will crop up.

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Post by helprequired » 01 Oct 2015

Dear Goswami ji
So you mean to say this relation will come to end?

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Post by ravinderccmb » 01 Oct 2015

according to the girl chart marriage is possible only after 2017. she seems to be of reserved type and also loving and caring person. chart is good with regards to health and progeny.

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Post by helprequired » 01 Oct 2015

Dear Ravinder Ji

Yes you are right. She is very loving and caring.
Right now I am just starting my masters.so it will take two years and she started her MBA so forget two years too. Marriage will be after 2017 only.
So sir will this match take place? Is there any breakup in her chart?
Will we have any issue regarding to marriage?

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Post by subramanianp » 01 Oct 2015

Dear helprequired
Your Moon is heavily afflicted.
You are likely to continue with relationships of shorter durations.
Possibility of a stable married life is under threat.

All the best.
सर्वे भवन्तु सुखिनः।
सर्वे सन्तु निरामयाः।

Astrologically yours.
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Post by helprequired » 01 Oct 2015

Dear Subrananium ji

It is very hard to hear and bear. Unfortunately this hurts alot.
Whole marriage under threat, does this mean I shouldn't marry?

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Post by subramanianp » 02 Oct 2015

Not at all.
I said "you are likely to continue".
Hurdle is with your afflicted Moon.
You can practice yoga (pranayams and meditation) and try hard to achieve a good control over your mind.
Be optimistic.
All the best.
सर्वे भवन्तु सुखिनः।
सर्वे सन्तु निरामयाः।

Astrologically yours.
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Post by helprequired » 02 Oct 2015

Dear Subramanian ji

I am meditating for past week now and its keeping me calm. Thanks for the suggestion.

But I would still like to ask this question. Will my current relation mature into marriage?

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Post by subramanianp » 03 Oct 2015

Thats what I am trying to convey.
It depends on purely your control over the Moon (ie:Mind)
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Re: Relationship Trauma

Post by helprequired » 03 Oct 2015

Dear Subramanian ji

Thanks for your replies and help.
I am meditating. Sometimes I do get restless and wavering thoughts do come.
Trying my best

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Post by Adrika » 24 Apr 2019

Hi

Did your marriage with the same girl happen in 2017?

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Post by helprequired » 06 May 2019

Hi Adrika,

It actually ended 20th september 2017 that year. And since then I basically have been single

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Re: Relationship Trauma

Post by Navpil » 21 Oct 2020

Hello

I came across your thread. Any luck now with marriage

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