Hi Rita Ji and Everyone ,
Was always looking for online links to discover about Shani dev Sade sati challenge and people going through it . After reading all what you guys wrote , felt somewhere I am not alone
my name is Rajat
11:15 Am are my details.
My phase of life before Shani sade sati ( 2009 ) and Shani Mahadasha ( 2010-2029 ) anyways was rough . I lost my father in 2004 ( was murdered ) . My grandparents and cousins made my life a living hell . was bullied , beaten badly by my classmates and my whole school life is a rotten memory now .
I was never accepted by my grandparents due to beauty issues they had with me , so was ignored . I was turning weak in my studies due to being bullied badly and was aggressively beaten by my dad . he used to beat me like an animal at times . Don't have good memories at all ( even post his death ) .
Now while shani dev came into the scene of Sadi sati , he made me walk through/on eruptions of volcano . joined a company in 2010 after my 12th and lost my job in 2012 due to a selfish deed I did and since then am jobless .
On a seasonal basis he gave me an opportunity to do free lance . like once in 3-4 months , sometime not even that . went through terrible physical problems and financial problems where at times I used to bleed like hell crazy and plus was caught with back issues , so couldn't even walk.
since 2010 , I had shed bloody tears due to my personal affair ( which never ever worked ) , sometimes due to money and mostly health too . Even a mere thought from past drags me to a time which still shivers me off . Applied for thousands of jobs and NO luck till date since 2012 . Between I did a job for 03 months and company fired all of their employees including me due to financial issues .
I do pranic healings as medium ( hobby) , read tarot as my interests towards white occult to understand life and karma . All I could understand shani dev till date is ,if one tries the best to get rid of ( karmic) effects of sade sati whichever possible way ( via stones , upaya etc . ) nothing works . He ll ensure of hitting the most delicate/exquisite area in your life which one loves the most , takes away those things which are mentally and physically bounding us , takes away the one we even try to love etc .
I used to cry allot thinking of killing myself . But now with passing time ,Being 30 I have started accepting as many things I can digest . I have stopped running after anything besides Lord Shiva and Maa Parvati as I believe they are the one Shani dev would never take me away from . Its all mental control , inside there . Process of learning detachment . The more we run after something , he takes it away .
The more we try to do something , it gets finished/Vanished badly . I have stopped applying for jobs and waiting eagerly for oct 26th , 2017 since march 2017 . All I can say out of my experience is to have patience and stop running after anything in life .
I consulted a good astro last year in 2016 dec and was happily asking him my job prospects post jan 2017 , as shani dev sade sati was leaving . He informed me that even if its leaving TULA rashi for a few months , the effects shall go a little less , but effects shall remain same . Once he is back completely in tula , he`ll finish his due tasks till oct 26 , 2017.
suggestions to all my brothers and sisters out of my experience .
Lord Shani isn't Bad by heart , he himself went through toughest phases of life and that made a right justice to balance karma ( being non buyist in everyone's life ) Blessed by Lord Shiva himself. One doesn't have to convince him with upayas and all , you just need to follow the right karma during this phase especially . By ensuring of not doing anything that is harming someone directly or indirectly or even emotionally .He`ll ensure of testing you by giving you lucrative opportunities of wrong jobs , wrong partnerships , wrong way of income during financial stress . but its one`s self analysis to accept it or not . if one accepts , then be ready too , to go through toughest of time`s as he/she hasn't learnt what he expects .
If one has a job , then keep a damn low profile during this phase . do not take too many useless initiatives , just keep on doing your work as desired .
if one is jobless , then either you sit back at home and work on self or do whatever fits you or you get on platter .
if one has emotional issues due to relationships and associated challenges , its better to stop running after them and work on something practical for self betterment .
If one sleeps around with married people or ruin relationships , even of those who are committed ..then its an advice to stop it there and then . because then one may get to face the same thing n no of times in his life.
if one needs love and has a lot of physical issues , to stop them I`ll suggest start worshipping Maa Lalitha Tripura Sundari and Lord Shiva . You`ll immediately notice relief . Any bigger to smaller health or other issues may disappear , depending upon your faith . Lord Shiva and Maa Lalitha does listen to anyones prayer , whosoever knocks their door . its my personal experience . One may not achieve things material wise during Sade sati phase , but yes will get a lot of mental relief and of course physical ailments would disappear . Which is again quite an achievement for one to grow . The more one offers prayer to Lord Shiva and Lalithambigayi , will still learn lessons but not in a tough way . one shall be blessed with self analysis which would be like sign from BABA AND MAA .