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banan
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Hello Forum Experts,

I hope you are all doing well. I would like to request your guidance and suggestions for remedies to address the delay in my marriage. Recently, a renowned astrologer told me that due to the placement of planets in my chart and the presence of Gandanta Dosh, my chances of marriage are either very low or significantly delayed. However, when I checked online Gandanta Dosh calculators, all of them showed no dosh.

Could someone please guide me on this matter and suggest how it can be remedied?

DOB: 7 Nov 1992
TOB: 05:40 AM
POB: Indore, Madhya Pradesh, India

Thanks & Kind Regards,
Sishya
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Hi,
banan wrote: 22 Nov 2024 I would like to request your guidance and suggestions for remedies to address the delay in my marriage. Recently, a renowned astrologer told me that due to the placement of planets in my chart and the presence of Gandanta Dosh, my chances of marriage are either very low or significantly delayed. However, when I checked online Gandanta Dosh calculators, all of them showed no dosh.

Could someone please guide me on this matter and suggest how it can be remedied?

DOB: 7 Nov 1992
TOB: 05:40 AM
POB: Indore, Madhya Pradesh, India
Ideally, it is suggested for an Astrologer to meet with the querent in person - as also consider the time (validate the auspiciousness) of meeting and discuss the situation for the query, before providing Astrological insights.

In the virtual world, it would at least make sense for the querent to share as much relevant information as possible to set the context. In here, you've not even shared the gender (your handle does not give much of clarity either), let alone other relevant details.

Anyways, below are a few generic observations that are relevant for your query:
1. Given birth details place Ascendent or Udaya Lagna in the Zodiac sign of Libra or Tula Rashi. Badha-Karaka Sun/Ravi placed in his Neecha-Sthana or sign of debilitation alongside is probably a hint of inherent false sense of pride.
2. Lagna and Maha-Dasha lord Venus/Shukra is placed in the 2nd house and close to Gandanta degrees...he is Chara Atma-Karaka and his time-period could be a bit challenging. His close conjunction with Rahu and their association with 9th & 12th lord Mercury/Budha is probably an indication of inherent fascination for unconventional choices and mindset.
3. Mars/Kuja the 2nd & 7th lord being placed in his Neecha-Sthana or sign of debilitation is not a good sign... nor the mutual aspect a strongly placed 4th lord Saturn/Shani-dev (which is a form of what is considered to be Agni-Marutha Yoga, an indication of uncontrollable anger/temper, whenever triggered. This is not really supportive of managing/maintaining relationships - specially spousal or with in-laws).
4. Moon/Chanda seems to be adrift in the middle of nowhere. He does not have much of support on either side of the flanks, making him wavery. This would have made you a bit of lonesome person, with very few or fewer close friends and limited or no social life. Further, it would make your mind run wild with imagination and limited focus. This would contribute to wavery mind and delayed/long decision making... often missing opportunities. To make matters worse, Moon/Chandra is placed close to Mrityu Bhaga and within the fatal Trimsamsa degrees (as per Phala Deepika and Brihat Parijapatyam).
5. Incidentally, Moon/Chandra and Saturn/Shani-dev participate in Sukshma Parivarthana, at Nakshatra level... as also Saturn/Shani-dev's aspect on the 7th lord Mars/Kuja (not to mention Ketu being posited in the Lunar Constellation of Mrigashira Nakshtra, ruled by Mars/Kuja have contributed to the delay... and for good reasons.
6. Saturn/Shani-dev in his current transit across the Zodiac sign of Aquarius or Kumbha Rashi has initiated the 2nd round of Sade-Sathi or Saturn/Shani-dev transit across natal placement of Moon/Chandra.

All said and done, I'm inclined to think marriage is delayed and not completely denied. It would perhaps make sense for you to consider strengthening Venus/Shukra by offering special prayers regularly to Goddess Mahalakshmi, with unwavering faith, bhakti/devotion and a strong Sankalpa.

