Delayed Marriage - please suggest remedial practices

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Ahimsa20
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Delayed Marriage - please suggest remedial practices

Post by Ahimsa20 » 03 Sep 2024

Hello,
Can someone please help me find remedial practices that can help with my very delayed marriage? I feel like I have tried everything. We already did mangal pooja, pitra dosh pooja and many more. I fasted for 16 Mondays for Lord Shivji. Many are interested and then it falls apart at the last moment over and over.
What else can I do?

DOB: 16/5/84
TOB: 17:58
Location: Ajmer, Rajasthan, India

I would be forever grateful and if something works out, will pray for you as well.



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Re: Delayed Marriage - please suggest remedial practices

Post by Sishya » 09 Sep 2024

Hi,

Request you to kindly ignore anything that is not to your taste or liking...and feel free to seek as many alternate opinions as you might like. Just to be clear, my assessment of your birth-chart (see below) is not a judgement of you as an individual. Instead, it is my understanding of your birth-chart and judgement of Planetary/Grahic inclinations/influences.

Given birth-details place Ascendent or Udaya Lagna in the Zodiac sign of Libra or Tula Rashi. Presence of sworn enemies Saturn/Shani-dev and Mars/Kuja (both Vakra or Retrograde) alongside seems to be a major chart-spoiler. Moon/Chandra is the 10th lord in his Neecha-Sthana or sign of debilitation and Sun/Ravi the 11th lord (a Badha-Karaka) are caught in the Ketu-Rahu axis is not preferred either. You seem to have extreme anger/temper issues... to the extent of not knowing or realizing what you might have said or done, when you lose your cool/calm composure.

Further, Mercury/Budha in the 7th house of Relationship is not preferred... you see unnecessary talk/chatter and/or overt display of intelligence does not bode well for managing / maintaining a healthy relationship and can be detrimental for related significance.

For the records, Mars/Kuja has very low Shadbala and in Mrita-Avastha is not a good sign. You are at the fag end of Venus/Shukra Maha-Dasha and will start Maha-Dasha of Badha-Karaka Sun/Ravi after a couple of months... and you seem to have limited Yogas for a happy married life. In case you are truly interested, you'll need to consider an unconventional alliance and please make sure to match profiles (to find somebody who has an ability to bear with you...while you need to be able to do the same).

Sincerely...

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