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Future of marriage

Post by Shaalu » 23 Jul 2020

My birth details

Place of birth: Amritsar, Punjab
Time: 1.50 am
Date of birth: 12 Sep, 1990

Husband details

Place of birth: New Delhi
Time: 7.29 am
Date of birth: 27 Nov, 1990

Need to know future of this marriage



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Re: Future of marriage

Post by Shaalu » 14 Aug 2020

Please respond

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Re: Future of marriage

Post by Sishya » 22 Aug 2020

Hi,

You are currently running Uccha or Exalted Jupiter/Guru Maha-Dasha (as per Vimsottari Dasha system) who is too close (seem to be hugging each other) to Ketu for materialistic/relationship comfort. Your husband is currently running Mercury/Budha Maha-Dasha (again as per Vimsottari Dasha system) who seems to be in Deep Gandanta degree. Obviously, the match has not really been compatible..

It is evident that you are sad, distressed and feel detached in the relationship. And, I'm inclined to think he (your husband) is probably unhappy too.

It might not be a bad idea for both of you to consider seeking help/guidance from knowledgeable and experienced experts for both Vedic/Dharmic remedies as also qualified professional help (Marriage Counselors), in case both of you are keen on saving the relationship.

In the immediate short term though, it might not be a bad idea for you to consider offering special prayers to Lord Ganesha on a regular basis (And, your husband will benefit reading/hearing/chanting of Shri Vishnu Sahasranama - faith permitting and within your belief), with unwavering faith, devotion/bhakti and a strong sankalpa.

Sincerely...

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Re: Future of marriage

Post by Sishya » 25 Aug 2020

Hi,

Out of curiosity and for seek of academic interest, I'm keen to know if you fell in love and married. Please let me/us know, if you don't have an objection for sharing the information.

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Post by Shaalu » 08 Sep 2020

Hi, it was an arranged marriage and we had a courtship period of around 6 months. The match was through matrimonial website.
I am not keen on saving this relationship because more than compatibility issues, the guy has lied to me about some major things and his family is now onto mudslinging me for stepping back.
Let me know your thoughts

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Re: Future of marriage

Post by Sishya » 12 Sep 2020

Hi,

Things indeed have not been pleasant the last few months - almost for about a year. I'm inclined to think the next few months/year will be mixed and uneasy time. Thereafter, it will get a bit more stressful...

Given that the gentleman is not very happy either, I'm hoping both of you could amicably work on getting to a mutually agreeable decision - without using the situation and making it a mudslinging contest. On my part, I feel you are righteous enough to restrain yourself from any mudslinging from your side.

That said, I can only wish you (and your husband) Good luck and Best Wishes...

Sincerely...

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Re: Future of marriage

Post by Shaalu » 13 Sep 2020

Thanks a lot for your quick response. Is there anything i can do to get out of this soon? I am ok for a mutual settlement unlike them.
Let me know so that things can settle down peacefully for me.

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Re: Future of marriage

Post by Shaalu » 24 Sep 2020

Pls reply

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Re: Future of marriage

Post by Shaalu » 27 Sep 2020

Let me know since its quite distressful for me

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Post by Sishya » 05 Oct 2020

Hi,

I had missed your posts and hence the delay in my response - kindly bear with me. Since looking up your posts, I've spent some time to observe planetary positions and their condition.

Before we venture further, please double check and confirm the birth-time you've shared is accurate... you see, Udaya Lagna or Ascendant in your birth-chart is in Sandhi/Cusp and caught in transition - will be changing Rashi in about 5 minutes, as per the time you've shared.

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Re: Future of marriage

Post by Kimahy » 06 Oct 2020

Dear Shaalu,

There is no divorce or mutual seperation in your horoscope. Saturn, Mars, Rahu, Mercury and Jupiter are the planets which are creating trouble in the marriage life.

Your current Major Period(Mahadasa) is of Jupiter. Jupiter been untenanted( has not become nakshatra lord) of any other planet. Jupiter is the sub lord of 6th house and 12th house.

6th house is the negative house for marriage.

This Jupiter is in pushya nakhastra ruled by Saturn. Saturn is placed in 6th house. Saturn is also lord of 8th.

In Jupiter you are in the interlocking period of Mercury(Bhukti Period).
Mercury. Mercury is also untenanted. Mercury is sublord of 10th.

If you wish you can perform remedies. Wear gold band or gold ring in left hand in the smallest finger. ( Do this first)

Followed by
Donate 6 pairs of leather shoes to labors.

Throw 800 gms of black lentils in running water.

Do one remedy in a day . Do the remedies before 12 noon.

Provide feedback after couple of weeks.
Regards,
Kiran Mahyavanshi

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Post by Sujit » 06 Oct 2020

Shaalu wrote:
08 Sep 2020
Hi, it was an arranged marriage and we had a courtship period of around 6 months. The match was through matrimonial website.
I am not keen on saving this relationship because more than compatibility issues, the guy has lied to me about some major things and his family is now onto mudslinging me for stepping back.
Let me know your thoughts
could you share date of marriage.
http://astrologer.Sujit.tripod.com
https://www.quora.com/profile/Sujit-Meledath-1
If you have the right knowledge, EXACT predictions can be made. Astrology is an incredible tool for guidance and one should take note of the energies of changing dasa lords.

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Re: Future of marriage

Post by Shaalu » 12 Oct 2020

Dear Sishya Sir

The birth details are correct and i havr cross checked the same. The marriage date is 2nd Dec, 2019.

I dont want to stay in this marriage because the in laws behavior is really torturous.
I have filed for divorce and due to covid situations everything is slow.

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Re: Future of marriage

Post by Shaalu » 17 Oct 2020

Any update Sishya Sir

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Post by Sishya » 18 Oct 2020

Hi,

You've indicated initiating the divorce process. Given that both of you are separated (not with each other), the time now is for both sides to reflect upon the ills/odds of past, with an open frame of mind and see what destiny has in store for you.

In my humble opinion though, the current Antara-Dasha of Lagna Lord Mercury/Budha will the time for salvaging the relationship. Subsequent Antara-Dasha of Ketu starting November 2021 until mid-October 2022 will probably be challenging and could contribute towards detachment.

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Re: Future of marriage

Post by Shaalu » 19 Oct 2020

You are correct that this time is needed to reconcile and think. But looking at your suggestion, and trying to understand in simple language are you trying to say that this relationship needs to be saved.
We are living separately but they seem to be doing a lot of drama for giving divorce.
This time itself is challenging.

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