Sincerely...
banan
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Sishya wrote:
> Hi,
>
>
>
> Ideally, it is suggested for an Astrologer to meet with the querent in
> person - as also consider the time (validate the auspiciousness) of meeting
> and discuss the situation for the query, before providing Astrological
> insights.
>
> In the virtual world, it would at least make sense for the querent to share
> as much relevant information as possible to set the context. In here,
> you've not even shared the gender (your handle does not give much of
> clarity either), let alone other relevant details.
>
> Anyways, below are a few generic observations that are relevant for your
> query:
> 1. Given birth details place Ascendent or Udaya Lagna in the Zodiac sign of
> Libra or Tula Rashi. Badha-Karaka Sun/Ravi placed in his Neecha-Sthana or
> sign of debilitation alongside is probably a hint of inherent false sense
> of pride.
> 2. Lagna and Maha-Dasha lord Venus/Shukra is placed in the 2nd house and
> close to Gandanta degrees...he is Chara Atma-Karaka and his time-period
> could be a bit challenging. His close conjunction with Rahu and their
> association with 9th & 12th lord Mercury/Budha is probably an
> indication of inherent fascination for unconventional choices and mindset.
> 3. Mars/Kuja the 2nd & 7th lord being placed in his Neecha-Sthana or
> sign of debilitation is not a good sign... nor the mutual aspect a strongly
> placed 4th lord Saturn/Shani-dev (which is a form of what is considered to
> be Agni-Marutha Yoga, an indication of uncontrollable anger/temper,
> whenever triggered. This is not really supportive of managing/maintaining
> relationships - specially spousal or with in-laws).
> 4. Moon/Chanda seems to be adrift in the middle of nowhere. He does not
> have much of support on either side of the flanks, making him wavery. This
> would have made you a bit of lonesome person, with very few or fewer close
> friends and limited or no social life. Further, it would make your mind run
> wild with imagination and limited focus. This would contribute to wavery
> mind and delayed/long decision making... often missing opportunities. To
> make matters worse, Moon/Chandra is placed close to Mrityu Bhaga and within
> the fatal Trimsamsa degrees (as per Phala Deepika and Brihat Parijapatyam).
> 5. Incidentally, Moon/Chandra and Saturn/Shani-dev participate in Sukshma
> Parivarthana, at Nakshatra level... as also Saturn/Shani-dev's aspect on
> the 7th lord Mars/Kuja (not to mention Ketu being posited in the Lunar
> Constellation of Mrigashira Nakshtra, ruled by Mars/Kuja have contributed
> to the delay... and for good reasons.
> 6. Saturn/Shani-dev in his current transit across the Zodiac sign of
> Aquarius or Kumbha Rashi has initiated the 2nd round of Sade-Sathi or
> Saturn/Shani-dev transit across natal placement of Moon/Chandra.
>
> All said and done, I'm inclined to think marriage is delayed and not
> completely denied. It would perhaps make sense for you to consider
> strengthening Venus/Shukra by offering special prayers regularly to Goddess
> Mahalakshmi, with unwavering faith, bhakti/devotion and a strong Sankalpa.
>
> Sincerely...

Thank you Sishya for sharing detailed analysis and recommendation on my issue. This is my first post on this forum, and all the other astrologers only asked for DOB, TOB, and POB for analysis therefore I didn't provided any other details. My gender is male, please let me know if that makes any changes on your analysis and recommendation. thanks
Sundas
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I am unable to post separately. Please somebody guide. I am in my Ketu Venus dasha
I am a female. My marriage is also greatly delayed. I am losing hope and heart. Despite various tries, i meet liars, opportunists, cheaters and abusive men and unable to like anybody for marriage. Please anybody check my chart and advice please please :(
My DOB: 1st February 1988, TOB: 16:30 pm, Karachi, Pakistan.
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SEEMS YOU ARE A C-SECTION/PREMATURE OR A TWIN BORN.
If you were normal born then you should not be unmarried.

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Sundas
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I am a female. My marriage is also delayed. I am losing hope and heart. Despite various tries, i meet liars, opportunists, cheaters and abusive men and unable to like anybody for marriage. Please anybody check my chart and advice please pleaaaasee :(
My DOB: 1st February 1988, TOB: 16:30 pm, Karachi, Pakistan.
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The promise for marriage is weak, because of inauspicious Mars and Sun. The promise is seen as Bhavesh = Karaka. Bhavesh is 7th house lord and karaka for marriage is Venus. If any of these is inauspicious it creates obstacles in marriage. In your chart Mars(Bhavesh) is inauspicious and hence the obstacles and delay in marriage. Astrological remedies are needed for the inauspicious Mars and also Sun. With prior remedies marriage is possible fromMay-2025 onwards.
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